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welcome! so happy to have you with us! We have a few clubs you may want to check out. specifically the friend zone. if you like to read, the book club is very active, and a great way to meet new folks! theres also a few fun games a lot of us play, its an easy way to interact in a relaxed environment. If you have any questions, reach out any time 😀

Hi I'm Anna and I just recently discovered my middle/subby side about a year ago now. And I love making friends

i have older kids and im so scared to have little space becuase soo many times im little and theres a knock at the door and im dragged out so fast, i start crying and panicking its so horrible, and i have to woman up and deal with who ever is at my door, some nights i cry because i want and need little space but i cant. my daddy is long distance for probably another year and i miss him so so much. i dont know what to do, im adult all day and i just wish i could have some little time in the evening while on call with daddy 😢

what about a large cupboard if you have one? thats what im thinking of doing, i have the same problem my adult self is soo different to my little self, it makes me cringe to see my plushies sometimes its like a battle in my head and i do get really upset about it

hi im from the uk, only just this year exploring little side, its a struggle with 3 kids, a midsize body, recently divorced and so used to being a house wife, but ive been with my daddy a year now, im going through therapy but im scared to bring up ddlg, my therapist did say breifly i should try to heal my inner child once lol. im just looking for older littles to make friends with and get tips for getting into little space etc

I love fuzzy socks!! Strawberry shortcake ones sound adorable My bedroom is my little space. I still have to be kinda incognito when it comes to my little stuff. I have my plushies and coloring books out, but I keep my pacifiers and such outta sight. I really really would like a fort of some kind. I have the room for it but I think it would be too conspicuous. I would love to put some fairy lights up. I would love to have a miniature doll house.

I have a kiddo, too, so having a specific space is hard, but I thought maybe my closet... the only other thing is that I rent through an income based program... if they come in to do maintenance, which is allowed on the lease, and tell others what they see, will it compromise my job and my housing status? If I put my stuff in a closed bin/tub then no one knows what I'm doing... I'm very careful with most of my little stuff, the bottles, pacis, sippy, washable, reusable diapers, all get put away, to protect my kiddo and my houding status... I do keep coloring pages and supplies our since I share them, stuffies stay on my bed since my kiddo gives them to me... and soft cute cloths are just part of teaching 4 year olds... I can dive in and play toys with my kids at work or at home super easily, but like @RoseyLittle said by myself feels different... I really want to, but it's different. What I've noticed as my kids get older is that I play with their toys longer than they do... they are ready to move to different toys, but I still want to play with a certain age group of toys... my little age would love to have all the Little People and Weebles spread around the house (3 giant Christmas tree sized totes overflowing without lids)... but my teenager thinks I'm crazy for keeping these toys... I have to be in big space to be interested in hair, make-up, nails, clothes... since my littlespace is normally so smol... So maybe a few questions for everyone... What kinda toys do have/play with in your littlespace? What kinda toys do you want to add to your littlespace? What kinda decorations do you want in your littlespace?

This is so lovely! I think creating yourself a little space sounds like such a great idea - and your idea sounds so pretty and cozy! I have a bin in our bedroom I keep my littles crafts and colouring, and things like sippy cup and bottle for when I regress. I can’t have an open space in the house since we have our two kiddos and Baba who lives with us. I keep Mr. Top my stuffed bear out though. I feel a little shy about playing too when it comes to toys. When with my kiddos I can jump right in and play with them all day! But when it’s just me and I regress I can do arts and crafts easy peasy but find play harder. I just sit there shy and unsure. I was a big tomboy my whole childhood and teen years, I’ve never even owned a doll. And it wasn’t safe to be girly or soft. I feel like while my middles is a total hoodlum my Littles is more that sweet soft side of me I never got to express and had to hide away, and it’s harder to coax that out. I’m hoping to get a doll or some toys and help the walls down enough to come out and play this year. So I really resonated with what you wrote. I can’t be helpful with your question of what others do with little space cause I’m in a similar struggle - but am following along to hear others too!

Ooo! I hsve several bottles, a sippy, baby bowels, spoons, forks and some divided plates... plus I love those baby puffs... especially the sweet potato ones! 🤭🥰

Those sound so fun to play with. I’m jelly! I have a few Monster High dolls that I play with and a lot of stuffies. I just have my stuffies spread out all over the living room. I have a bunch of collectibles displayed as well. I have a verity of sippy cups and bottles too, just chilling in my kitchen.

