I'm a Babygirl and trying tinder and have had great results. I get lots of matches. They lead from start to finish, I say very little and I stop responding to anyone who doesn't ask me out within 5-10 exchanges. They ask questions, ask me out on dates, suggest a time and place and always offer to pay. This leaves the more "in charge" type of man but they are just pining me down for a date, not being dominant once we meet. I'm meeting very kind and sweet gentlemen which is fun but none of them seem dominant so there is no attraction on my side. I have tried letting my bratty side out in the initial messages with poor results, alienating the nicer, more confident guys and the ones left are either not confident or kind. Once we meet I sometimes tease them a bit to see how they react but mostly they don't get that I'm being bratty and playful. I was wondering if any of you are on Tinder? What type of interaction you had with your matches before meeting? Do you chase them or do they chase you? What attracts you to a profile? Would my behaviour put you off? What can I do differently? Are there any signs of daddydom I can look out for? Where else can I find him? etc..
Going on dates was fun initially but it's starting to feel a bit like a job now and I don't like telling men who like me and have been so nice that it's not going to work out. I'm starting to feel like I'm wasting my time and will never find him
I am strictly monogamous and looking for long term. I am afraid to match the BDSM profiles.
Edited by ♛ Princess ♛, 06 August 2019 - 06:25 AM.