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Little in Need of Like-Minded Friends


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Hi there, everyone. I'm an older little who is part of a poly 24/7 D/s family. I am under consideration as a submissive. My Daddy and my potential sister submissive are both younger than myself. She is expecting at the end of this year, so our family will be expanding even further. 

 

I don't have any friends who are in the little community at all, and I would really like to talk to more people who understand what is involved, the emotions, the lifestyle, etc. I would especially like to talk to people with age-reversal DDlg relationships, or poly Care Giver/little families, or parents in the community so I can learn as much as I can about this world, as I have only begun exploring this aspect of my personality for the past year or so.

 

I look forward to meeting anyone who would like to chat!

 

xo-cass

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Hello, and welcome to the forums. There are a few littles and caregivers here in poly relationships that you might make friends with.

 

I am in a relationship with a little who is 16 years my senior, and who has had more experience in the lifestyle. So, there are some parallels there to your situation. We have an interesting dynamic, I think.

 

If you'd like to get to know Leilah and I, just send a friend request. I'm sure she'd be happy to share her perspective about DDlg with you. Also, visit our chat area. This is a very relaxed and safe space for littles, middles, and Bigs to goof off and get to know one another.

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That dynamic is absolutely fascinating; I'd personally love to hear more about it! I'm glad you're reaching out here; this seems to be the safest, non creepy ddlg place on the web. I don't doubt that youl find alot of great Littles here.
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That dynamic is absolutely fascinating; I'd personally love to hear more about it! I'm glad you're reaching out here; this seems to be the safest, non creepy ddlg place on the web. I don't doubt that youl find alot of great Littles here.

Thank you for the reply! I'm an open book about my life-style, so feel free to ask anything you would like. And yes, so far I do enjoy the non-creep vibe here, compared to most online sites on this topic.

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What are your theories on ownership when it comes to poly? Weird question, but let me give you an example...

 

I see monogamy as mutual ownership; if you seek love outside of 1 person, feelings get incredibly hurt and fights happen. Why? (at least in my opinion) You looked for a relationship with someone other than me. I'm your one and only. Clearly, you've broken their trust, but I get uncomfortable thinking that I should shame my gf because she seeks relationships out of my own. She's not my property; she's a human being with her own feelings and emotions. Telling her what she can and cannot do with those feelings seems wrong, in a way.

 

How do you establish trust in a relationship like that, and how do you manage not to hurt each other's feelings or get jealous?

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