LittleVapeBaby Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 I have only discovered my little side in the past year, and a few months after that I got into a relationship with someone I have known for a while. He has been a dom before and is a switch between being a dom and a sub. He has little to no experience with having a little but from how he has been in the past I know he could be an amazing daddy. The problem is with our new house and all of these new bills and the long hours he has to work, he isn't really there for me the way he usually is. Right now I have to try my best to keep my headspace at bay because he is still new to it and with all the stress he is under right now me being little is just another thing for him to worry about and I don't want it all to become too much for him. I just want him happy but at the same time being little is something I need and with me having to be big all day while I take care of an elderly family member when I come home all I want to do is play wif my stuffies, and that's fine but he comes home a few hours later and even though I want to be cuddled and babied he is too tired to do anything. I just don't know what to do.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Appacheian Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 You are doing what any here is doing as an adult with responsibilities. And I do mean adult. You have a vanilla life with all it’s pressures and responsibilities which are relentless. No one here can here can give a magical solution to that. you are . Job, family... vanilla life absorbs you completely given the chance. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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LittleCelticLass Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 (edited) I work a 40 hour week, I am also the primary caregiver for my elderly mother who lives with me. Believe me, I understand wanting to be little and taken care of. Unfortunately, being an adult has to come first for most of us. You are fortunate that you have a few hours in which to be little. Embrace it. As for what your partner wants, have you asked him? Some guys don't find their little being in littlespace to be a stressor,or something they worry about. It's all about communication. And compromise. Maybe you set aside time on Saturday afternoon to be little with him, or two nights a week. It's got to be something you both agree on, and will enjoy though. Otherwise, you still have your afternoons to yourself Edited August 14, 2018 by LittleCelticLass 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleVapeBaby Posted August 15, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 15, 2018 Thanks guys, and he specifically told me that me being little was too much for him right now, that it's not something he can deal with right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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