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Helloo! I am not necessarily new to this community but it has been awhile since I have been active. A little about me. I make my own schedule for work, yay! I enjoy video games, cooking, dancing and obviously being little. I am excited to be back in this place. Thanks for reading !

Moar interactions Also True story, we increased the limit so a certain someone could keep liking things till their heart was content. We love quality interactions, it's what this place was designed for.

Next week is shaping up to be very stressful as we are winding down my division at work and I am worried for my staff and the transition. The end result, lots if stress, tension, muscle notes, headaches and more. Well, my Daddy decided to surprise me thus morning by putting a fireplace video on His computer monitor, lighting candles and treating me to a full body massage followed by cuddles under a new soft Paw Patrol blanket. I curled up on His chest and napped for a couple of hours just comfy listening to His heart beat and breathing 🥰🥰 Love my Daddy.

I figured it would be efficient to just make a thread of all of my rollerblading adventures instead of blowing up the status area with it so much … even though I’ll still post about it here and there 🐒💨 Todays adventure included Dad completely biffing it , seeing a huge eagle , the gorgeous mountain , a really cool OG I met named Robert , and we ended the day with some fuel at our favorite dive bar with vegan options ! :3 I will start with the Mount Rainier and eagle photos (the eagle was really high up so quality is not great). I always end my ride with a quick rest by the water since the air is cooler there : I also met this REALLY FUCKING COOL OG ! I was nervous but I went up to him and introduced myself and asked how long he’s been skating and I told him how good he was , when we left I gave him a fist bump and thanked him for talking to me to show him respect 🫶🏼 His name was Robert and my spot used to be his spot as a kid and he stopped skating for years , then got back into it about four years ago. He said he’ll look for me when he’s down there now ! :3 This is Robert and his skills : Im saving the best for last of course ….. Dad biffing it ! Hehehehehe 👹 I laughed so hard : Then after we rode for two hours straight we were super hungry and went to Eleven - Eleven ! It’s a super grungy dive bar with the best food. I got a buffalo sammich , Brother got the salad version of my sammich and Dad got a vegan patty melt , and we all shared a vegan berry chocolate cake with gold flakes ! Rollerblade days are the best 🫶🏼💖

I for one and a sure lots of people would agree would encourage people to post lots as interacting is very important to me it helps me learn more everyday and if it helps more power to ya

To start, Content Warning for mentions of weight loss. Hello everyone! Many, many moons ago, I came across a DDLG Youtuber (who has long since deleted her channel) discuss her weight loss journey/fitness journey and how she was coinciding it with her DDLG/Littlespace lifestyle. I thought it was the neatest thing, and kick myself for not remembering much about what she said. I was reminded of it as there is an ongoing discussion in another thread regarding exercising and making it littlespace-themed. So, I was thinking others might be interested in a thread regarding it! I know myself personally am trying to lose weight and be more active, and if it were little-themed, it would be so much more fun!! SO, here's a few ideas of what a DDLG style fitness journey could look like: - find a fun kids' exercise program or activity. You could do Disney Dance routines, hula hoop, pole dance, workout to Little music, or (like the girl in the video mentioned) you could jumprope! - make sure to have plenty of fruits and veggies, but make the food cute in a bento box style - put your daily water goal in a sippy or adult bottle - keep track of your goals on a sticker chart - try to switch out pop/soda with flavored water, sugar free Koolaid, light juice, or milk - another thing the video mentioned that I'm not sure I would do myself was eat a kid's portion from the kid's menu when you eat out. sometimes that fills me up but you also wanna make sure you eat enough, you know? - watch cartoons while you workout - get Little-ified treats for hitting goals (new stuffie?) These are just some things I had rolling around in my noggin. If anyone wants to share more ideas I would love it!

Hi everyone!:) I’m 25f and have only recently found the courage to accept and start exploring this side of myself and I’m thankful to of found this place. I’m just hoping to be able to find some like minded friends and a safe space here. Currently I am in a relationship but he doesn’t approve of exploring this with me so we’ve discussed that he’s fine as long as he isn’t filled in on it. Right now I work part time and when I’m not at work/alone I tend to slip into my little space. Some things I enjoy are gaming, listening to music, writing, coloring, stuffed animals (I have too many to count), Star Wars (if my screen name wasn’t a give away lol), building Lego, watching cartoons, and reading. Thank you for the add and I can’t wait to get to know you all!:)

I'm 72, and within the last few months have taken a walk into being a little_middle. Have no idea what I am doing but better late than never. Age is a number that society lays in us....

