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    #1 DaddyDom_Dan

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    Posted 10 January 2017 - 04:23 AM

    So for some background; my little and i both have had a little experience in online ddlg relationships, but not in a real life relationship.

    Two days ago she mentioned she had a daddy fetish out of the blue, and was expecting me to be weirded out but after some talking, managed to convince her that i was also interested in the lifestyle. After a bunch of awkward questions and what not, we kinda figured out some of what each of us is interested in.

    For the time being, we decided that we would keeo all the aspects of the ddlg dynamic, but id be more of a caregiver than a Daddy towards the beginning and i'll be addressed as Sir rather than Daddy until further notice. This is only because she doesnt know if she can consider someone younger than her to be a Daddy figure (she's 23 and I'm 20.) Other than the age issue, we both fit our role very well and she has slipped and called me Daddy a few times over the past two days.

    TL;DR- my s/o and i are both first timera in a real life ddlg relationship. Looking for a good place to start our adventure into the lifestyle, basic rules to put into place until we can make our own specific rule list, and any other tips/advice?

    Oh, we also live together if thats important or not.

    #2 MissJellybean

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    Posted 10 January 2017 - 01:56 PM

    Welcome!

     

    Here's a great link to some rules that you can check out and maybe get inspiration from: https://www.ddlgforu...are-your-rules/

     

    And a great general starting thread: https://www.ddlgforu...or-new-daddies/

     

    I hope these help! Good luck.


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