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    Posted 06 September 2016 - 06:10 PM


    Read carefully because failure to abide by the rules could result in you being permanently banned.


    If a rule is broken, the severity of the act will determine the consequences. These consequences include: messages, warnings, moderated content, inability to create content, and banning. Repeat offenses after a member has been told to stop their behavior (or depending on the severity of the behavior) will result in more severe consequences.


    Rules indicated with a number like this (#) are complete with footnotes (found at the bottom of the page) for clarification.


    Rules are placed in the section that is most relevant, but are not explicitly for that section only.


    GENERAL RULES━☆゚.*・。゚


    • Be respectful and courteous of each other and our staff.

      • The staff is here to help. Remember that you can contact us for any of the following reasons: (always screenshot suspicious behavior or rule breaking)

    1. If someone breaks the rules.

    2. If you have a question about a warning or message you’ve received.

    3. If someone shows predatory behavior.

    4. If you have evidence or hints that someone is underage.

    5. If you are not sure where to post something, or if it is allowed at all.

    • Contact us for other questions you may have.

    • Screen captures are permitted only for the purpose of filing a report with the sites Moderation team. Making reports range from members breaking chat room rules, minors on the forum, to predatory behavior on or off-site.

      • Any transfer of images from this site to any other location is strictly prohibited and will result in an immediate ban.

    • No harassment or trolling. (1)

    • Do not speak ill of other members (past or present) in chat or publicly.

    • Catfishing will result in an automatic ban. (2)

      • Do not upload images of other people--famous or not--and claim to be them.

    • No couples accounts or multiple user accounts. This is due to catfishing concerns and not wanting to unfairly punish one member for another member's actions.

    • Hate speech is not tolerated. This includes but is not limited to religion, race, sexual orientation, sex, and gender.

    • Whilst we respect healthy debate, do so with respect and do not personally attack other people.

    • Do not use pet names or nicknames with people without their consent. This includes but is not limited to nicknames such as “babygirl”, “princess”, “sir”, “daddy”, “sweetheart”, or “honey”. Refer to members by their Username if you don’t know them.

    • Be mindful of other users and put a trigger warning ahead of any potentially triggering comments.  Jokes about suicide, assault, and self-harm will be removed and the member will be issued a warning point.  Discussions about triggering subjects will be reviewed by the staff on a case by case basis.

    • No discussing or advertising outside social media sites (ex. Discord) or groups( ex. Skype, Kik) in public chat or on the threads. Feel free to talk to your friends in private but we can not be held liable for any issues that go on in these sites or groups.

    • No multiple accounts. If you want to make a new account, delete the current one. If you forget your password for an old account, please contact a member of the moderating team right away.

    DDlg is between consenting adults

    • You must be at least 18 years of age to participate in this community. Users found to be below 18 will be removed from the site.

      • Users found to have joined the site underage but are now over 18 will also be removed. (3)

    • Promotion or interest shown in minors (age less than 18) joining or being a part of the DDLG Lifestyle will result in a ban, regardless of your State or Country Laws.  This is explained in depth below:

      • You cannot openly discuss yourself as a minor being involved in DDLG, regardless of your current age.

      • Accepting or sending friend requests to members whose age states they are below the age of 18 will not be tolerated.

      • Stating that you are interested in minors, on or off site, will result in an immediate ban.

      • Replying to a personal in which the age clearly states they are below the age of 18 will result in an immediate ban.

    • No discussion of illegal activities--jokes or otherwise. It will not be tolerated and will result in immediate consequences. This includes but is not limited to:

      • Sexual acts involving actual minors, solicitation(4), incest, rape, bestiality, murder, etc.

    Health issues

    • If a member needs advice concerning mental or physical health issues, encourage the member to seek professional care.  Refrain from giving explicit medical/psychiatric advice(5). Examples that are not allowed include:

      • “I’m depressed what should I do if I don’t want meds?”

      • “I need advice on what to do about my bipolar disorder.”

    • We encourage body positivity in our community. Please, be respectful of other people's beauty. 

    • The promotion of or positive reference to eating disorders will not be tolerated. Examples include:

      • Proana or bulimia sites, blogs, or pictures.

      • Talk of purposely not eating/drinking to lose weight quickly OR talk of throwing up food that was eaten to lose weight.

      • There are many survivors, recuperating, and still struggling members who battle eating disorders because of DDLG stereotypes. People come in all shapes and sizes.

    NEW THREADS━☆゚.*・。゚

    • Use the search bar to see if a topic has been previously discussed.

    • If you wish to have a thread or post deleted, contact a member of the Moderating Team.

    • If the staff sees a topic that is repeated continuously, there is a chance the staff will either merge all alike threads, or remove your thread and link you to the existing topic. The staff is not trying to stifle the members by doing this, rather decluttering the site and making advice and posts more easily accessible for our members.

    • You are allowed to bump any of your threads once every 24 hours.

    • Fishing for likes is not allowed. (6)

    • No off-topic replies to threads.

