I think my daddy/dom only wants me for sexy things...not me...

[Guest Baby_Kitty9818]

I've been with my daddy/dom for almost a week now,and so far all it's been is me doing sexy stuff for him...its like he doesn't care about me as a little or a sub...he only wants me to do sexy things for him,then he goes right back to his work...what should I do? Edited November 3, 2018 by babygirl_princess1299

[VeryOwnDesire89]

it is not all about him and he should know that. A good daddy will have your own interests at heart over his own. Just because you have given him this title does not mean he has complete control over you. Only a week in now things should really slow down alot more, you are still getting to know each other more and should be wanting to do fun and cute activities together. Is he showing interest in other areas more than the sex? because he really should be.

I do not want to paint a bad picture here but there is alot of guys who classify themselfs as a 'daddy' to only exploit vulnerable girls. You need to get out your daddy radar and use it on him. Is he really being this guy that is playful, caring, affectionate and not always revolving around sex. He should be helping guide you, setting up rules and a routine for you to get into at this point.

You also need to have some more self worth, sorry for being blunt, i understand you just want to be a good little and make a daddy happy but not at your own heartache, these things should just be natural and not forced, both of you need to get enjoyment out of these things and not feel like the relationship is heavily sided towards a specific aspect especially when that area is mostly sex orientated.

In my eyes he is showing many red flags already and as much as i cannot tell you what to do i feel like he is letting you down and not being the daddy you deserve. Pause for a moment and think about this relationship, can you see yourself being happy with this dynamic in another months time? You deserve to find the right daddy and don't just assume that he is that. When you find him you will know in your heart. Don't give up hope and i hope you get the courage to do the right thing.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Welcome to the internet.

 

How old are you?

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Maybe you should ask him to do the helicopter for you! :-)

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Also, ask him to make a mangina. Those are my favorites!

[Guest Niet meer]

Be aware of some red flags. You really need to learn them because you might get hurt real bad by men who are only calling themselves Daddy for the cheap sex.

Asking for sexual favours within the first week is a no no. There are more red flags to think of, like men being more demanding then giving, or being to easily in making you call him your daddy. The list is long but a Daddy is loving and caring, not overly sexually obsessed or rude and harsh.

[Cloverworked]

The only thing you really can do is make it clear that the two of you need to have a conversation about the way things are going.  A relationship is about building each other up and fulfilling everyone's needs.  From what little you've told us, it seems to be primarily a one-sided interaction where your needs and desires are being ignored.  Make it clear to him that this is not the kind of relationship you want to have, if it makes you unhappy, and that the two of you need to work together to find a more equitable solution moving forward.

 

All that said, if the two of you have only been together for a week - I wouldn't hold my breath.  That he's pushing you into a sexual role this quickly is, as has been mentioned above, a pretty glaring red flag.  If it were me, I would cut my losses and walk away from that relationship entirely.  Someone who's willing to take advantage of you isn't the kind of person who is going to really care about the fact that you're unhappy.  Ultimately you're the only one here who knows the full details of your relationship and how it's making you feel, so you're the only one who can make the decision as to whether or not it's worth pursuing any further.

 

In any event, you need to set firm boundaries about acceptable behavior - yes, even littles/subs get to say what is okay to do with them/to them.  If he's unwilling to meet you halfway and abide by those boundaries, then it's time to get out of a bad situation before it can become truly dangerous for you.

[Guest Baby_Kitty9818]

Thank you all for your advice. I thought hard about it,and decided that the best thing to do would be to walk away,since he would try to guilt trip me into apologizing...again,thank you all!

[VeryOwnDesire89]

I think you made the right choice. Stay strong. Not every daddy is like that, don't give up but allow yourself to gather your thoughts and keep an eye on their behavior in future before things get sexual. Keep an eye out for red flags. You will be an amazing little for an amazing daddy 1 day. It will come when you least expect it

[Cloverworked]

Good for you for sticking up for yourself, then.  Good luck with whatever comes your way!