You're a year younger then my sister and Daddy. Numbers ARE just numbers. Age has nothing to do with a mindset. How you feel mentally, physically. And later is better then never! Enjoy yourself! 🤗

We would like to welcome everyone that reads this to our home and family. We know there are other places you can go and groups you can join so we do appreciate you choosing us. It is an honor and a privilege to be allowed to share this journey with you. We understand how important the people you surround yourself with and the environment you hang out in is to your development and growth as a person. These things help to shape you and can either be a blessing or a mistake, we wish to be the former. So we are happy you are with us. You will see us refer to this place as our home, our village, and the members as our family quite often. That is because that is what this place and these people mean to us. This is not just a site we log into to kill time and escape for a few minutes. And by us I do not mean the staff, I mean each and every one of us that shares a love for our community and our extended family. This is our home and we care about it and those that are with us. So to all of you we say hello and welcome and enjoy your time with us, you are home.

Hi Everyone!! 😋 My name is Anisasha, but I prefer Little Bit or Peanut (even tho I am allergic to tree nuts!), I am 4’11 and 3/4 inches tall. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, and I LOVE Bluey. I am new to this community and can not wait to learn and expand my horizons. (I am married but he is uninterested in even learning about it.) (oh I am also southern!!) can’t wait to meet y’all!

First give yourself permission to explore without self judgment. Often one of the biggest barriers to exploring your little or middle space are the barriers we place on ourselves. Second, try different things. See what you enjoy, don't enjoy and are neutral about. There is no single way to find your little or middlespacw, it really is a process of exploration. It also isn't necessarily going to be something immediate or that will be static, it may change over time.

Hiii! My name is Meg and I’m so excited to meet you all I am new to everything here and hoping to learn from everyone and get to know myself better too!

For those who know me I am a little and also a furry. Well, my birthday is next week and my Dadsy surprised me tonight, ir rather the company He got my gift from surprised me lol. Daddy ordered me a matching custom set of ears and a tail based on my fursona ref sheet. The tail and ears are remote controlled through a phone app but also can be set to react based on motion and sound. For example, if I tilt my head the ears will react accordingly or if they hear a sound they will orient to the sound. The tail can be set to different programs or to react to body posture. I'm ssoooooo EXCITED!!!

Mommy came home from something very stressful and scary yesterday, and when I heard her pull in the driveway, I ran out to the porch and was jumping up and down and cheering for her like a lil anime girlie defffffffff big Little energy

Hi! I’m Dev, my pronouns are she/her. I am just joining the DDLG community and I am still pretty new to the dynamic and am single now. I love to draw and color. I love puzzles I have so many Disney puzzle's but sometimes they are really hard to do by myself. I really love to snuggle up and read too! I do that everyday that I can! I am not really sure what else to say, I’m really shy before you get to know me but I do come out of my shell after talking for a bit.

I wanted to add something but I was not sure what would be interesting to share. I thought about it a lot and given the forum and how people come here to find connections I would share a Japanese word/saying that is all about the inevitable connection. Koi No Yokan (恋の予感) although there is no direct English language translation it can roughly be translated into “premonition of love”. It is also the name of the American band Deftones seventh album but all it share is the name haha but in description it is used to describe the sense a person has upon meeting another person, the future love between them is inevitable. This is not the same thing as “love at first sight”. An example would be like, “Your smell was never unfamiliar”.

You can discuss some things in the group to be sure. A lot of other littles may have experience or insights as to what you’re going through, that a Daddy or caregiver just may not have. But the most important thing in finding a Daddy is to be comfortable with them. If you don’t feel good about something, speak up. A good Daddy or caregiver wants to learn as much as you do. If you find resistance, then it’s a red flag and time to find someone else.

very submissive, i live on the east coast and looking for a DD to love & take care of me

