Gwada Posted October 24, 2015 Report Share Posted October 24, 2015 Hi peeps, So I have learned already a lot by reading you. I have a question, how can I reduce an ex who I believe will love being a little? Should I just be dominant or do I have to go to normal process and then being her daddy? That is all new for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwada Posted October 24, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2015 Ok what I mean is I know she is a little. 100% I have been interested in bdsm and DDLG but my education was blocking me. I didn't let my dominant side play. I believe that is the reason we broke up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwada Posted October 25, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 No one has some advice or insight? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MyDaddyMyWorld Posted October 25, 2015 Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 Just communicate. Learn together. See how compatible your ideas and desires are. This forum isn't massively active. Don't take lack of activity personal lol. If you are going to be a good dominant, you need to be more patient and mature. No offense but that last comment made you seem a bit easily offended. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BH_Bambi Posted October 25, 2015 Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 However, if you've broken up it may be best to let this relationship run its path and perhaps wait until you find a new one? Especially as you're not clearer in yourinterests, and can take the time in between to learn more! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwada Posted October 25, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 What comment? I am not offended lol? I have been patient almost a year, I had other "lil" but I was not caregiver to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwada Posted October 25, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 OMG i said reduce and I meant RESEDUCE ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tay212 Posted October 25, 2015 Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 That makes a whole difference in your post, lol. You'd just have to talk it out. Tell her what traits make you think she would fit the role and what you think you have to offer as a Daddy and see if she is interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwada Posted October 25, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2015 I think she has a new daddy :/ She has no idea I can be a daddy but I can't put it out there just like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhioDaddy76 Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 I would say that relationship ran its course and you should take your lessons and experience, learn well from them, and walk away. There are other women/littles out there, other relationship dynamics that may serve you better, and new lessons to learn about life. Look back at what you had with fondness, but don't live in the past would be my advice. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwada Posted October 26, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 I understand totally. I have. I keep thinking she is the one. What make it difficult? SEEING her everyday and sharing a uni subject together as a group. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OhioDaddy76 Posted October 28, 2015 Report Share Posted October 28, 2015 Gwada, I think that's a natural reaction to the unknown. My mom always calls that "the devil you know being more attractive than the devil you don't" which is to say it's a natural thing for our minds to get stuck on the idea that something is as good as it gets because we just haven't even seen the something better. This also applies to getting stuck in less than ideal jobs or relationships because we can't imagine what's to come. Any time in life I've recycled a romantic relationship I've ended up pretty regretful of that decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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