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    #1 Poppa Bear

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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 03:58 PM

    I have an issue with a daddy pestering my little girl. She likes to be friends with anyone but this guy wants pictures and is just plain rude. She has told him I do not want her sending pictures to other daddies and she will not. I trief to send him a message to ask him to stop but you have to be friends and I would rather friend a snake than someone like this. Any ideas?
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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 04:01 PM

    Ask your little to block him if he won't stop creeping. What he is doing sounds extremely disrespectful.


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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 04:33 PM

    Didn't she want to tell him that SHE wasn't happy sending pics? Telling him that you wouldn't like it would suggest to him that she'd be ok with it if you were. That's maybe one reason he's pestering her.
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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 06:15 PM

    There's a report feature her and she should use it
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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 06:17 PM

    I don't think she should talk to him anymore. Like SUeB said, she should tell him that she, herself does not want to send him pics, and then block him. If he can't respect the relationship she is in, she shouldn't be speaking to him. If he is rude I don't even see the purpose of speaking to him, he's not a friend.

     

    Personally, if I had a daddy that even allowed me to make friends with other guys, I would stop speaking to the guy the second he asked me for pics or crossed a line. 



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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 06:38 PM

    his persistence shows that he simply doesn’t care about anything except his own satisfaction.  He doesn’t care about her as he doesn’t respect what she has said or the relationship she is in.  His disrespect for you goes without saying.

     

    If she does not block him, rest assured that he will keep coming and coming.

     

    If that is something you dont want to deal with, your best option is to have him blocked



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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 08:31 PM

    She can stop answering to him.She can block him, she can report him.

     

    But...

    Instead of her saying "i dont want to send pics to you" she said "my daddy doesn't want me to send pictures...etc" 

    which for me is something to be discussed with your Little.... 

     

    Things are simple. There are 2 options. Either he is an online super creep who doesn`t understand the word "no", especially when this word is coming from your sweet Little innocent girl, OR your sweet Little innocent girl doesn`t shut him down for a reason. Either she likes the pursuit, or she likes making you feel jealous. Maybe she likes him also but anyway lets be honest, if she would want to stop talking to him, then he would have never had the chance to ask for pics. 


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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 09:29 PM

    She can stop answering to him.She can block him, she can report him.
     
    But...
    Instead of her saying "i dont want to send pics to you" she said "my daddy doesn't want me to send pictures...etc" 
    which for me is something to be discussed with your Little.... 
     
    Things are simple. There are 2 options. Either he is an online super creep who doesn`t understand the word "no", especially when this word is coming from your sweet Little innocent girl, OR your sweet Little innocent girl doesn`t shut him down for a reason. Either she likes the pursuit, or she likes making you feel jealous. Maybe she likes him also but anyway lets be honest, if she would want to stop talking to him, then he would have never had the chance to ask for pics.

    Yep. All of that. Totally seconded here.
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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 09:30 PM

    She can stop answering to him.She can block him, she can report him.

     

    But...

    Instead of her saying "i dont want to send pics to you" she said "my daddy doesn't want me to send pictures...etc" 

    which for me is something to be discussed with your Little.... 

     

    Things are simple. There are 2 options. Either he is an online super creep who doesn`t understand the word "no", especially when this word is coming from your sweet Little innocent girl, OR your sweet Little innocent girl doesn`t shut him down for a reason. Either she likes the pursuit, or she likes making you feel jealous. Maybe she likes him also but anyway lets be honest, if she would want to stop talking to him, then he would have never had the chance to ask for pics. 

     

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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 10:12 PM

    She can stop answering to him.She can block him, she can report him.

     

    But...

    Instead of her saying "i dont want to send pics to you" she said "my daddy doesn't want me to send pictures...etc" 

    which for me is something to be discussed with your Little.... 

     

    Things are simple. There are 2 options. Either he is an online super creep who doesn`t understand the word "no", especially when this word is coming from your sweet Little innocent girl, OR your sweet Little innocent girl doesn`t shut him down for a reason. Either she likes the pursuit, or she likes making you feel jealous. Maybe she likes him also but anyway lets be honest, if she would want to stop talking to him, then he would have never had the chance to ask for pics. 

     

    I'm glad someone said this.. 


    Edited by danidee, 14 November 2017 - 10:13 PM.

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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 10:58 PM

    Thank you everyone but I think my little has taken care of it she told him if he wanted a friend he could be her Daddys friend and learn how to be a Daddy. I think he nas stopped bothering her nothing more today.

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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 11:12 PM

    I am who you are all talking about, and this person I had chatted with for a total of 5 min. After I refuse sending a picture to this man, and telling him I am very happy with my daddy he began to get snippy and rude so I did instantly deleted him. I only told my daddy because I don't believe in secrets.
    Unless you know me or all of the facts please keep your accusations to yourself.

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    Posted 14 November 2017 - 11:27 PM

    All of the commentary and advise was made using the provided information and all made in an effort to help your Daddy in his query


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    Posted 15 November 2017 - 12:14 AM

    I do have one question? When posting CareGivers Cafe I guess I thought I would be conversing with other caregivers. Is this the norm for littles to post in tbe caregivers forum?

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    Posted 15 November 2017 - 12:28 AM

    I do have one question? When posting CareGivers Cafe I guess I thought I would be conversing with other caregivers. Is this the norm for littles to post in tbe caregivers forum?

     

    excuse me, i might be terribly wrong (and in that case i am willing to apologise...) but did i understand right?

    do you question my right to answer to your post because i identify as a Little and not as caregiver? :)


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    Posted 15 November 2017 - 01:58 AM

    Now that I know that this is truly not for the care givers then I know to ask question else where. I do not post in tbe lttles forum because that is for them to talk with each other. I know now if I want care givers I will ask them personally. I guess seeing two forums one marked littles and one care giver you would think a seperation would exist. As I said next time I know not to post a topic I want advice from care givers in the care givers forum.

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    Posted 15 November 2017 - 02:18 AM

    oh shit she posted 

     

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    Posted 15 November 2017 - 07:52 AM

    It is an open forum. Anyone can answer anything. This group title is in reference to things relating to being a CG, not one just for them exclusively to post in.
    And aren't littles opinions on this valid? Seems it's us that saw it in a different way, as in she loved the attention or she would have ended the conversation.

    Edited by SUeB, 15 November 2017 - 07:55 AM.

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    Posted 15 November 2017 - 11:11 PM

    As both a little and a caregiver (though primarily little), sometimes a little needs advice from a caregiver, and vice versa.  And if someone is a switch like me, how do you know whether I'm in little space or big space when I post an answer?  I can do a good job of pretending to be big when I'm not sometimes...would being little render my validity meaningless?  I've seen littles post here asking caregivers things, actually.


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    Posted 18 November 2017 - 09:07 AM

    If I was your little, I'd block him. I don't benefit in any way from talking to them.. they aren't exactly my friend or ever were and if what they're doing is bothering my Daddy then surely it's best to just block to to avoid further turmoil?


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