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Because Daddies need comfort too...


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Sometimes, when my Daddy gets home after a hard day at work, he can be a bit grumpy and distant. I always do whatever I can to cheer him up and make him feel better. I make him a nice hot bath for when he gets back....Cook him something yummy for dinner...Give him a massage, that sort of thing. 

 

Sometimes, I draw him a picture if I know he's had a particularly bad day, and that always puts a smile on his face. 

 

So, I guess this thread is all about the things we do to help Daddy feel better..Because they're only human too and can't be the strong one all the time.

 

So what sort of things do you do to make the difference to a bad Daddy day?? :)

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Sometimes (though rarely) he'll ask me to be the little big spoon for a bit. That's my favourite way to help! But having him cone home to a finished list of tasks or chores, or his lunch/dinner waiting, is always a really good way to get him smiling.

We're in a LDR, and sometimes bad days at work can be fixed just by me being a silly little, following my rules but staying playful, letting him enjoy being Big and playful with me :)

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I LOVE cooking my papa bear a special meal after a long day (and sometimes a super special dessert to go with it.) I always make sure to make him something on those days that may be a bit more time consuming or tedious. (Such as french fries.) I always give him head rubs and tummy rubs to make him feel at ease and get him anything he needs so he doesn't have to get up. I love just fawning over him, giving him kisses, hugs, compliments, and by thanking him sincerely for all his hard work.

 

However, my personal favorite tried and true cheer up method is to utilize my writing talents and offer him a sweet poem, journal entry, or story that will make him smile. Sometimes, it's simply a sentence or an acrostic. Mondays, he always gets a note in the lunch I pack him, along with his made with love sandwich. It's doesn't always have to be big things. The little things add up too and create equal measures of happiness. I always let my papa bear know that he is loved, cherished, and the bestest papa bear in the whole wide world. He doesn't have to need cheering up for me to showcase my continual support and love. I merely treat him the way I desire to be treated.  ;)

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Guest Pouty Kitten

I like to give my Daddy an epsom salt foot soak with eucalpytus oil after he's had a long day. I will cook his favourite meal and just cuddle with him. It always puts a smile on his face when we get to cuddle (I get very squirmy when I cuddle).

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  • 3 weeks later...

Some of my favorite things to be done to me when I need comfort is:

 

-Run your fingers through my hair

-Lightly run your fingertips over various parts of my body

-Bring me sour candy

-Random hugs from behind
-Rest on me with your ear next to my heart

-Hold my hand when we cuddle

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  • 2 weeks later...

When my daddy is in a bad mood I tend to be more clingy and lovey and it begins to cheer him up with kisses and cuddles. He particularly likes back scratches and me playing with his hair/massaging his head, I also help out wherever i can and refrain from misbehaving or being bratty to make it easier for him and less to worry about. Because we don't live together usually a long phone call will cheer him right up because my daddy thinks my voice is calming and makes him feel better. 

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  • 4 weeks later...

I never had a daddy before but I know I've done plenty of the things listed above to my boyfriends before I found out I was a little. 

The guys I dated thought it was weird though. T////T 

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My daddy needed comfort in a big way on Saturday night. I blew it because I made an assumption based on previous patterns and was anxious and didn't really listen to my daddy. Now daddy is really hurt and disappointed in me and I feel terrible. He told me he couldn't count on me ever to be a comfort to him when he needs it now. :'(

Of course he can count on me but he is really upset. I don't know what to do because I didn't have any idea that a pattern I was concerned about wasn't going to repeat itself. I know i shouldn't have been focused on that because daddy was having a hard time with some big emotions. But I panicked I guess. I was so worried about doing something wrong later that I ended up messing up anyway!!! And daddy is really mad at me I think.

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I used to be someone's Dom. One day I came home to a card filled with all of the things they felt made me great. It was probably the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me.

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