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How do i tell her i want to be her Daddy?


CorruptedPotato

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So i am completely new to this lifestyle and i just found out my girlfriend is a little, let me tell the story how i found out.
 
Well it was a little obvious as of the beginning because of her love for onesies and colouring books.
Also the way she acts like a little brat at times. 
 
The thing that really made me realize it is when we always had group calls with our mutual best friend would always highlight the word "little" no matter the topic or context and they'd always laugh.
I eventually caught on and would tease her a little about it.
Until last night when we were talking and she admitted that her previous relationship was a dd-lg and she said she was dragged into it.
However i knew that wasn't true so i teased her about it by saying "yeah sure (sarcastic tone) dragged in".
And she laughed and lightly said "Shut up hehe".
Later on it got really late and the later it got the more it got her in a little mood and she said she gets in a real little mood late at night. At that point she was completely open about it.
 
It was late and we were both tired. She really had to go to sleep because she had to be up early in the morning.
 So i had an idea the best way i could get her to sleep is to act a little like a Daddy and tell her if she wouldn't go to sleep that there would be consequences and she replied with "Noo that isn't fair" and then i started slowly counting down from ten and it worked i got her to sleep.
I enjoyed that and It shows that it could eventually have a dd-lg relationship.

However it has only been our first month in her relationship and she is really shy and keeps stuff to herself so our relationship is growing a little slower than most. That's why i think its a little early but i don't know when will it be a good time to ask or how to ask.
 
So this is why i am writing this to hopefully get some help.  :)

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Honestly it sounds like your already doing everything right! Just keep doing everything your doing now. Interact and encourage her when she is in little space. A lot of times your role as daddy in a relationship will just fall into place, there is no need to ask.
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I agree completely with the above. It's already progressing that way. Keep doing what you're doing. The whole counting down thing, i'm sure she can already see that side of you coming out too.

 

Just let it develop naturally.

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Thanks Guys! i just don't want to seem too obvious because im new to this and i dont want to get anything wrong. If you can give me some general tips i would be really gratefull. :)

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The other guys nailed it already.  Be a Daddy to her.  You don't have to broadcast it or toss out the terms, just do it.  She will quickly recognize that what she needs, she is finding in you.  It's quite natural that way.  All the best to you and yours.

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you got this!! keep doing what youre doing! but dont be afraid to ask her to be her daddy if you want to! im sure shed be down for it!!

do your research so you know lots about it going into it so you know its what you want :)

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Just to reiterate what has already bern said, you're doing great so just keep up the good work.

 

There is always that chance that neither will have to ask the other, it could (as it seems to already) come naturally. There is also the chance that she could ask you. My Daddy didn't know about the DDlg lifestyle at all, but he fit the role of the caregiver with ease and was not put off by my little behavior. So after a bit I introduced him to DDlg and asked him to be my Daddy. Best decision I ever made and best relationship I've ever been in.

 

It seems like youve got a pretty good handle on things. Best of luck :)

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