My point may be unpopular but it's something that I think is very important be raised and acknowledged. Being a little does not mean someone gets to abdicate the need to communicate their desires or blame everything on someone else. A lot of what described sounds like she is putting all the onus, responsibility, accountability and pressure on you and that isn't how a relationship works. Blaming you for not knowing what she wants isn't fair and doesn't make sense. It isn't on you to be a mind reader, communication is a two way street. Being upset with you about clothing when you're expressing how you feel sounds more like you are being used as an emotional punching bag than you being unhelpful. Age has nothing to do with being a good Daddy. My Daddy was 18 when we got together and I was 39. He was and is a great Daddy because WE communicate and support one another. When things are one sided they fail. It sounds like you're putting in a lot of effort to make her happy but that the reciprocal support isn't there. The voice part really made me angry to be honest. Your voice is your voice. Her being upset with something that is part of you and isn't controllable sounds way more like emotional abuse than anything helpful or valid. You've placed all the blame on yourself but where is her part in the relationship? Where are her efforts other than just blaming you? At the end you stated all the thing you need to fix but even if you do that it sounds like she's going to just demand more and more without putting in her part of the effort.

Ahoy marshmallow mateys, I prefer to be called “Peach” inside & outside of subspace. 🍑💕 I’m from the USA but feel like I’m actually from Wonderland 👑❤️🐇⏰💜🩷😻😡🎩 🎂 I will be celebrating my 28th birthday on May 15th. 🥳 Birthdays are my fav bc i love family time, parties, & gifts. 🥺💐 I’m a single middle/switch. :3 My pronouns are she/her/hers 🌸 I’ve been involved w bdsm, kittenplay (kp), ddlg, cgl, mdl, & petplay for 10 years now, since I turned 18, but always knew deep down that I was 🛠️ bUiLt DiFfErEnT 🐦💙 ✅ fun facts about me: Family comes first for me, always 💞♾️, neurodivergent ⚙️, bipoc 🤎, lgbtq+ 🌈, a lil’ plus-sized 🥔😭, rural living 🕸️, farmer 🌱🌽🐄, & a cis-woman 🌷 🚫 i’m not here to waste anyone’s time, i just want to make friends and build genuine connections w like-minded peeps in terms of ddlg /cgl dynamics ✨ a potential partner would be groovy l8r on 🥰 💘 i absolutely love: My family ❤️, emojis 😭, pink 💕🌺🩷, cats + kittens 🐈🐈‍⬛😻, boba tea 🧋💗, road trips 🚙🌌, food 🍔🌭🌮🌯🍕🥪🍟🍗🍜🍝🥟🍫, all kinds of music 🎶🎤, reading books 📚, arcades + video games 👾🕹️🎮, and writing ✏️✍️. 🍼 little space me loves: Coloring 🖍️, cuddles 💕, kisses 💋, sippy cups 🥤, puzzles 🧩, dressing up 👗, playing w barbies 👠, gently playing w my food 🍴, snacks 🍇🍫🥨🍟, disney 💙, pixar 💚, anime (the wolf children is my fav 🐺👧🏽🧒🏽) 📺, studio ghibli 🐰, libraries 📚, singing 🎤, baths 🧼🛁🫧, being cared for 💞, stuffies 🥺🐱🦄🐯🐷🐮🦁🐻🦊🐸🐰, carnivals 🎡🎠, swimming 👙, & more 💝🥰 Thank you for creating a space for this community and I look forward to getting to know everyone and using the forum more often. ☺️💚 Don’t be shy to send me a request & say hi!!! 💕 or to say “meow!!” 😻 ‼️ I do have a busy life outside of ddlg/kp, so sometimes the best way to reach me would be thru IG when we get to know each other a bit more 💜 Thank you for taking the time to read 🥺😮‍💨 i’m sorry i wrote so much 🫠😭 i told you i love writing 🫠🥺😮‍💨😭 let’s go get some tonkotsu ramen & brown sugar milk tea boba to celebrate ?? 🍜🧋🥰💓 my treat since you did a great job !! 🧾💸

Hi everyone i been umming and arrghing about joining here and finally bit the bullet so to say im a little age 4/5 im Daddys princess of chaos hehe i love disney and making new friends and i makes and sell pacis thats soooooo much fun to do and thats me monster 😁

I still sometimes am surprised my Daddy fell in love with me when I was 39 and He was younger. He had the opportunity to be a Daddy to much younger littles but in His words, "all I wanted was you" 💗💗 Personally my Daddy and I both prefer to connect with folks 30 and older, far less drama in general and usually connections that go beyond DDlg into deeper topics across a broader spectrum of life.

