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    #1 his-sweetheart

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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 03:17 PM

    Last night my Daddy and I were talking over the phone and I started playing with my princess parts and sending him pictures. He's trying to save himself up for when we get to have alone time together next so I was already being a bit bad teasing him like that when I knew he couldn't do anything about it. I like to be a little bit bratty sometimes ;3 We ended up moving to video chat and he instructed me to make myself cum. I did and after a few minutes I started to play with my princess parts again and he told me no and that I should wait too, but I didn't want to. I kept going and he told me I was gonna get it but I was too caught up in the moment to think about the repercussions. After I came the second time he told me he was angry at me for disobeying, and I immediately felt bad for not listening. I still feel bad. Today he's coming over to punish me and I don't know what to expect and I'm scared. He promised that he still loves me but I feel really really bad. I know I messed up big time and that I deserve punishment but I've never been punished before and I'm afraid, I thought being in trouble would be fun but I was so wrong. 

    Does anyone have any similar experiences? How were your first punishments? How do you cope with being punished? Any advice would be great!



    #2 Cr33pyHollow

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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 03:41 PM

    First and foremost: relax, things will be okay. As long as your Daddy is respecting of your boundaries and cares about your feelings and overall well-being, you will be just fine. 

     

    Proper punishments can suck (like writing lines, and sitting in the corner), sexy "punishments" can be an interesting and intimate experience. 

     

    I've only ever been truly punished once, and i coped well with good aftercare. 

     

    Breathe, you'll be fine :)


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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 05:32 PM

    Angry at you for disobeying seems a bit much. My Daddy says anger shows lack of control, so punishments should never be done in anger. That's how things can go badly wrong. It's okay to want to teach or correct you, but being angry about it is not a good sign. Also saying anger is something that will make a sub or little upset and scared and that's not really okay...

     

    Being in trouble can be fun if done right. There's playful and bratty, and then there's just straight out disobeying. If you're playful or a little bratty and get some spanks and everyone is giggling then it's fun. But you just disobeyed and it wasn't fun for your partner so you're just feeling guilt. And you're probably scared because he said he was angry (which I still don't think is okay...)

     

    The good thing about punishment is that when it's over, it's over. It doesn't get bought up or held against you again (and if it does... something is wrong with the relationship), so you get to move on. Punishment should also fit the crime, so if you're getting something severe for this that's not okay. It should also never be more than you can handle. 

     

    As for how to cope... just remember that it's happening so you can move on. Make sure you get enough aftercare to feel better about it, and make sure to have a conversation about what happened. Talking always helps. As so cuddles and chocolate. 



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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 09:11 PM

    Brace yo'self.

    Shove bra inserts in the back of your panties to guard your butt cheeks.

    He's coming for ya. :ph34r:


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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 09:36 PM

    Brace yo'self.

    Shove bra inserts in the back of your panties to guard your butt cheeks.

    He's coming for ya. :ph34r:

    hehe I'm not sure how much prepping will help  :p



    #6 his-sweetheart

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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 09:40 PM

    Angry at you for disobeying seems a bit much. My Daddy says anger shows lack of control, so punishments should never be done in anger. That's how things can go badly wrong. It's okay to want to teach or correct you, but being angry about it is not a good sign. Also saying anger is something that will make a sub or little upset and scared and that's not really okay...

     

    Being in trouble can be fun if done right. There's playful and bratty, and then there's just straight out disobeying. If you're playful or a little bratty and get some spanks and everyone is giggling then it's fun. But you just disobeyed and it wasn't fun for your partner so you're just feeling guilt. And you're probably scared because he said he was angry (which I still don't think is okay...)

     

    The good thing about punishment is that when it's over, it's over. It doesn't get bought up or held against you again (and if it does... something is wrong with the relationship), so you get to move on. Punishment should also fit the crime, so if you're getting something severe for this that's not okay. It should also never be more than you can handle. 

     

    As for how to cope... just remember that it's happening so you can move on. Make sure you get enough aftercare to feel better about it, and make sure to have a conversation about what happened. Talking always helps. As so cuddles and chocolate. 

    I think he meant angry in a less literal way, he wasn't visibly upset or anything. Also my punishment has been moved back a few days since he was busy today, so that will give him more time to cool down if he actually was angry. But yeah I agree, I think it's not safe for either person in the relationship if he were to punish me while angry. Thank you for this comment, it helps a lot <3



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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 09:42 PM

    First and foremost: relax, things will be okay. As long as your Daddy is respecting of your boundaries and cares about your feelings and overall well-being, you will be just fine. 

     

    Proper punishments can suck (like writing lines, and sitting in the corner), sexy "punishments" can be an interesting and intimate experience. 

     

    I've only ever been truly punished once, and i coped well with good aftercare. 

     

    Breathe, you'll be fine :)

    Yeah, I'm looking forward to the aftercare part, he's a really good cuddler <3 Thank you, this helped relieve me a little bit, phew!


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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 09:46 PM

    hehe I'm not sure how much prepping will help  :p

     

    Hekekekekeke ^^ *halo*

    Well good luuuuck on your punishments in a few days time :heart:

    Wear your runnin' shoes.


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    Posted 22 January 2018 - 10:04 PM

    Hekekekekeke ^^ *halo*

    Well good luuuuck on your punishments in a few days time :heart:

    Wear your runnin' shoes.

    lol thank youuu! I'll need it ;P







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