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finally told my bf I want to call him daddy


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It's weird we interact very much like dd/lg, but I just never had the courage to call him that.  Earlier I finally told him how I felt and he was totally cool with it.  He even started referring to himself as that and I called him it a few times... it was really nice.  I'm still just a tiiiiiny bit awkward about it but time should make that better.  I can be that way about anything new I try, so it'll just take time before im more used to it.

 

But yeah super relieved and happy, so I just wanted to share that ^_^

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I'm glad hehe I replied to your post on tumblr and saw your responce here, I'm happy for you!

 

Thanks! ... and I tried to reply to you on there but I'm still so confused by the commenting on there haha.

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Yay that's so exciting! The same thing happened to me I was nervous and unsure and worried about how he might take it but now he takes on his daddy role with ease! It only gets better good luck!
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I'm glad to hear that things with you and your boyfriend (Or your daddy, as I should say now XD) went well!  I knew he'd be okay with it and I wish both of you the best. :)

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I'm super happy for you and that he took it so well! I just told my bestfriend that I was a little the other day and she was so nonchalant about it and accepting that I was so excited.
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It can be a big scary thing! I think 'Daddy' has a lot of pre-existing baggage that comes with it, more so than 'Master' or 'Sir' even - even if you already have a D/s relationship established, that can be a whole 'nother level. So good for you! That takes a lot of bravery.

 

I was actually the one to bring it up to my girliephant. We'd been together for two years at that point, and married for one. We knew that we had a D/s relationship but we couldn't nail it down. Mistress/slave was - well, okay, caused huge dysmorphia for me and was was too strict for both of us. But we'd been reading up on different types of D/s relationships, and I found out about Daddy/little, and started reading up on it. But I was still really nervous about bringing it up, because there was always the chance that she would think I was weird. 

 

One of our very first dates was a busy day wandering the city, and when we got back to my apartment she was totally wiped. So I put on Wall-E, tucked her in on the couch, and made us dinner. The memory of that day had stuck with me all through the next few years of our relationship, and kept coming up when I was doing that research.

 

So one night I finally got up my courage and crawled into bed with her and said "Girlie, do you think of me as your Daddy?" 

 

And that was all she wrote! I mean, it's taken a lot of work to get to a good functioning place - and it still takes a lot of work. Being a Daddy is a lot harder than having a little call you Daddy and doling out spankings.

 

I hope your new Daddy is as happy with his new role as I was, and if he needs advice or help I am always here to chat. 

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It can be such a scary thing to do! It's awesome that you took that plunge! I hope it enriches your relationship! :)

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Awwwwh! Congrats bb! xoxo 

 

My last relationship of two years had a ddbg dynamic, and when we first started to date he didn't know about ddbg. We read up on tumblr, fet, and other forums and grew as a couple. It was lots of fun, and as long as both people are willing to commit it will be great! 

 

Goodluck!!! 

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