Our contest is back and we want to see what you can do with this month's offerings. Let's celebrate Summer and do some coloring. This month's contest will end on May 27th I will be starting a poll on the 28th and letting the forum pick the winner. If you do not see anything you want to color feel free to find your own pic elsewhere and color it. Or draw and color your own. Guidelines 1. Must be your own handiwork. *You can add designs to blank sections and spruce it up if you feel inspired to 2. Must be submitted by the deadline. 3. Only 1 entry per member. You may color and upload all the pictures but let us know which is your entry. 4. Post your art on this thread or if you have trouble with that message a member of staff and we will be happy to assist you. Save the image(s) below. You can print it out to color it or use an app. Using a layer capable program/app Import (paste) the coloring page image. Set it as the top layer. Add a few layers under it. Set top layer (coloring page) to "Multiply" You should be able to color/erase easier, without affecting the lines. Free Apps: Sketches, Prismajoy and Sketchbook. PC: Gimp (that’s basically all I’ve used), MS Paint, Photoshop etc. Recolor is an app suggested by one of our members who was kind enough to supply this link. https://www.recolor.com/ If you have suggestions for apps to use please comment them and I will try to remember to add them to the list. Good luck and happy coloring.

Relax Exercise Mani Pedis Eat Healthy Lunch with family or friends Yoga Make a list of chores for you to do 😀

I thought I would share some of my drawings 😊 A cute snake. Any fellow reptiles lovers here?🩷☺️

いらっしゃい My name is Kitty and I am a Japanese-American girl living in South Korea as a university student ٩(◕‿◕)۶ My MBTI is ISFJ, if anyone is interested in personality archetype tests. I spent most of my life moving around different countries, so I love learning about different cultures and languages (＾-＾) Especially lately, I’ve been loving exploring cartoons and animations from different countries (with subtitles hehe) as a fun littlespace activity. Drop me a message if you have some of your favorite recommendations! I am quite new to this and am still exploring my littlespace. So, I’m excited to be here and to get to do that with a safe and welcoming community as I can get pretty shy around strangers hehe Thank you for reading this far. Here’s a cookie for reading through all of that!! (づ ◕‿◕ )づ ˚ ༘ ೀ⋆🍪｡˚

Hi there, and welcome! So right away, this jumps out to me — where are you reading up on this kink, and forming your expectations? If it happens to be from fiction written about ddlg, I’d urge caution and to remember that it’s only fiction. (Shameless plug, but the active members on here are real people who give realistic and practical advice, so I’d always steer folks to read more of what we have to say on here! 😁) Many littles (and bigs too!) seem to arrive here with the misconception that there is a “right way” to be a “good” or “proper” little, or that there is a prescribed set of actions to be followed in the roles. And many of us will point out that this is fundamentally untrue — being a good little is about understanding your specific and individual wants and needs, and how to communicate those safely and healthily to a partner. So, I’m not sure the framing of “finding a good daddy” is correct — I think it is more important to find a person you can communicate openly and safety with, kink stuff aside. Identifying a “good” daddy means different things to different people. Some may want a daddy who does very specific sexytime things with them. Others may want completely non-sexual stuff, like daily routines. Others may simply want a partner they can call daddy and who is comfortable with them regressing around them. And yet others may want someone who is only around to roleplay with them online or via text. Lots of people come to this kink with different interests, desires, and expectations. So it is very important first and foremost to understand what YOU want, and find a person you’re compatible with as a person. After that, it becomes a process of working together and negotiating how to meet each other’s needs. And how to respect each other’s boundaries and hard limits too! Good luck! Remember that engaging in kink is about two (or more) PEOPLE engaging in it TOGETHER, and that human factor will always be most important!

Not my official entry, but in the spirit of summer, I did a quick little drawing and then colored it! I’m excited to see what everyone does!!

I would suggest that there really isn't anything such as a "better little". Different littles want and need different things as do different Caregivers. What one person may deem as important m, essential or better may be very different for someone else. The same applies to ensuring your Caregiver feels taken care of and validated. Have an adult to adult conversation and speak to your Caregiver. Ask them what they want, what they need and what they prefer. They are the only person who can really tell you what they need.

