LilUnicorn Posted January 12, 2017 Report Posted January 12, 2017 My Daddy is really mean. I can't just confront him about it. It would hurt his feelings. I can't leave him either. He means so much to me. What should I do??
Guest Posted January 12, 2017 Report Posted January 12, 2017 If you are not going to talk to him it's not going to get better , and if your not gonna leave then not sure what you want to hear? He is not gonna stop being mean if you don't try and stop it. 2
LilUnicorn Posted January 12, 2017 Author Report Posted January 12, 2017 Okay, I'll talk to him. Thank you for helping me.
Guest Posted January 12, 2017 Report Posted January 12, 2017 Just be up front and honest. Hear one another out.
Guest Isabelle Posted January 12, 2017 Report Posted January 12, 2017 Don't put up with it. You deserve respect, if he isn't respecting you he needs to hear about it so he can change it. If he doesn't change, consider your own emotional and mental health staying with someone like that. I've spent thirty years living an alcoholic and emotionally abusive father. Needless to say I've been in ongoing therapy for over three years now.
Guest Daddy_for_babygirl Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 I'm glad to hear that you are going to talk to him about it. If he doesn't change his ways once you talk to him about it, it's time to move on.
DaddyCue109 Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 (edited) I cant imagine my little telling me I did something she thought was mean and not being really concerned. I hope it goes well for you both Clear and open communication are vital, but it takes two Edited January 30, 2017 by DaddyCue109
Guest Daddy F Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 I know it was said in a earlier post I saw about the rash of 'mean daddy' posts where it's always the Daddys fault..... So as I enjoy playing Devils Advocate..... Is it possible you're Daddy is not mean but instead he's simply not doing what you think he should be so you're only solution is that he's mean because you aren't getting what you want?
LilUnicorn Posted January 13, 2017 Author Report Posted January 13, 2017 He yells at mes a lot. Even whens I didn't do anythings wrong. >~<
Guest Candy Minx ♡ Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 well, we're really only getting a very small bit of information here. your daddy yells at you at apparent random reasons and this hurts your feelings but instead of communicating this to him, you don't want to hurt HIS feelings so you take what he dishes out? there is literally only one way to fix this and that's to talk. are you sure there's nothing more going on here that would cause an outburst? not that yelling is really okay to begin with.
LilUnicorn Posted January 13, 2017 Author Report Posted January 13, 2017 Wellz, he also gets really jealous and gets mad when I talk to other guys.
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted January 13, 2017 Report Posted January 13, 2017 Wellz, he also gets really jealous and gets mad when I talk to other guys. There is a difference in jealousy and possessiveness. My Daddy is very posssessive and protective. He doesn't like for me to talk to other guys, Daddies, or Doms in private. It has absolutely nothing to do with jealousy or mistrust for me. He simply doesn't trust anyone with his little girl, and while he does not want to limit my contact and ability to make friends, he does want to limit my risk. Therefore he's put that rule in place, however he has the same rule for himself with the situation reversed. It eliminates questions and reduces the risk for innappropriate situations to arise (not eliminate, but reduces). I'm not saying your Daddy is the same way, but try to consider it from his side as well.
DaddysMonkey Posted January 15, 2017 Report Posted January 15, 2017 (edited) Hello there ! From the way you make it sound , it seems like you are scared of your Daddy. Not a respectful fear of him but just flat out afraid of his outbursts of being "mean" as you put it. I don't think anyone should tolerate someone constantly being mean to them , that is nonsense. I think you should communicate with him and try to figure out the root of this problem , maybe he doesn't think he is being mean ? Have you discussed limits and terms or your relationship ? Ask yourself , what do you like/love about him ? What is so great about him that justifies him being mean to you ? There is no good enough characteristic or quality about a person that should make you tolerate being treated in a mean way. You should value you yourself enough to demand being treated well. My Daddy is really mean. I can't just confront him about it. It would hurt his feelings. I can't leave him either. He means so much to me. What should I do?? Is he not hurting your feelings as well ? You CAN leave him unless you fear your life is in danger , in which case you should contact somebody about that. He yells at mes a lot. Even whens I didn't do anythings wrong. >~< My Daddy and I had very different views on what yelling was until we communicated with each other when and how we actually thought each other were yelling. If you believe you did nothing wrong , you need to tell him that. Communication is key. Wellz, he also gets really jealous and gets mad when I talk to other guys. Do you know what is making him jealous ? Are there other , underlying reasons why he could be getting so angry or upset ? Once again I believe communication is key. Edited January 15, 2017 by Daddysmonkey 2
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