Kitten&Spice Posted July 8, 2020 Report Share Posted July 8, 2020 (edited) ~UPDATE:~ I have officially started a Kik group! If you want to join I thought I could go ahead and post the group name! #ace.lil_n_cg! So come on and drop in when you want! It is an 18+ group! Not to many members at the moment so it isn’t active but I am hoping to get it going! I am finding it hard to believe that there isn’t any other people in the asexual spectrum who are also in this community. I myself am Demisexual and yet I have come across several personals mentioning that sex is involved and even one where they said “no asexuals.” I was curious if any of you were Asexual or in the spectrum?! And maybe we can all have a discussion about how you found your partner(if you have one). Your feelings on being ace in the ddlg community and whatever else! If there is enough people curious and interested I am thinking about maybe starting an Ace DDLG Kik group! So let me know what you all think! Edited July 22, 2020 by LilPup :P 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DerbyNerd Posted July 8, 2020 Report Share Posted July 8, 2020 Hi there. I'm an ace/demi little (bad at definitions and generally just say ace as its a kinda catchall). DDlg doesn't need to be a sexual experience; but it can also be a sexual experience. What I'm learning is that everyone is different within the community, it kinda sucks that people are flat out saying 'no asexuals' but thats a preference I suppose. Happy to have a discussion, lets be friends. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightmare_Li Posted July 8, 2020 Report Share Posted July 8, 2020 Hi! I am a middle who identifies as a panromantic asexual myself. I would love to meet and talk others on the spectrum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitten&Spice Posted July 8, 2020 Author Report Share Posted July 8, 2020 Awesome! I am sending you a friend request and maybe we can get a Kik set up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetieheart Posted July 8, 2020 Report Share Posted July 8, 2020 Me! Which is kind of frustrating tbh. Most people see sex as a required part of a relationship, which I can understand, but also wow that makes it hard for me haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearly Posted July 9, 2020 Report Share Posted July 9, 2020 (edited) I think I'm demi, when it comes to real life people. Also, I have no sexual interest in the CG/L community. I'm just a big teddy bear who enjoys the wholesome company of littles. Edited July 9, 2020 by Bearly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AHumanBeing Posted July 9, 2020 Report Share Posted July 9, 2020 I'm not ace, but my sibling is. I just wanted to pop in here and offer my support. I know how hard it can be to be in the asexual camp both online and offline. Just know that I'm here and there are others like me who see and hear you and love you for who you are! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilJabbyWocky Posted July 22, 2020 Report Share Posted July 22, 2020 I know this is bizarre, but I identified as ace (I'm 45 now), as in past tense.However that changed a year ago, much to my tremendous surprise but specifically with my partner/Daddy only.I didn't know it can happen. It's crazy how the fluidity of the mind works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little1grl Posted July 27, 2020 Report Share Posted July 27, 2020 (edited) ~UPDATE:~ I have officially started a Kik group! If you want to join I thought I could go ahead and post the group name! #ace.lil_n_cg! So come on and drop in when you want! It is an 18+ group! Not to many members at the moment so it isn’t active but I am hoping to get it going! I am finding it hard to believe that there isn’t any other people in the asexual spectrum who are also in this community. I myself am Demisexual and yet I have come across several personals mentioning that sex is involved and even one where they said “no asexuals.” I was curious if any of you were Asexual or in the spectrum?! And maybe we can all have a discussion about how you found your partner(if you have one). Your feelings on being ace in the ddlg community and whatever else! If there is enough people curious and interested I am thinking about maybe starting an Ace DDLG Kik group! So let me know what you all think! I'm on the ace spectrum. But I identify as cupiosexual or a sex favorable asexual. Still working out which label to use, since a lot of people use them as if they're synonymous. I'm probably also a bit demi-romantic as well. It takes me awhile to fall in love, and I don't really like kissing on the lips, ever. I am cupiosexual because I like sexual stuff when it relates to my sexual kinks (DDlg is not a sexual kink for me). But I don't really find people sexually attractive. I also don't get crushes... heart beating fast, butterflies in the stomach, etc. I don't get that. I can sort of fit a little in with a sexual person, because I do like doing stuff. But I don't really react normally in bed, so it's kind of like a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" kind of thing for me. (I guess I don't particularly enjoy sexually pleasing a guy... but if it makes the guy happy, then its all good. And it's good for the emotional part of the relationship). Edited July 27, 2020 by little1grl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilBlue21 Posted August 5, 2020 Report Share Posted August 5, 2020 I’m asexual and pretty new to exploring this part of myself irl, but I would say that I noticed more aces in BDSM than any other community I’ve been in. Really loved this article about asexual ppl into kink: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a52114/can-you-be-asexual-but-also-enjoy-kink/ https://medium.com/@cfti/the-case-for-making-space-for-ace-asexuals-at-your-sex-and-kink-parties-a88628167ac5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilBlue21 Posted August 5, 2020 Report Share Posted August 5, 2020 ~UPDATE:~ I have officially started a Kik group! If you want to join I thought I could go ahead and post the group name! #ace.lil_n_cg! So come on and drop in when you want! It is an 18+ group! Not to many members at the moment so it isn’t active but I am hoping to get it going! I am finding it hard to believe that there isn’t any other people in the asexual spectrum who are also in this community. I myself am Demisexual and yet I have come across several personals mentioning that sex is involved and even one where they said “no asexuals.” I was curious if any of you were Asexual or in the spectrum?! And maybe we can all have a discussion about how you found your partner(if you have one). Your feelings on being ace in the ddlg community and whatever else! If there is enough people curious and interested I am thinking about maybe starting an Ace DDLG Kik group! So let me know what you all think! Hi! Would love to join the kik group, but can’t seem to find it. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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