93243_1655600696 Posted December 11, 2018 Report Share Posted December 11, 2018 I just learned about DDlg and realized it's what I've been wanting, but I'm very nervous if I tell my partner about it, he will be weirded out. We have been together a long time, but I'm still shy about asking for sexual things. It's not completely out of the blue, I guess. I often talk and act in a child-like way with him, and he seems to like that. I baby talk a lot. I have a stuffed "my melody" sanrio bunny I sleep with and often carry around the house with me. My house is full of cute and cozy things. I'll beg him to play outside with me and go skipping around the woods, etc... And lately, I feel like he plays along with it more. Calls me "baby" and snuggles me, and brings me food and drinks. Sexually,I have sometimes toyed with playing very naive and baby talking. Doing sexual things in a child-like way - but not so far that it is explicitly obvious that's what I'm pretending. Secretly, I have had a daddy/daughter fetish for a long time, but I have never told him about it. Though I'M the little girl in my fantasy, I worried it meant I was into children or something - or that he would think that. Or that he would think I wanted to get with my actual father - which I do not. The idea of DDlg seems like an ideal relationship to me, but how do I begin to talk to him about this? How did you tell your partner? Has anyone else come out years into a relationship or is every DDlg partnership pretty much started with that understanding? Did you ever tell someone who was weirded out or refused? How did you deal with that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterPhotog Posted December 11, 2018 Report Share Posted December 11, 2018 Welcome and best wishes. Feel free to let me know if I can be of any help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fancysir Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 Welcome to The Forum sweetbun. This is how my first ddlg relationship unfolded. I know it maybe difficult to do, especially if you are a shy little type, but my advice to you would be to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and your desires to be a Little. I'm guessing on some level he already knows this to be the case. You may be surprised. A non-confrontational way to bring it up at first might feel a little safer for you. For example say I was talking to a friend about this type of relationship and go from there. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do and do keep us posted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Fancysir Posted December 16, 2018 Report Share Posted December 16, 2018 Welcome to The Forum sweetbun. This is how my first ddlg relationship unfolded. I know it maybe difficult to do, especially if you are a shy little type, but my advice to you would be to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and your desires to be a Little. I'm guessing on some level he already knows this to be the case. You may be surprised. A non-confrontational way to bring it up at first might feel a little safer for you. For example say I was talking to a friend about this type of relationship and go from there. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do and do keep us posted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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