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KiltedDaddy
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Hello fellow Cgs....

So, Been on here for a little while now (excuse the pun). Wrote my personal about a week ago.. Most Littles - a few, have got in touch via Kik. My main purpose of this post is just to see if others like myself are experiencing very brief conversations. Gone in 60 seconds is an exaggeration on my part, but its Not far off it. im very good a keeping conversation going , very Polite, never any sexualized chat... So l'm a bit miffed at the often short responses, no questions ( most of time) and then gone!! Is my Luck out, are most Littles like this??? l get the Littles are shy and timid, i know this full well but initally You want to be Talking to the Big girl for the most part.. Sorry, this is sounding like a rant. I hear all the time about ' Ghost Daddies, but for me the Shoe is on the other foot. Granted its often only a few hours of conversation, Stop / Start. Anyway, give me a shout about it if your just as frustrated as me! All the best

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I am not a cg, but I think most comes down to just, hitting it off. Some people are very chatty, some are not. I've had cg's ask many questions, but when i write looong explicit replies (cause I'm a chatterbox haha), and I get an "i see" or "okay :)" or just a smiley it doesn't encourage further chatting. Then I just assume people are not that interested, questions or not :) But maybe you just haven't found someone you get along well with yet? There are many littles, and I like to believe that even though we all have many similar qualities we also have many different personalities, just like cg's :) Keep trying and hopefully soon you will find a little that is just perfect for you, and you'll be able to chat all day long :heart:

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So I can not speak to other avenues but the chat room on this site seems to be a great place to hold conversations. Most of the conversations I have held on there have lasted from 10 minutes to an hour and a half and usually end because someone needs to go. There is no private chat feature at the moment but that is ok as we are just talking. The private chats I've had through the board messenger have also gone on for a while, but they are with people I have chatted a bunch with.

 

So my advice. Try this board's chat room. 

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In all honesty I think it's the nature of the internet these days. When you first met someone you want to gauge them and see how they respond. I'm not a CG, I'm a little but when you first talk to me I don't show any of my submissiveness or my little or any other side of me at all. I'm just a girl getting to know a guy and more importantly I'm just another person.  Since you did mention meeting littles maybe it's just that they are being submissive and obedient and are waiting on you to tell them to talk more.

 

I'm just an open book and social all the time. I talk a lot. Ask my Daddy but that's how I show him I'm interested in him and what he has to say. I try to engage Daddy a lot but again that's me.  I'm not always in my little space when we talk either. Daddy can correct me here, if he wants but, it's good to have a conversation and let it flow.

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The only thing I can tell you about this. Is try a different approach. Getting to know a Little you are potentially interested in can be enticing, you want to know everything about them and you want to do everything. That, high you get, is like no other but it can also hinder things. How about trying a different approach. Saying hello, seeing how they are. I am currently floating right now, my little said she needed a break and blocked me on everything. i don't know if she left me or if we are together so I am not looking, HOWEVER I will message both daddies and littles and talk to them. Some are shy, some are soft spoken or introverted, you need to bring them out a bit. It's like a small puppy or kitten that was abused and untrusting of humans. You don't run up and pick them up and cuddle them, you sit there clicking your tongue, making kissy noises, giving them some sort of food and giving them reassurance and comfort through your voice until they get to know you. The same goes for anyone who is introverted. Instead of just going out there, try to get them comfortable with you. They want people to bring them out, that "sweep me off my feet" thing. Why not buy some coloring books, and then color them a picture? Ask how they are and say things like "ok" and "fine" and "alright" aren't good enough they need to be fantastical! Try showing them stuffies, show them cute outfits ect. You need to get them in a place they are comfortable. If they are shy, then they are uncomfortable with talking to people, you need to get them in subjects and areas where they are comfortable but be yourself. I've colored pictures for littles and it's been platonic, I've sent help to them and inspirational messages when some need it, I show them some things I thought were cute and picked up for my LG. And get them to say it's cute, and start talking, ask questions slowly. If they like lala loopsie, or if they like barbies, or something related to what you showed. They will grow comfortable and start talking and you two can get to know each other better. That's the only advice I can really offer.

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  • 3 weeks later...

Hi,

Got to agree with Plumflower, it seems to be how it is, more ways to communicate and no one bothers half the time.

I've had the same thing happen in vanilla online dating recently, 3 or 4 messages exchanged then they're gone. Or if it's longer than 4 messages, like you've experienced, the replies are short and don't encourage further communication from you.

Another example, I'm in a Kik group trying to organise a meet up, no one responds when you ask "what date is everyone free?" The message I said read, no one replies. I find it really odd, if I'm honest.

You just have to keep chipping away til you find someone you're compatible with. And being brutally honest, you sometimes have to think, maybe that's why they're single, they don't know how to communicate or open up enough to meet someone....

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