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    #1 lewdax

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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 07:48 AM

    Hi, i'm pretty new in the ddlg community (like for 2 or 3 months) and i've already face a lot of transphobia, so i want to know if i was just unlucky ? Or maybe there is a lot of transphobia in the DDLG community ? :(

     

    Thaaaaaanks



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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 09:02 AM

    I think you have just been unlucky.

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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 09:44 AM

    since transphobia has the greek word phobia (φοβία = fear) in it, i will have to say that i dont think that anyone is actually scared of something or someone.

    You just need to know that you will not be everyones` cup of tea, as i am not the cup of tea of a gay man.

    Do i call it straightphobia? no, i call it personal interests and i respect it.


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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 11:18 AM

    i dont understand this, how can a community/scene have more hate than others? its human nature to fear when we don't understand the ones drawn in by the unknown are not the typical you will recieve hate and fear from anyone from any background its not ddlg



    #5 Avi

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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 11:34 AM

    well i mean.. do you count someone who rather doesnt date a trans person as transphobic? bc thats a whole other story.

    #6 lewdax

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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 02:46 PM

    well thanks for answers, now i know that i dont have my place here, have a great day, sorry for disturbing



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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 03:41 PM

    well thanks for answers, now i know that i dont have my place here, have a great day, sorry for disturbing

     

     

    i hope you find what you are looking for then!


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    #8 Tinka

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    Posted 06 December 2018 - 05:01 PM

    well thanks for answers, now i know that i dont have my place here, have a great day, sorry for disturbing

     

    if your attitude is to feel offended by the truth, i wish you the best of luck trying to find your place in this world. 


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    Posted 07 December 2018 - 06:07 AM

    well thanks for answers, now i know that i dont have my place here, have a great day, sorry for disturbing


    look, nobody is trying to get a rise out of you or offend you. it wouldve helped if you could elaborate on what you consider to be transphobia.
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    Posted 07 December 2018 - 08:21 AM

    I'm going to say, based on the number of transgendered people I know on this site alone, that no, DDlg is defiantly not more transphobic (A term I despise but that's a different story) than any other community. It's a sampling of the the population at large. Just like if you were to look at the world's population in general, the majority of the people would be heterosexual and cisgengered (another term I hate). This doesn't make them Transphobic, it's just their preference. Some people like blonde, others brunettes. It's life.

    #11 hurtnolivingthing

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    Posted 07 December 2018 - 11:33 AM

    well thanks for answers, now i know that i dont have my place here, have a great day, sorry for disturbing

     

    Hope you'll give this meeting place a little longer lewdax.

    There are a number of trans people here, and others too who are trans-friendly :)

     

    Hope you stay and make some new friends.

     

    Best wishes :)






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