Sooo I got some fantastic toys for my littlespace time. I feel kinda shy about actually playing with them. I regress sometimes and sometimes not, but still go pretty smol in littlespace... I really wanna play with my toys, but I'm super overwhelmed at the thought... sooo I thought maybe if I shared what I have and invited my little friends to share too, I wouldn't feel so overwhelmed... Ok... *deep breaths * I got 2 small doll houses (I already have a small bunny family to put in the houses) and a small 3 bears to use in the houses... the doll furniture is on it's way.... I already have 2 baby dolls (twins) with bottles and diapers and baby blankets... they each have a new outfit.... I got new stuffies... Hello Kitty and friends. I got a new Barbie doll too! I'm still earning all the prizes from the box, but she has a skirt, purse, sunglasses, sunscreen and another bottle of something...hehehe I have several craft sets, beads, diamond art, perler beads, coloring books, and a recipe book (not for littlespace) I also have lotsa new fuzzy socks strawberry shortcake and pacis! My thoughts are I need a designated space to place and a tub to keep my toys in... I would love to have a permanent space with purple lights and a fluffy rug or cozy chair, but I'm not sure I'm ready yet... What do other littles have for littlespace?

Hi! I'm an older little! I'd be happy to chat with you. Poppy

You will find plenty of knowledgeable people here. Good luck. Just follow your heart. There is no right or wrong way to live the lifestyle. It is just what works for you 2.

Hello, am a 34 year old female. I've alway been interested in some form of a DD/lg relationship. Though never knew the wording for it. I've brought this up to my hubby and he seems willing to explore it. I know for sure that I am a little and my hubby is all for being Daddy. But I'm finding it hard to figure out where we start. Also if possible I'd love to be able to talk to older Littles that maybe I could relate to. Everything is so new for me and my hubby. I've mentioned this to my therapist and she suggested looking at forums. So if anybody is willing to talk I'd be grateful. Thank you for taking the time to read this!

Howdy! I'm new to exploring littlespace. I'm 31 and a single dad.

Hi Jenny70 - it's definitely good to talk to someone around my age, and I would certainly love to chat! I too am not really looking for more than friendship right now either so that's perfect Thanks!

Hello, It is good to see someone around my age, I am 55. I just learned I have middle qualities, I knew I was different from my family. I talked to someone who knew "littles" It described me, so here I am. I hope we can be friends and chat, i am not looking for anything more than friends.

Hi - I didn't realize when I joined the group here I didn't write an introductory post. I just turned 53 a few months ago, and have been exploring the concept of little as well as submissive for maybe the past year. I hadn't thought about the title of Kitten as an older little, but I've always liked the endearment so actually named my inner self that sometime in the past year. I don't know if I'm a little or not, haven't really been able to narrow down to a specific age range or anything, but I do like the idea of it, of letting go of life's headaches sometimes and just playing. Still exploring those options but one of the easiest things I found was bubble soap - it's small, colorful, light, and doesn't raise a lot of questions should a bottle of it be left out. I don't have a caregiver, daddy or dominant, haven't ever had one, so I've been exploring ideas on how to "parent" myself so to speak. Maybe one day I'll find someone, but right now I just want to be able to try and experience some ddlg elements, even on my own. ✨🐈‍⬛

I am 54 years old, was always different and didn't know about littles till 3 years ago. I am looking to learn more about being a middle.

Hello, I am also in my 50's and new to this. I am an actual caregiver of the past 24 years and counting somedays are way more draining then others. I have always taken care of everyone else and put myself last. After my last relationship of 20 years, I am trying to heal myself and see what it is I like and enjoy as a person. I am slowly finding out that the things I love doing are leading me towards being a little. From what I am reading and discovering I am a toddler to middle. I am not sure how to meet others like me or in the community. I feel like I am drowning with out a life raft. I was so happy to find this community. I have only talked with a few others but they have been very nice and helpful. I am not sure if I am explaining this correctly or not so please forgive me.

Welcome to the forum, this is great advice, there are a lot of great clubs and topics here, take your time to browse them.✨😊

i'm 22 and relatively new to the DDlg dynamic and my Daddy said I should look at some forums and now i'm here. This is my first time using a forum or really putting myself out there to talk about things like this, but I want to give it a try

I'm the main provider for my family so also make a lot of the decisions. When i need little time I let my Daddy know if it's during the day or in evenings we already have a routine and rules. For us it was a matter if having an adult to adult conversation and finding what works best for us both.

well I can't claim to have a whole lot of experience myself with the DLG dynamic but what I can tell you is to just sit down and have a conversation with him. communication is key to any relationship! and y'all need to just have a Frank discussion about your needs and his needs and then come to decisions together about what's gonna work for both of you. I know it's sometimeshard to initiate conversations like that but I think if you do that you'll feel better! Good luck sweetheart sending you big hugs!

Hello im looking to vent and probably advice. I carry the mental load of my family and make most of the important decisions etc as I'm older than my daddy and more established as far as the bills are in my name and all that. I've only discovered I'm a little/middle a little bit ago. I'm finding that all of the responsibilities are dragging me down and I want to ask my daddy for a more formal dynamic like with actual rules and stuff as we only do ddlg stuff a little bit rn. Mostly it's just me calling him daddy and an occasional spanking. How do yall balance real life responsibilities and needing to go little? How do you communicate a need for structure? I might be overthinking it a bit lol thanks in advance for any input.