A couple of weeks ago my Wife, Daddy and I stayed over night at a wildlife park near us. We rented a really cool big yurt and had a chance to feed bears and wolves from a private boardwalk reserved for people who stay overnight. My Daddy LOVES wolves and was so ecstatic and gives me the biggest hugs and kisses for taking him. In the evening the three if us had a big bonfire and my Daddy cuddled me and gave me a bottle while my Wife made us all s'mores.
Last week was the one year anniversary of my father's death, not a happy moment, but what happened last week was very precious. My mom went to lay flowers on his grave, sunflowers were one of his favourites, and without checking she laid six. She placed one for her, my brother, his partner, myself, my Wife and my Daddy. She told me she views him as family and will absolutely be attending our commitment ceremony. She told me she doesn't understand polyamory but she can clearly see how much He, my Wife and I all love one another and she knows my dad felt the same.
Today I surprised them both with a trip to a local llama and alpaca farm where we got to take personal llamas, Lenny and Jet for my Daddy and I, and an alpaca, Pisaro, for my Wife. They were soooooo SOFT and cute. My Daddy's was a bit stubborn but my Wife's alpaca kept making the cutest sounds when he couldn't see his llama friends.
No relationship is always easy or without tough times but finding the right person or persons make it worth it. There will always be compromises in relationships, e.g. dinners, movies, vacations, home decor, etc. but that should never be one person asking another to compromise who they are as a person. Relationships aren't a race, take the time, find the right person or people and fill your life with happy memories then share them with the world. Life is too short not to bring happiness to yourself, those you love and those around you.
Edited by Little kaiya, 08 September 2019 - 09:38 PM.