I am Princess! I just found this site and am super excited to join. I have always had an interest in DD/LG but have only recently gotten into it. I’m open to new friends to talk to! I also would eventually like a Daddy. A little bit about me is I’m a college student. I love reading and coloring and watching movies. I also like self care and shopping. I’m not the best cook but i like baking treats. Overall my day to day is school work, working out, finding ways to destress, and things like that. I like going in little space whenever I am alone which is majority of the day when i’m not in classes or at the library. I like playing video games and legos. I love pink and hello kitty and snoopy. I also love my beauty rest and naps are the best. I hope I can make a lot of friends on here and i’m really happy I can openly be myself without judgment

I was reflect yesterday on my relationship with my Daddy/Boyfriend and how Cgl is part of not just our relationship but also our lives in general. It made me reflect further on how difficult it can be for Caregivers in this space. Caregivers face challenges from often trying to deal with trauma their littles may have been through. Providing reassurance when their little feels they are too demanding or too broken to be loved. Facing misperceptions and accusations when so often all a good Caregiver wants is to love their little. Dealing with being used or ghosted. Often not getting the same support that every human being needs. A lot of Caregivers face stresses that don't get talked about or littles assume Caregivers are or must always be strong. So to all you Caregivers out there let me share with you what I see as so wonderful in all of you, yes my Daddy especially, that either take on thst role or are naturally Care givers at heart. You are a light in the darkness. You are a rock in a sea of emotional turmoil and a safety bar on a rollercoaster of confusion. You provide a safe haven for littles to rest if even only for fleeting moments. You provide assurances that letting go is safe. You provide a mental meadow where carefree happiness and giddiness aren't just ok but are celebrated. You are a gift that your little celebrates even if at times we don't know how to express it. You are strong by showing honesty and vulnerability is not wrong. You guide, you protect and you love deeply and without judgment. You are treasured. You are loved. You are a Caregiver. To littles with Caregivers, remember that when we offer vulnerability our Caregivers accept that gift like a fragile bubble and they guard it fiercely and with joy. To the Caregivers, if you have a little hold them close tonight in a hug that feels like it should never end. If you don't have a little they are out there looking for you. Not everyone is a Caregiver and should be one. To those who are know how much you are treasured not just as a Caregiver but also as a person. To all, never settle. Find the Caregiver or little who deserves your heart who will protect yours as fiercely as you will protect theirs.

YAY!!!! Joins and brings dancing ribbon thingys

You know you're a little when family comes over and you're designated to entertain the kids because you have all the "kid stuff" (cartoon shows on speed dial, coloring books, craft activities, video games, cute pets, etc) that you partake on the daily.

You know you’re little, when your boss says “excellent job!” and you giggle and instinctively stick your head out for pats….and you know your boss is some type of daddy/cg when he obliges. 😅

You know you're a little/middle when you jump up and down and squeal when told you, can go to the park.

Oof yeah, I for one don’t have enough mental bandwidth to spam anyone, let alone multiple people with the same junk or a variant thereof. Lol besides, that doesn’t lead to engagement, just creates noise and my brain is noisy enough. I do enjoy adding things like this tho- interactions with people that I might otherwise never get to meet! Or understand, or empathize with or develop connections and meaningful friendships with. Like theres something about this community of people here that’s so different than anywhere on the internet and I love it! Im just grateful to be a part (albeit new!) of it and I hope others can find their place here too. “They say it takes a village…” I dunno who they are and I’ve been to plenty of villages, but this one’s pretty dang awesome. 😁

Agreed with the above! The most gauche thing to do is copy-paste the same message to people’s walls or threads. Seems like all your activity has been genuine and tailored to what you’re interacting with — keep it up, I say!! We can never have enough folks like that keeping it lively and real here ☺️

I have not gotten obnoxious vibes from you It's nice to see your name pop up with what you share! When I first joined here, I was liking so much stuff I would break the "daily quota of giving likes" 🤣 and had to wait the next day LOL keep having fun!

