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    #1 Guest_sippykitty_*

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    Posted 16 July 2017 - 01:58 PM

    Hi all,

     

    I was thinking that the ddlg forum could provide a more of an interactive, get to know feature to it so I have come up with the idea of having arranged/planned skype call dates and times were the sites members can physically see and/or talk to another through a huge skype call with loads of other littles and daddy's. This will give the sites members a more of an inviting experience and ensure that the people they are talking to are real! My second idea to make the ddlg forum more of a close community was the idea of doing a gift exchange. A YouTuber I watch called Lone Princess runs a Kik group with some of her viewers and every person in paired up within the Kik chat to another little or daddy and they will set a date where you must send your gift exchanger a few cute prezzies! I understand the risks with this suggestion as you are giving out your address and you do not know what kind of things will be sent to you but that is why rules will be put in place. I thought this would be a cool and cute idea to `copy` whether it be through a forum here (were it would be monitored and protected by the administrators) or through Kik or skype ect.

     

    Here is a link to Lone Princesses video about her Kik group and the gift exchange: 

     

    I am a huge ambassador for my community and thought these would bring the site a whole new experience for users and would allow people to connect more deeply with one another. Also I do not think that any other sites do anything this personal so it would be agreat feature for the site I think.

     

    Thanks guys<3 Stay happy and positive!

     

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    Posted 16 July 2017 - 02:00 PM

    Awesome idea, I think having regular calls would be good. We just have to make sure everyone is safe and there's a moderator present, but it could be an awesome way to get things a little more interactive.


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    Posted 16 July 2017 - 04:22 PM

    I agree, this sounds great, as long as it's made safe. I know I stockpile a lot of little gifts so give to my LG for good behavior. But I am not with any little and have a stockpile of little stuff so I'm willing to share this stuff in this manner ^^.


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    #4 LittleIlly

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    Posted 16 July 2017 - 07:05 PM

    What if, to take it a step further, we modify it to truly get the community connected? A majority of the users here are looking for their CG or little - if we were to do this gift exchange idea, what if we paired littles with littles and CGs with CGs to shake things up? This way it would feel a bit safer (less of a 'creep' chance) AND it would be a way to possibly share new ideas whilst making new, like-status friends? I feel like the pairing of the roles in this light would create a ton of friendships that would feel less threatening and would also not step on any toes - we all know some people are not comfy speaking with other Daddies if they have one and vice versa. Which is so valid that if we have CGs sending littles gift (even strictly platonically), there might be some frustrations with that. Which is always understandable. But having the same roles send others gifts, there are less lines being potentially crossed. 

     

    The more I think about it, that would be really cool - Like pen pals. Like Daddies could send little things that trigger them into the mindset, and then a letter discussing said things. And littles could send their favorite theme of things; coloring books, pacis, ect (everything new of course, and relatively inexpensive) and write letters explaining why they like these things for what reason. As a little who struggles getting into little space, I think it would be realllllly cool to see how littles utilize items to help them get into that space... Hell... take out the gifts altogether - Pen pals itself would be super cool! 

     

    And Im rambling... anyways... super cool idea, but as it is said, security would be a must. But totally awesome!


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    Posted 16 July 2017 - 08:54 PM

    Security is needed for this type of thing, but consent is consent. Any little willing to consent to this is willing for communication. I think they could request LG's only, or DAddy's only if they choose or both. And then the admins can pair them with their corresponding preferences. If something goes wrong, then blacklist the people who caused the problem. 



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    Posted 16 July 2017 - 09:09 PM

    Yes i completely agree^

     

    I am glad everyone seems to think the idea is pretty cool! I would love for BOTH of these suggestions to go ahead i think it would be great for the site and the wider ddlg community. Anybody want to help me get this all up and running? Obviously skype calling aswell would have to have security and be arranged to everybodies suited times and locations as to the gift exchange.

     

    With the skype calls i was thinking that the ddlg forums website could have their own personal skype account where care givers and littles ect could be added to a group call, this would also ensure security for everyone. The dates and times for the arranged skype calls could be advertised on the announcements section on the forums page were the ddlg forum websites administartor could provide information about the skype calls and to be added you could either comment down below or inbox the administrator your skype username so they can added to the group calls. Any other suggestions? My version may sound very confusing:(

     

    With the gift exchange/pen pals I think pairing roles up would be a much better idea. In fact I think they should be two different things! What I mean by this is that if you would like to buy gifts for one another then you join the gift exchange chat group and if you want to just write to one another or you are just low on cash then you can join the pen pals chat group. If we were to do it the way I suggested where we have a group chat on Kik or another social media site we could pair people up, give our addresses and interests safely then it would be very monitored and cool:) Any other suggestions? Sorry if again this did not make much sense.


    Edited by sippykitty, 16 July 2017 - 09:10 PM.

