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Great advice as always!! thank you for sharing this!!

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Read and agreed!

Yeah this so much RN

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💬 What Is Ghosting? Ghosting means suddenly cutting off all communication with someone—no replies, no explanation, just silence. It often happens through DMs, dating apps, or social media. ⚪ Why People Ghost (3 Common Reasons) 1. Avoiding Conflict: They fear awkwardness or hurting someone’s feelings. 2. Loss of Interest: They no longer feel connected or engaged. 3. Feeling Overwhelmed: Stress or emotional burnout makes them withdraw. 💔 How Ghosting Affects the Person Ghosted Confusion and self-doubt 😕 Feelings of rejection 💭 No closure, lingering questions ❓ Anxiety about future relationships 💬 🌱 Coping with Being Ghosted Acknowledge your feelings — it’s okay to feel hurt. Don’t overanalyze — their silence reflects *them*, not your worth. Lean on friends or support — talk it out. Refocus on self-care — do what makes you feel grounded. Set healthy online boundaries — protect your emotional space. How to End Things Respectfully (Instead of Ghosting) ✨ Be kind, clear, and honest: “I’ve enjoyed chatting, but I don’t feel this is the right connection for me.” ✨ Use “I” statements: “I need some time for myself right now.” ✨ Keep it short, gentle, and respectful. ✨ Remember: clarity is kinder than silence. 💡Final Thought Ghosting may feel like the easy option—but honest communication builds empathy, trust, and maturity online. 💛

Thank you friend!!! Yeah I think these are some good ones!

It was so hard to chooooose! What a great selection

@RoseyLittle @NickyMoon @MissNMTX @kimmybunny @Zina @SquirtleSquad @BabyGirlEmber @mecwmello @browneyedgirl @littlegala (This is my current participation list. If you dont see your name I dont have you added and ypu need to contact me!) Hello all Pigtail book wurm extraordinaire here again! It is that time!!! Another vote for our next group read. Yall almost unanimously wanted something more involved and intense so I have provided! I still tried to give some variation but these will all be longer more involved reads often with more mature themes. If these arnt your cup of tea we will see you on the next one (most likely a modern day sappy one! No magic). I have tried to provide a even better description for each this time. Since they are more intense if you have alot of serious triggers please look up a full list for your selection. Each person can vote once and if needed I will do a tie break vote. Pole will be up a week, please only vote if you are in NNC and plan on reading. OPTIONS: Option 1: Fairydale by Veronica Lancet Paranormal Romance TRIGGERS: (A few of the more intense ones please look up full list if you have alot of triggers because this has many): Attempted SA, loss of a child, blood play, torture, violence and mass death, and self harm. Blurb: Fairydale is a dark gothic historical romance with horror, paranormal & fantasy elements. This is NOT a traditional love triangle. It features a villainous love interest that would end the world for his beloved and an all-encompassing love story spanning millennia. This is not suitable for anyone under the age of 18. Please check the triggers before reading. Pages: 772 📖📖📖📖 Option 2: Heir by Sabaa Tahir Fantasy Romance TRIGGERS: (One of a few but less triggers by far than Option 1): Genocide, war, loss of a child, grief, and torture Blurb: Beloved storyteller Sabaa Tahir interweaves the lives of three young people as they grapple with power, treachery, love, and the devastating consequences of unchecked greed, on a journey that may cost them their lives―and their hearts. Literally. Pages: 484 📖📖📖📖 Option 3: Night Market by Jesikah Sundin Fae Fantasy Romance TRIGGERS: (Seems to have low triggers): Grief, violence, psychological abuse, and trauma. Blurb: A mortal seer enslaved by a traveling faerie market. A Raven shifter forced to marry to save his Caravan tribe. And a future not even the cards could predict. Pages: 548 📖📖📖📖 Option 4: Noticadia by Keri Lake Dark Academia Gothic Romance TRIGGERS: (Seems to have a fair list but less than option 1) Murder, child abuse, SA, torture, and autopsy scenes. Blurb: a dark academia gothic romance about a young woman who enrolls at the prestigious Dracadia University to find a cure for her mother's mysterious illness, only to become entangled in a forbidden relationship with her enigmatic and cold professor, Devryck Bramwell, also known as "Doctor Death" Pages: 682 📖📖📖📖 Option 5: The Undertaking of Hart and Mercy by Megan Bannen Fantasy Romance Light Hearted TRIGGERS: (medium number of triggers from description) Autopsy and body parts, blood/gore, gun violence, cancer, and animal death. Blurb: a lonely marshal named Hart and a competent undertaker named Mercy who initially despise each other. They anonymously become pen pals, forming a tentative friendship through letters, unaware they are corresponding with the person they most dislike in real life. Pages: 449

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Awesome! Thank you!

I'm interested! So excited to participate for the first time!

I have read the rules and I agree to them. I am so excited! Thank you!

We'll be starting movie night in about 9 hours!

So excited!! need a good read for the slow work days! I am so interested to see what the book will be ₍₍⚞(˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)⚟⁾⁾

I’ve had to make a lot of adjustments too, especially when it comes to staying active without causing pain.

Welcome! You will want to message me if you want to get involved!

I can't wait

I’m interested!

I have an imaginary one lol he’s called Sebastian

I'm interested! Let's goooo!

So excited to see all the interest! I will be making a list of participants and look out for the book vote pole soon! In the mean time just please all make sure you are up to date on the rules for NNC and understand this is a fairly active group meaning I will be checking in and need to hear from yall frequently. Can't wait for our next read!!!

Welcome! You will want to message me so I can get you informed and set up as I dont think you have before?