New to the DD/lg scene and have some questions.

[Daddydom94]

My questions are how much do you littles care about your daddy's looks. For ex I'm overweight but trying to work on it would that be a deal breaker for most littles. My final question is how many of you prefer/would prefer/did start in a long distance relationship.

[Guest Heavenly.D.Carr]

Every little has a preference and you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself just because others don't like your physical form. Long distance relationships are also a preference. I for one prefer getting to gain some info on the Dom I'm interested in before I'm willing to go out of my way to meet up physically.

[HerDarkDaddy]

There is no "par" when it comes to littles and their preferences towards physical characteristics of their Daddies. Everyone is different and everyone has different tastes. You aren't going to be very little's "cup of tea"...but, I'll guarantee you that some little out there would be thrilled to have you as their Daddy. You just have to find them...just like with ANY relationship.

 

As far as long-distance goes...again, it will be up to the individual littles. The DD/Lg lifestyle demands a LOT of trust, devotion and love...I would venture to say, a bit more than a standard relationship generally requires (although all relationships should receive the same amount). So, a LDR beginning to the relationship is really not a bad place to start. It gives you the ability to actually get to know each other on an emotional and psychological level, before being distracted by the physical aspect.

 

Good luck to you and, if you have any other questions or are looking for some more advice...feel free to drop me a message.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

I spoke to my daddy online for a few days without ever seeing what he looked like. The only specification I had in that respect was that he couldn't be shorter than me, or seriously over or underweight. Other than that, I didn't care.

We are eighty miles apart. But we were only ok with distance as we spoke very early on about the future. If things went well, one of us would move. Things are going extremely well, and I'm going to him next year.

That is the only reason I can cope with being apart for the time being.

[Guest Miss Braid]

I do care about my partner's looks somewhat. I don't need a person who is drop dead stunning -- but they have to be someone who I'm willing to look at (5-7/10, if we use the 10 scale... after about 7.5 I can't talk anymore XD). I don't care overmuch about my partner's weight, but I want a partner who is not dangerously over weight, or under weight. 

 

I strongly prefer a local (or semi-local) relationship

[Guest MissKittyDeNoir]

I have to say that I agree with Miss Braid. Everyone has their own preferences or tastes in Daddies. For me, I would like to feel some physical attraction to my Daddy if I plan to have this close relationship with him for I do wish to engage in sexual activities. I definitely prefer a local Daddy because I respond to physical contact as well as emotional. They don't have to be Chris Hemsworth or Alexander Skarsgård, but I would like to be able to look at them or desire them to take care of me in more ways than one. Mark Ruffalo would probably be a good example, heehee.

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

As the comments above me stated, everyone is going to desire different traits in a partner. For me, I would like my partner to be healthy and decent looking. As far as long distance relationships, it's not for me.

[Guest thatlittlerebella]

Physical appearance means little to nothing to me. However, personal hygiene and chemistry is a must!

 

My partner and I started in a long distance relationship and saw each other almost every weekend when things got super serious until I moved in with him. 

[Guest NYGuy]

From the perspective of another daddy the best advice I could give is that you should think of it like you would every other person, unique and different preferences per person. Although I've always found littles to be sweeter and more accepting of certain flaws I've had or still have I didnt change the bar on being happy with and accepting myself first and foremost. So as far as looks go the more important questions are "am I trying to be healthy as I reasonably can be" and then "Do I like how I look?". That's for the sake of your own confidence which I believe will be more attractive to anybody you're interested in generally. Ultimately you have to have a level of happiness within yourself to draw on before you can earnestly try to make another human being feel content and accepted at your side.

 

As for long distance it's again a preference thing case by case but everyone before me has answered it so well that I couldn't say it any better!