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Beware of Bad Daddies!


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Guest LittleWing

What's scarier than Halloween? A bad Daddy.

 

Although I'm new on here, I should've read the rules better. Shame on me. My Daddy and I broke up after I had that sick feeling in my tummy. We were together for almost a year and were happy I thought. A couple of months ago, I caught him cheating on me and "collecting littles." Another Daddy and his little warned me not to isolate myself like my Daddy initially wanted. They said it wasn't good for I me but I didn't listen. What I didn't know is that my gut feeling was right. He'd use kik for me, Skype for someone else, and another free messenger app for another little and a phone for somebody else.

 

Here is a question. If you don't want to be with somebody, why don't you just tell them? Daddies, don't string us along. Let us find a better Daddy!

 

Sounds like common sense? It is. But littles want that Daddy so much and trust easily. It's easy to not use your brain and just your heart.

 

Be careful Little Friends!!!! There are monsters out there. Love my Little Friends and shout out to good Daddies everywhere!

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I don't trust no one no more.  My last Daddy was married.  By the time I found out I was pretty attached and I chose to believe all his promises that they were breaking up and he just had to make sure she was okay financially before he left her and stuff, but truth was she didn't even know they were having problems.  He left her and moved in with me for a couple of weeks, but then went right back and still wanted to keep me on the side.  I found out from her he'd done it to her a lot of times and she said she expected it as part of their relationship, but that I better not ever get it in my head he meant the things he said to me because he always went back to her.  He just stopped talking to be all together one night right after telling me what apartments he was moving to when he left and everything.  I've been more open and honest with that guy than anyone ever.  He knows my deepest darkest self.  It's been a year and still hurts.  Nope.  I don't trust no one no more.  I'm just gonna stay single forever.  May get lonely, but no more broken heartedness. 

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That's horrible, I'm sorry to hear you went through that. I've heard this so many times with both BDSM and vanilla long distance relationships (and in person relationships but I think its easier when your not together in person)

 

People who take advantage of you because they can't get enough attention. They are selfish. This happens with men and women, Daddy's/Mommy's and littles. Greedy, selfish, destructive people.

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Be careful. Some Daddies come to the forum to start their collection. My old Daddy comes on here. Ask lots of questions!

Doesn't this go both ways though, and sort of applies to any relationship?

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Guest KittenXO

I can relate to this and I'm so very sorry you went through this. I know exactly how you feel. Since my break up, I feel like every guy is out to get me and like I can't trust anything anymore I was with my last Daddy for 6 months but I moved in with him before really getting to know him and as it turns out he was a pathological liar. He would talk to and try to befriend other littles behind my back and had an ongoing relationship with this one little. He lied to me about alot to this day I still don't know what was and wasn't a lie.He abused me mentally and physically. He made me feel like and believe that I was crazy and making things up in my head about him talking to other girls.I would always ask him to prove to me that he wasn't talking to other girls and he wouldn't. He would take his phone everywhere with him, the bathroom, the kitchen, it drove me crazy and made me really depressed.He was the kind of liar who's eyes spoke honesty, so if you didn't know the truth you would easily fall for and believe his lies. He was dangerous. I turned into someone I hated by being with him. And by the end of it, I didn't really know this "daddy" that I had fell in love with or myself at all. It's traumatizing to have a daddy who doesn't really care about you or your well being but hopefully one day we'll both find the best Daddies in the world that will cherish us. -hugs you- ☺

We just have to carefully choose who to convey in a good daddy will take his time and earn our trust.

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Guest MyDaddyMyWorld

Some PEOPLE act badly. Just because someone says they are a daddy, it doesn't mean they are automatically wonderful. A lot of men use it to attract naive, vulnerable girls. But also, a lot of women no doubt do the same....call themselves littles to attract men to take advantage of them.

But these things happen unfortunately. Been through stuff myself. Had men try (and one succeed) taking advantage of me. My daddy has also had women try use him by pretending to be submissive and messing him about.

We all have to go through these bad things. Just take time to heal. He wasn't really your daddy. He was a jerk.

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As soon as someone wants you to isolate yourself, get out! That is a sign of abuse. Because if you isolate yourself, you can't leave because you'll have nowhere to go. And anyone who "collects" people WITHOUT CONSENT FROM THE PARTNER isn't worth it. Watch out for warning signs and go on your gut feeling!
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  • 1 month later...

So sorry for the hurt & the pains you suffered & endured.

Do realize that you may have to help a potential daddy understand that your dd/lg is not just a play & forget fetish, but a lifestyle festish with normal adult commitment dynamics of the "vanilla" couple relationship, but with sprinkles & a cherry on top fun.

My motto is "If you love someone, set them... " Love with your all, but go slowly & gently, so as to not crush or overwhelm the one being loved.

Hopefully,let these experiences be life lessons to help build & encourage you to be a happier little within you.

All the best Merry Christmas & hopeful new year!!

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Guest MyDaddyMyWorld

If you have to monitor and adjust how you love, that's a clear sign you aren't with the right person. I love openly, vocally, and I do not hide or dilute it to try and conform to anyone.

I have thrown love at my daddy in bucketfuls from day one. He loves it. He might sometimes tell me to settle down a bit if for instance we are in company cos he doesn't want me scaring members of the public haha. But that's fine. It is also another way he reminds me who's boss. I love that.

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  • 4 weeks later...

Many years before I met my Daddy, I had a crush on a male friend of mine. His name is Matt. I didn't realize Matt was in to BDSM...and possibly DDlg at the time, because I didn't even know what that was beyond liking spanking. I realized it later after looking back. But Matt would always flirt with me via email. I knew better than to believe he really wanted to be my boyfriend...but I thought he was going to wind up one of my best friends...maybe "fwb," maybe not. Another friend of ours told him that I wanted to be in a steady relationship with him, and that I thought we were dating...which wasn't true....and instead of coming to me and asking, "are you going around telling people we are dating?" he just believed this other person and flipped out on me. I was devastated at the loss of my best buddy. I tried reaching out a few times. then gave up.  A few months later, we cautiously began talking again. Some people online...lead by this third person...who had turned on him too as well as me...started bullying him online. I told the bullies to knock it off. Matt flipped out on me again...told me to never speak to him again. I think this guy was truly convinced I was madly in love with him. I had enough after that, and happily never spoke to either of them again. A few months after that...Matt starts following me around town. I ignored him, and wouldnt even wave back when he waved at me. I also thanked my lucky stars I didn't date this guy or become his sub or his little. If he has a sub or an lg now....I feel sorry for her. 

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