    • Try to put things in the appropriate sections. If you're not sure where to put something, ask forum staff.

    • You can make as many topics and threads as you please, as long as you aren’t spamming the forum. Check first to see if the topic has already been discussed (use the search feature).

    • Self promotion of your creative side and posting of your art etc is encouraged, however public promotion of external sites whereby you personally gain profit is not allowed. This includes threads asking for ideas for a business in which you stand to gain monetarily.


    • You are free to express any opinions so long as they don't go against any other rules.

    • Be considerate towards others.

      • Do your best to greet new members.

      • Whilst we can appreciate healthy debate we do ask that you do so with respect and do not personally attack the other people you're debating with.

      • Be mindful of other users and potentially triggering comments.

      • Chat is not a battleground for relationship disagreements or arguments. Do this in private.

      • Try to avoid excessive PDA and role playing, it makes other members uncomfortable and can make it hard for others to join in.

      • Be respectful and civil of all members in chat regardless of your personal feelings towards them.

      • Keep your “hands” to yourself unless you have permission to sit on, hug, poke, or in any way touch another member.

    • Tag links as SFW (Safe For Work) or NSFW (Not Safe For Work). If someone asks you to give more detail about the link, please give more detail.

      • NSFW content includes violence, lingerie, sex toys, excessive swearing.

      • NSFW content such as porn or illegal activities are NOT allowed in chat.

    • If a member of the moderation team asks you to stop doing something, please stop. Feel free to message them privately for more information if you are confused.

      • If a mod asks you to stop, but you continue, you will be kicked from the room.

      • If a mod is not there and there is screen shot proof that you continue after members ask you to stop discussion of a topic that is highly offensive or triggering, you may risk receiving a warning point.

    • Chat room kicks are based on behavior. If you are kicked twice within a short period of time, you risk your chat privileges being revoked for a period of suitable time or harsher consequences, depending on the severity of the act.

    • No "mini-modding". This is defined as:

      • A regular member acting like a moderator without having the authority.

      • Leave warnings and enforcing rules to the forum staff. It’s likely you will just escalate the situation otherwise.

      • If you are having an issue with a member or see something in clear violation of the rules, use the report feature and take screenshots.


    • Do not upload photos or videos of anyone under the age of 18. You will be immediately banned from this site if you do.

    • Do not upload pictures with multiple people in it, or pictures of other people if their face is visible.

    • Do not upload or share pornographic or suggestive content. This includes sexual organs, nude buttocks, or nipples--regardless of sex or gender.

    • Do not post contact details or social media details of other people on the site.


    • Follow the personals format. Failure to do this will result in your personal ad being deleted and you having to start again.

      • The format is provided to you when creating one, and is as follows:

    Age: Required

    Little Age:




    Sexual Orientation:

    Looking for:

    Relationship preference (Polyamory , Monogamous , or other):

    Number of partners I have:

    • If you are searching for multiple partners see footnote. (7)

    • To ensure our members receive quality replies when looking for a partner(s):

      • Our reply facility has a 75 word minimum.  Posts found to use filler text to reach this minimum will be removed.

      • Copy/paste responses to ads will be removed.

      • Personal responses addressed to anyone other than the original poster will be deleted.

    • Multiple personal ads are not allowed; if changes are needed you can edit or bump your original ad.  New ads will be considered duplicates and will be deleted.

    • We do not allow the creation of personal ads for anyone other than yourself.


    Staff reserve the right to:

    • Terminate a user’s account at their discretion. If you violate a concern not explicitly outlined in the Community Rules & Guidelines, staff may terminate, suspend or post restrict your account provided a majority of the staff agree that action must be taken.

    • Update and/or modify the rules. We cannot always foresee future problems. If a situation does arise that is not clearly written in the rules, we will alter the rules and act upon the situation.


    1. We define this to be undertaking in actions that repeatedly and deliberately cause distress to one or more users.

    2. Catfishing is defined as someone who pretends to be someone they're not--famous or otherwise. They create false identities and fake social media accounts, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances. Members may have profile pictures or names reminiscent of famous individuals so long as they do not claim to be that person.

    3. *If you joined this site when you were a minor you were putting yourself and our other members at legal risk. Out of respect to our other members you will be banned. Contact with minors can result in serious legal issues.

    4. Solicitation is defined as offering something of value whether monetary or possessions in return for sexual activity of any type whether in real life or via cam, we do not condone such posts, threads or behavior. First offense will result in a warning, second offense will result in a permanent ban. Sugar babies or sugar daddies fall under this category.

    5. Asking members if your mental or physical disorders make you unlovable or incapable of having a partner puts them in an unfair and awkward position. Everyone is capable of finding a partner and being loved, regardless of any disorders or disabilities you may have.

    6. Threads or posts cannot contain comments like "Like my post and I'll give you my kik!".
    7. THIS post explains what you need to know about having a Personal Ad here for a relationship with more than 2 people.


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