Advice Needed

[switch_ddlg]

I'll take advice from caregivers and littles.

 

Background: Basically my vanilla friend has decided to meet one of my partners (I have two). I have a Daddy whom she's met and I've been married to for years. She hasn't seen much of our lifestyle because of him only being home 30 days a year but she is very intrigued in the lifestyle. Now, being a switch, I have a little of my own who just moved in with me.

My friend who I've been friends with for 6 or so years is really interested in meeting my little, Kitten I'll call her, and she is wanting to see her in littlespace which us great because Kitten is basically a 24/7 little.

My friend has already set a room aside for a punishment room since I can't tell Kitten "go to your room" seeing as we will be in my friends house for 2 days. She's very open minded and wanting to see a lot of it.

 

Basically I need advice on how to not overwhelm not only my friend, but my little, and myself as well. Has anyone ever done anything like this before or could provide some type of advice or even share experiences similar to this.

[WhysperKit]

I haven't personally been in this type of situation. Despite that, maybe I can offer what I'd hope would happen if I were in your Little's shoes? Maybe go lax on the rules a bit; that isn't to say don't enforce whatever rules or etiquette you have, but just relax a little. Say if a rule was the always call you Mommy and she slips up, just verbally correct her versus a punishment such as a spanking then and there. 

 

As for your friend, that would depend on what she knows of your relationship dynamic and what happens within it. If she's brand new, simply talk to her beforehand and maybe mention what could happen (say spankings or making your Little write lines) and give her some guidelines of what she can do/say regarding your Little. I had a friend who thought just because I'd opened up to him and his wife that I was a little, he could automatically punish me himself while I was visiting at their house. Obviously, my Daddy and I needed to talk to him about his guidelines. 

 

So yeah ^^" That's my ah, advice? I hope it helps a little!

[Tinka]

i m sorry for asking something different, but you said your dad / husband is at home only 30 days per year....Is he a solider...?

 

Does he know about ''Kitten''?

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

My guess is oil field worker

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Pretty sure she has said before that he is a long distance truck driver.