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I love it when my little is bossy/dominant


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I have a wonderful relationship with my little and I give her all the nurturing, attention and love she needs. But I've started to realise that the kind of daddy I want to be is actually very submissive. I want to be bossed around like she's my spoiled brat/princess. I know deep down this will cause me a lot of stress but I just can't resist it. Whenever she is demanding I just cave. I love the idea of being wrapped around her little finger and not being able to say "no". I guess you could call it "soft daddy" or "pushover daddy". He loves his baby so much that he will give her pretty much anything she stamps her feet for.

 

I can't seem to find many people (littles or daddies) who are into this dynamic, since ddlg is very much focused on the daddy being the dom. But the idea of a little taking on the dominant role in the relationship is exhilarating to me. I think the main difference is this kind of daddy wouldn't punish, but would rather try to reason, negotiate or plead with their little for some sense of control. In the end though, the little knows how to get what she wants, whether through blackmail, causing upheaval or being too cute to resist.

 

God help me.

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One more! I fink what you wants is totally fine as long as you aren't creating a monster Angelica (Rug Rats character) for the community to deal with when you aren't around. I've dealt with an Angelica type little before, they aren't pleasant people to be around when little or Adulting.
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One more! I fink what you wants is totally fine as long as you aren't creating a monster Angelica (Rug Rats character) for the community to deal with when you aren't around. I've dealt with an Angelica type little before, they aren't pleasant people to be around when little or Adulting.

 

Haha yes I know the type! You're right, in the real world it's about finding a balance. When I really think about it, my life could easily be made hell with an Angelica type... and I'm not ready to go broke or die from a stress related illness just yet. So I'm consciously trying not to create that monster through enabling or being too much of a pushover, no matter how much the idea of it excites me. I just hope it's not too late because I have mentioned to my babs that I like her bossy/demanding side and that it is a weakness of mine  :unsure:

 

If the demands ever got completely unreasonable, I'd be firm, I know I can be. But making princess happy is my #1 goal. If receiving punishment made her happy, I would gladly deliver, though she has said that spanking is a no go due to trauma. So I have to be more thoughtful with how I deal with correcting unacceptable behaviour.

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