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    #7 Littlewolfie77

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    Posted 18 July 2017 - 01:24 AM

    this would be the coolest thing ever



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    Posted 18 July 2017 - 02:38 AM

    I actually hate this idea. Not only does the privacy, safety and security of forum members get compromised by this, but it opens forum members up to the potential for disappointment, stalking, and so much more. I like the forum because it is anonymous. Too many creeps have messaged me on here for me to ever show my face or share any of my personal information on here.
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    Posted 19 July 2017 - 01:51 AM

    I Dont think this would be a big issue if you dont want to show yourself on camera you dont have to.I mean I have anxiety but as long as i can text in the begiing i would defiantly join in on this



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    Posted 29 July 2017 - 08:52 PM

    I think it's a great idea. Here are some suggestions to make it secure:

    Make sure when you join you state what your site username is.
    Don't let people add people who don't have an account here.
    Maybe create a group just to make sure people have an account here and then once they have been confirmed they can go to the other room.
    Mods don't necessarily have to always be online, but it would be a good idea. Make sure people know how to report things that happen in the group or calls.

    #11 DavCentral

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    Posted 30 July 2017 - 04:18 PM

    I think this is a great idea!

     

    For Skype and gift exchange the participation levels can depends entirely on who's comfortable with what, so the security can be worked on and almost done on an individual basis. You could have a forum mod take addresses of trusted members only and be the one to dish them out for exchange, or similar.

     

    Ultimately it will give lots of people a chance to socialise in circles they probably don't get chance to, and I'm all for that. If you have privacy issues surrounding this, then it's not for you.. But just having a few small steps to create a safe environment would surely get a lot of interest overall!


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    Posted 31 July 2017 - 02:26 AM

    I would love to join :) 


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    #13 Nymph

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    Posted 06 October 2017 - 02:08 AM

    This is perfect for xmas!!!



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    Posted 06 October 2017 - 10:25 PM

    There are some aspects of this that I think are a great idea! I would love to have more littles to talk to, and maybe for Daddy to get to talk to other CGs, so he can get other ideas on punisments or special activities for when I'm a good potato. I got him into DDLG, so he didn't really do very much research or communicating with others to get ideas.

     

    As for the gift exchange, I love this idea, but obviously there are some problems with that. Some people aren't comfortable with giving out their address, in fear of being stalked, or getting a lot of unnecessary attention and letters/gifts/etc. from people. Especially Littles where we are in a seriously committed relationship (Daddy and I are married), and don't need/want that extra creeping. I do like the idea of Littles connecting with other littles and doing gift exchanges though (I have some toys and junk that I don't want anymore, and it would be really cool to receive a Christmas present from a Little friend.)

     

    Is there maybe a way to...uh...weed out the creepers? Otherwise it will really depend on the individual.



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    Posted 07 October 2017 - 11:02 AM

    I luv presents!!

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    Posted 08 October 2017 - 09:20 PM

    At first, I was completely sold on this present gift exchange idea not the video idea though. But as I thought about it I realized a lot of issues with it, most of which have already been mentioned. The only way I can think to remedy the safety of everyone would be to create a middle man sadly. Most likely this would be like the admins of this website or other like officials who would be able to see the address but no one else. So it would be more like all CG's send their packages to this one address which would be a specific admin to oversee all of the Cg's gifts who would then essentially exchange the address info and send it again, but sadly we would have to send money with it to compensate. Another idea is websites like amazon have wishlists that can be made public or private so we could go through them and everyone is given a link to their assigned persons wishlist and then amazon would control the address issue for us instead. 


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    #17 Daddylovesme

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    Posted 13 October 2017 - 07:58 PM

    I actually really like this idea. Those who are concerned don't have to do it. I want in! 



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    Posted 28 November 2017 - 02:54 AM

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    So I highly like this topic, as there are many sides to this as why it may or may not be a good idea. I feel like it would be a very good way for people to earn trust and prove that they are indeed above 18. It would also help littles make more friends and be able to go into little space more often. It could also benefit doms as talking with other doms to do adulting, and littles can adult too if they want, as some littles only want to go into little space with their daddies. 

     

    Of course rules would definitely need to be set up, but that isn't for members to decide, it would be for the mods and admins to think on when they can. We also have to realise that there would need to be more mods and admins for someone to always be there to listen and make sure nothing goes bad. People have lives though and it takes a while for mods to be found. 

     

    This is such an amazing idea though I really hope we can make it happen.

     

    In regards to the Gift Exchange: 

     

    I do really like this but this would definitely create too many problems if there weren't tons of rules and exceptions. I would really love if this could work, but it's so highly unlikely. I'm sorry guys, maybe pre existing friends could do pen pals though  ^_^


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    Posted 28 November 2017 - 03:07 PM

    i would definitely love the pen pals idea!!! how would we get this set up because i would love a pen pal!!!


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    Posted 04 December 2017 - 06:51 PM

    I LOVE this idea....Totally in it







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