Little Age: NA
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking for: Little
Relationship preference (Polyamory , Monogamous , or other): Monogamous
Number of partners I have: 0
*Hello all, I appreciate you taking the time to read this! I'm looking for a little to cherish, someone to help grow, and in turn help me grow as a Dom. Here I want to talk about my desires for a relationship, my views on ddlg, hopefully someone reads this and wants a similar thing! This post will be kind of free form about my ideas of and desires within a ddlg relationship. As for my interests and hobbies, personal information, and other things outside of ddlg, I hope to share these things in conversation. I think sharing things that way makes them more personal and memorable, makes for good beginning conversation, and I hope to find someone with similar relationship desires. So thats what Ill outline here. Im also more than happy to share a picture in a private setting, Im 6'1, 160 pounds, eyes are either green, brownish, or blue/grey. Idk why they change, but its pretty cool. In a relationship I need physical attraction both ways. Should we strike up a conversation one of the first things i will ask for is a picture of you, and I'll send a couple myself. If physical attraction isn't there, then we just wont work out. If this offends you I apologize. Looks arent everything but I want my little to be attracted to me and vice versa.
Ddlg is a beautiful power exchange. I'm looking to get to know a little girl, build deep trust, and earn their submission. I imagine a relationship where I know everything about my little. Favorite snacks, favorite little activities, things that comfort her, everything honestly. I'm really into pet play, so I'm looking for a little with a cute pet side. Don't let my username dissuade you, Im open to any kind of petplay. I desire a 24/7 power exchange. This doesn't mean I want someone in little space 24/7, although I'm not completely opposed to that. I'm looking for a sexual relationship, with time and trust of course.
In my experience, it seems I have a different view of ddlg then most, so i want to be very clear about my views on a ddlg relationship. Like most doms, I desire control. I want to be apart of every aspect of my little's life as I can be, to guide her, teach her, and put her needs above mine. This give and take, learning how to care for each other, and how to satisfy each other's dominant and submissive needs results in personal growth. Sadly, I've come across many individuals who see ddlg as a reason not to grow, but to be emotionally immature. I don't believe this is the case. Being a little has certain childish qualities, age regression is pretty much a staple in ddlg, but this does not mean that all childish behavior is acceptable under the guise of being little. Should you disagree with this, kindly pass me by.
My goal as a daddy is to make my little feel safe, secure, and loved. I'll take care of all the big things in life! I want to give my little the opportunity to live out all her little fantasies, and enjoy them with her. I want to enhance my little's little space, make it easy for them to regress. I plan to do this with toys, little items like sippies, pacis, I'm open to diapers, lots of fun outfits to play dress up in, and any other healthy additions to little space my little would desire. I offer my everything to a little. I want to enjoy each other's hobbies together, have fun play time, sexual or not, cook together, do chores together, I want to do everything possible with my little princess.
In a little I look for obedience, a desire to learn, clinginess, intelligence, and open mindedness among other things. As i said above, I'm really into petplay, so that's a requirement for me. Something I really feel the need to touch on is brattiness, as I have had terrible experiences with self proclaimed "brats" in the past. Finding satisfaction in your dom's emotional distress is not ok. Endlessly contradicting your dom for no apparent reason is not ok. Someone who is willing to act out, but not willing to accept the punishment, is not someone I want in my life. Similar to what I said above I have come across many littles who use ddlg and being little as an excuse to be toxic, and this is kind of a similar deal. Being little, or a brat, isn't an excuse to be a bad person, it's not ok to hurt people just to watch them squirm. Personally thats not being a brat to me, but so many littles ive come across seem to disagree. So either no brats, or give me an experience different than the ones I've described. Sexual chemistry is a must for me as well, this will be discussed in a more private setting. Preferably sooner than later, because a lack of sexual chemistry is a complete deal breaker for me. Relationships are certainly not about sex, and I'm not really comfortable being intimate like that with someone until that intimacy is earned. Sexual satisfaction is something everyone needs/wants in life, so should this offend you or you happen to disagree, kindly pass me by.
I have a kik, in case you want to just contact me directly, my user is kittenloverddlg. Its super creative right?
I don't like lies or games, so expect brutal honesty from me. Feel free to reach out!*
Edited by Kittenlover, 20 September 2019 - 11:42 AM.