Guest gravelb2123 Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Hey everybody, my nickname is Harry, kind of new to DDLG by about 6 months. I wanted to use this profile to meet some people and get some understanding of what kind of daddy I can/want to be, and somewhere down the road meet my little. I've had a couple of littles before but they were both long-distance and I couldn't handle that, not being able to hold my little and all. What I really want to figure out is if I should be a daddy or not. Sometimes I feel as if I need someone to look after me, and that is why I was considering being a switch, but I'm not entirely sure what that entails. And at the same time I am comforted when I comfort others. Sorry if I'm rambling on or if I'm using too big of words for the sweet littles out there. Just please help me answer these. What is the main idea of being a switch? Can you be a true daddy dom without being so strict but wanting more comfort than punishment? Does the daddy have to only be the strong one in the relationship? I encourage a discussion that will help me come to a conclusion on these questions and others that may arise. Hope you all have a great day! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest QueenJellybean Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Welcome to the Forum! You'll have a lot of luck finding the answers to these questions by searching our Forum, and popping into the chatroom to get to know new people. Thanks for introducing yourself! To roughly answer your questions, being a switch means something different for everyone, but in the loosest sense of the word, it means someone who can switch between roles, dynamics, or types of play styles with another person. Usually, it means someone who is both Dom and Sub, or Caregiver and Little. But it can mean different things in different relationships, and between different people! The Daddy /shouldn't/ be the only strong one in the relationship! You should be learning, growing, and improving yourselves together! It's unrealistic to expect the Dominant to just be a stronger person, and also unfair to Submissives/Littles who consider themselves strong and independent. And there are different styles of being a Daddy for everyone, and a more gentle and comforting style is very common in this community! You certainly aren't alone there. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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