Are any of you little's slaves as well
Posted 20 August 2017 - 11:31 PM
Posted 21 August 2017 - 12:10 AM
Posted 29 August 2017 - 10:50 PM
Well I'm a little but I'm super submissive, so I kind of automatically become a slave to my daddy. I'd do whatever he'd tell me to do as long as it would make him happy, because if I'm able to please him and make him happy, I'll be happy as well. I guess the easiest way to explain it is that his happiness is my happiness c:
Posted 31 August 2017 - 07:36 PM
There's no right or wrong mixture, it's whatever works for you and feels right which should be embraced. With my little, on the one hand I'm a devoted caregiver but I know and completely understand that she's at her happiest and most contented when she's kneeling at my side. I think the two things can work perfectly together
Posted 01 September 2017 - 02:19 PM
When Daddy and i first started dating W/we very quickly became D/s leaning toward M/s. No prior BDSM experience for either of U/us, it just naturally evolved.
A couple years in W/we happened to fall into Ddlg and i fell in looooovvvvee with it. That carried forward for a long time even through my first pregnancy. After O/our first daughter was born my entire world shifted and it felt odd to crave being cared for in a childlike way as i had thrown myself into being supermom. He wasn't feeling the energy of DDlg either at that point and excepting a rare night of ageplay sex or occasional play with ropes or floggers, W/we kind of lost all of O/our BDSM dynamics for a while.
When i was pregnant with #3, W/we did jump back into BDSM with renewed passion, but it was only the M/s part and i followed His lead on it all.
As W/we were back into the BDSM lifestyle, i often felt envious of the girls who lived DDlg. Even though there was much pride and fulfillment to be had in slavery, i was missing something dear and special. i literally just kept hoping He would one day start up the DDlg part again.
When i was almost to the end of pregnancy #4 (the last one! 4 is more than enough. Lol) He did start treating me like His babygirl again, and i was THRILLED but He tapered it off after the baby was born and i found myself longing frustrated again.
i finally got up the courage to talk to Him about it after a few attempts that went nowhere.
He said He had thought O/our relationship had evolved away from DDlg and did not desire that type of dynamic with me anymore. -- i can't even type about that without crying. -- But... He said He would be willing to work on reinstating it if it was so important to me. And He has.
i am still a slave, and i still serve Him, bottom for His sadistic toys, and defer to Him in general. But i get to be His babygirl, too. And that is, right now, most important to me. It is hard, because i want more of O/our dynamic in day to day life. When He applies Himself, He is amazing and my needs are off the charts met!! i just want to feel that way ALL the time, i guess.
Communicate your needs and desires with your daddy!! That could have saved me some heartache if i had been better about speaking up about what i truly desired instead of merely hoping He would magically come back to where i wanted Him.
i wish you the bestest luck! i absolutely believe it is possible to be both roles, and to feel fulfillment in both. 💜
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