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Howdy! I'm new to exploring littlespace. I'm 31 and a single dad.

Hi Jenny70 - it's definitely good to talk to someone around my age, and I would certainly love to chat! I too am not really looking for more than friendship right now either so that's perfect Thanks!

Hello, It is good to see someone around my age, I am 55. I just learned I have middle qualities, I knew I was different from my family. I talked to someone who knew "littles" It described me, so here I am. I hope we can be friends and chat, i am not looking for anything more than friends.

Hi - I didn't realize when I joined the group here I didn't write an introductory post. I just turned 53 a few months ago, and have been exploring the concept of little as well as submissive for maybe the past year. I hadn't thought about the title of Kitten as an older little, but I've always liked the endearment so actually named my inner self that sometime in the past year. I don't know if I'm a little or not, haven't really been able to narrow down to a specific age range or anything, but I do like the idea of it, of letting go of life's headaches sometimes and just playing. Still exploring those options but one of the easiest things I found was bubble soap - it's small, colorful, light, and doesn't raise a lot of questions should a bottle of it be left out. I don't have a caregiver, daddy or dominant, haven't ever had one, so I've been exploring ideas on how to "parent" myself so to speak. Maybe one day I'll find someone, but right now I just want to be able to try and experience some ddlg elements, even on my own. ✨🐈‍⬛

I am 54 years old, was always different and didn't know about littles till 3 years ago. I am looking to learn more about being a middle.

Hello, I am also in my 50's and new to this. I am an actual caregiver of the past 24 years and counting somedays are way more draining then others. I have always taken care of everyone else and put myself last. After my last relationship of 20 years, I am trying to heal myself and see what it is I like and enjoy as a person. I am slowly finding out that the things I love doing are leading me towards being a little. From what I am reading and discovering I am a toddler to middle. I am not sure how to meet others like me or in the community. I feel like I am drowning with out a life raft. I was so happy to find this community. I have only talked with a few others but they have been very nice and helpful. I am not sure if I am explaining this correctly or not so please forgive me.

Welcome to the forum, this is great advice, there are a lot of great clubs and topics here, take your time to browse them.✨😊

i'm 22 and relatively new to the DDlg dynamic and my Daddy said I should look at some forums and now i'm here. This is my first time using a forum or really putting myself out there to talk about things like this, but I want to give it a try

I'm the main provider for my family so also make a lot of the decisions. When i need little time I let my Daddy know if it's during the day or in evenings we already have a routine and rules. For us it was a matter if having an adult to adult conversation and finding what works best for us both.

well I can't claim to have a whole lot of experience myself with the DLG dynamic but what I can tell you is to just sit down and have a conversation with him. communication is key to any relationship! and y'all need to just have a Frank discussion about your needs and his needs and then come to decisions together about what's gonna work for both of you. I know it's sometimeshard to initiate conversations like that but I think if you do that you'll feel better! Good luck sweetheart sending you big hugs!

Hello im looking to vent and probably advice. I carry the mental load of my family and make most of the important decisions etc as I'm older than my daddy and more established as far as the bills are in my name and all that. I've only discovered I'm a little/middle a little bit ago. I'm finding that all of the responsibilities are dragging me down and I want to ask my daddy for a more formal dynamic like with actual rules and stuff as we only do ddlg stuff a little bit rn. Mostly it's just me calling him daddy and an occasional spanking. How do yall balance real life responsibilities and needing to go little? How do you communicate a need for structure? I might be overthinking it a bit lol thanks in advance for any input.

Thank you! I believe I’ve joined a few clubs, I’m still learning how to maneuver this space 😅 I’m really excited so far, everyones been super welcoming.

welcome!! So very glad to have you here with us!! when your comfortable, come check out the littles section! we have a little subsection there for littles whi are a little okder as well! we also have lots of other cool clubs you can join! and ive found here to be super friendly and welcoming 😁

Hi there! You can call me Squish, I’m (soon to be) 34 years old and semi new to the dynamic. I had lost over a decade of caregiving and love and am reclaiming it for myself. I’m somewhat timid in social space, but I am very much looking forward to being here 😊

Hi Bean! Welcome to the group.

Hi I'm Bean. I turned 30 in May and let me tell you it's been a trip lol I'm still learning about my little/middle. I have a daddy. I've only known what a little was for a few years and only realized I was one about a couple years ago. Anyways I'm happy to be here!

LilJeanie, Thank you for sharing…that is so great that you found your Daddy 10 years ago. I don’t think anyone gets it right 100% of the time…😊. Good communication and the willingness to listen always helps things get better. Long distance relationships are hard, but I am finding it to be worth it..😊. Gellybeangrl

Hi Gelly 👋🏻😊 and welcome. I haven't been in this world for too long, about a year, but this is a great place to learn from and chat to like minded people.

Hi 👋🏾 I am new here. 52 years old (middle 11-13). I’m so happy that my DD found this forum for me to join to meet other littles/middles. I am new to the Dd/lg BDSM dynamic. My current Daddy is my first. I am happy to be here. Looking forward to making some great little/middle friends. 😊

I am also in my 50's. I am a 9-11 year old middle. I was so fortunate to find my Daddy about 10 years ago, but I fought to embrace my little side. I have only just started doing so. Daddy is supportive, but doesn't always get it right. And I don't always communicate effectively. I think that is one of the most important things with any dynamic, effective communication. Long distance is hard, but I am glad that you are finding time to be your authentic self and that there is someone to support you. I am also looking for friends....

Hello, I am in my 50's and am a 11-13 year old middle. I am new to being in a DD/lg relationship. I am older and have always gravitated to being a middle/little, but I had difficulty embracing it. My Ex didn't get it and I let that part of myself go into hiding. Now that my ex is out of the picture, and I am doing my best to reclaim myself. In doing so I have found myself in a DD/lg relationship. It is my first time being in a dynamic such as this. It is also a long distance relationship, which makes things a bit harder. I have a very hectic and professional job. As soon as I walk through my apartment doors, I am in "little space". I am hoping to find friends and others to talk about living life as a middle/little. I am still learning...only have 3 months under my belt. Thanks, Gellybeangrl11

Sorry I put my intro in the wrong place. Gellybeangrl11

Hii!! I am a 37 year old, with a 2-4 year old little self. I am without a caregiver at the moment, but am finding that the more stress life puts on me, the more I embrace my mini me. I have also became more comfortable incorporating cute clothes or bright colors into my outfits. I would love to be friends, and would be happy to answer any questions that I could. -kp

I’m getting back into being a little and trying to introduce my husband to being my daddy. I played around a little bit as a little in college and loved it. Then met my ex who was abusive and called being a little stupid and manipulated me out of wanting to be a little. I lost myself for a really long time and now I’m ready to finally find myself again. Mainly just joined this group to see how others my age are handling little lifestyle and things like that. Thanks.

Here are some posts that I think might help you. I don’t have a Daddy but a chore chart with stickers sounds fun and a build a bear date is a fantastic reward.