Genuine activity is good 😅 I think the same thing sometimes but this is the place for that. I wish more people were more active all over It’s a great community with some cool peeps. You’re fine ❤️ explore respond make topics ❤️

Love it! It’s not exactly little, but there’s a program called the Conqueror Challenges…it’s basically an app that contains a pre-mapped virtual race route. And there are TONS of them. They are themed based on exotic locations usually, but they do have Scooby Doo and Looney Toons ones!!! You just walk using your Fitbit to keep track of your steps and at the end of the day, it uploads your miles to the app and you get closer to the goal. Once you reach the finish line, they send you an AMAZIINNG medal!! It is a paid app, usually between 26-36$ for each race, but the quality of the medal is well worth it. It made exercise fun for me and I’ve lost 102lbs so far. 😻

hi everyone! my name is nastya. my pronouns are she/they! i'm a 24-year-old recent master's of fine arts graduate from the midwest. i love video games, postmodern literature, poetry, animals, and art! i'm new to the community and excited to be here. i have autism, so i'm very dedicated to my special interests. i share my special interests with others as a way to connect with them. oh! and i speak three languages: english, russian, and belarusian. thank you for having me!

For me, hands down it's "Demian" by Hermann Hesse! This book latched itself onto my brain ever since I first read it and it's been my favorite book since. It's a bit hard to explain/pitch, but essentially it's about a boy who is growing up and going through the experience of finding himself and figuring out who he is. I read it for the first time in high school and didn't really resonate much with it (despite the fact that it's still good even if you can't outwardly relate to it), but I reread it a little bit ago in college and I finally started to experience sort of what the character was going through. It touches on a lot of things that I feel many teens and young adults kinda go through in their lives (pretending to be someone you're not, learning about sexuality and potentially feeling guilty for it, disobeying your parents for the first time, falling in love, etc) in a really profound way. If I can persuade you of how good the writing is, here's a great line from it: “Once more I was trying most strenuously to construct an intimate "world of light" for myself out of the shambles of a period of devastation; once more I sacrificed everything within me to the aim of banishing darkness and evil from myself.” I will say there are quite a bit of religious themes, but there's a lot of ways to read into it. I quite enjoyed the religious parts even though I'm not religious myself and in a way the author almost criticizes some elements of religion (again, depending on how you read it). Still, it's worth a read if you like that kind of stuff!

idk if this counts as exercise but i love the sports games on the nintendo switch:D

Time, dedication, and unfiltered honesty are what is needed. I look for people who are honest with themselves and with others. There are going to be bad people. There are good goods, too. The bad are those unwilling to grow, listen to critical feedback, have mature adult conversations, admit when they've been wrong, or say sorry instead of blaming another. It doesn't matter what roles, genders, etc. One must be open to the possibility of being hurt. Stay strong in your core beliefs. Figure out your needs and embrace them for what they are. Be smart, trust your instincts, and dont be afraid to ask questions. Bye bye, Oceans. P.S. I wish you all the luck! If you believe in that sort of thing, of course.

This could be a club, then there could be different sections like... Dark humor dad joke memes etc.

I think the biggest thing is deciding what you want and asking them all the questions to make sure the same page is attainable

No problem, thats what community/family is for. I've been there, done that, and had the t-shirt lol. Sometimes we have to go through the storm so we don't take the rainbow for granted the next time we're given a chance to see it. Hang in there, you're gonna come out smiling.

Yay!!! Happiness is waiting for everyone. Luck to everyone. No leaf or rock unturned or unlifted. Right when u think you are at your lowest something happens. People are stronger than they assume. The song 'Better love next time'.

As a little, I do a few things (which some of them depend on if you like diapers). Here's my tips: - Wear a diaper to help the actual bleeding. Or, since those are expensive, try a pullup or period panties. I find the disposable ones very similar to a diaper and comforting. - Plan fun littlespace things for your ranging energy levels. For example, if you feel like resting in bed, play a video game or watch cartoons. Some people have a little more energy and like to workout to help cramping, so try baby yoga or kid's dance routines. - Make any cravings for food littlespace themed. Craving chocolate? Try chocolate milk or a Nutella sandwich. Craving salty? Try peanut butter and jelly or veggie straws. - They make lots of heating pads that are stuffies, so it's a friend and pain relief in one! - Remember that you will get through this. Have lots of fun distractions like cuddling stuffies when you feel icky. - If you don't like taking grown up medicine, try children's chewable tablets or liquids so that way you feel better and still small. You might have to take more than a child's dose though, so do this one with extra caution. I'm not a doctor, so take my advice with an extra grain of salt. - Surround yourself with things that make you feel comforted and small. Drink from a bottle, watch Disney+, color, and spend quality time with anyone who you care about. Hope this helps!