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Here is my dilemma,

 

I'm having a hard time believing I am just a little boy here, but I spend vast amounts of time in little space. I often find myself acting like a daddy to others, and I'll admit..

I have no clue.. at all.. if I am even being one. until someone makes a jab etc.. I mean, I would love to be one, but for me my main issue is being a parent.

Just being called daddy in a sexual/nonsexual way just turns me off instantly and I get all weirded out.. 

Thing is I do not even know what to even do. I want to be a little.. but I also want to be a daddy, (and I know what a switch is before you ask.) but it's hard to be one if I can't past that..

I am open for any suggestions, or advice, I am just really confused right now. Please! and thank you in advance.  :(

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You don't have to view it as being a parent since that's not what it is. Just a nurturing dom. There are other names you can be called besides daddy.  :)

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There other things as-well that I forgot to even mention, I am submissive pretty much 100% I am unsure how that would pan out being a "DD" Daddy-Dom.. I don't have a dominant bone in my body..

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You could always be a babysitter. Someone who's there for the others but not like a full time thing? It would allow you to still be little when you want and need. Or maybe you could see it as something like a little hierarchy? :p You could be above some littles and take care of them while still being little. Kind of like an older sibling type thing, I guess? Still a little but looking out for other littles. 

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I would have to be in it full time, Also I tend to get distracted easily though. I have A.D.D. I also can't focus or lose thought rather quicky.

 

But what is the difference in being a B/S compared to C/G?

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I would have to be in it full time, Also I tend to get distracted easily though. I have A.D.D. I also can't focus or lose thought rather quicky.

 

But what is the difference in being a B/S compared to C/G?

Pretty much the exact same difference between a parent and a babysitter. the babysitter just looks after the little without actually dating them. Does basic caregiver stuff minus the commitment

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You could always be yourself, do whatever you want, and rid yourself of titles. 

Came here to say exactly this bro,

 

Just be you and be happy!

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Why do you need a title?

 

Sounds like you're just over thinking it.

 

Also I would like to point out, someone being a Daddy could be completely different to how you see being a Daddy or caregiver.

 

Do your own research. If labels are really that important to you, read. There's tons of stuff about d/s & ddlg all over the internet. Find what best suites what you are and boom, found your label.

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If it's just the name that bothers you, maybe you could have a different name than daddy?  Papa felt awkward about being called daddy, so he's Papa instead of daddy, and I honestly love calling him that much more.

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Trust me, I've been doing alot of research and yeah that's pretty much the issue. Just being called that. I just didn't know if it was acceptable having other names.. I should have read the forum more before I posted it.. Literally.. a pinned topic with my exact issue.

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