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I had a great response from people suggesting another word for Tavern, I want to thank everyone for writing Inn!

How do you get reliable Internet on a big Ranch? Move the modem to the Barn for stable internet!

What do you call it when there's no Internet in Russia? Internyet!

What did Boomer parents do to kill boredom before the invention of the Internet? I'm Gen X and I asked my 6 brothers and sisters and they didn't know either!!

Of all the undead creatures in adventure stories, which is the most festive? A Christmas Wraith.

Why are D&D Beholders Polyamorous? They are always seeing multiple people!

It's the month of the Kentucky Derby!! What is the easiest way to find out which horse everyone likes the best? With a Gallop Poll! (Omg! Who remembers Rainbow Bright?)

I'm a 46 year old Little/Middle & have been hiding it for years from every one I know, including my husband & kids (but that's a whole other issue). I've also been on disability for chronic pain, DDD, scoliosis, & sciatica for about 10 years now. I was diagnosed with the spine of an 80 year old by the time I was 30, & I've had to have several surgeries on my back, neck, & shoulder because of it. Lately it's been harder for me to get into my Little mindset because of the pain, so I've been more of a middle lately. I'd give anything to be non-verbal & completely dependent on my CG, but that's not possible for me. I'd also love to find friends who are struggling Littles/Middles. If there's any one out there dealing with some of the same things, please feel free to contact me. Maybe we can help each other to hold onto our Little/Middle side. 😊

I got this mini kawaii sushi puff today 😊

They're all so very cute! Good luck everyone~ ♡

*giggles* Mine is interesting: Princess: 50% Brat: 50% Schoolgirl: 50% Pumpkin: 34% Angel: 18% I means, it's nots wrongs but it's siwwy to me!

I don't want to be fixed, I just want to heal. In other words; I want personal growth through changes that I've made myself, rather than be coddled or used. It's always a delicate dance between the good and bad days for sure. Not too much dependence on Mommy, but not too little of her assistance either. Sometimes, I feel overwhelmingly outnumbered by Littles who just want to be fixed, or even worse- saved. And while everyone is entitled to their own life's path. I don't personally relate to Evanescence's Bring Me To Life, but I do relate heavily to MCR's Mama. I want to eventually heal to a point that I feel fulfilled enough to no longer rely on any form of age regression. To be free from my past demons and finally have beaten the trauma end boss. I would not wish involuntary age regression on anyone, not even a worst enemy. But I also understand that everybody heals, grows, and learns differently. So while my harsher approach to Littlespace is fine and dandy for me, isn't for everyone. And that's okay. Divorce is hard, I hope you pull through okay. Thanks for sharing that detail about yourself. It's difficult to share, but your words will help someone else, I'm sure.

Hi Lovlies! Just had to put this out there cuz we all may need a pep talk and a flashlight to shine on ourselves in life. I know we are all little/middle and in between. But that doesn't have to mean we are scared, broken or weak. I've noticed so many in this dynamic want to trade in their selves, their sex, and their lives just so a daddy will swoop in and save them from their messy room. We all want love; love can help inspire and lift up. But eventually baby you're gonna have to learn to clean your own room. That's what the good daddies want from us!!! The bad ones want you weak and unable. Good Daddy can help for sure. But that doesn't mean that you can't already do it. You can live your life from where it's at each day and make progress and improve. Daddy's love can help but not his car, his money, his house, his physical labor etc. Any daddy worth his mettel would just want to be so proud of the woman is little has worked to be. Get the daddy you deserve by being the person you deserve to be. Ask yourself "how can I get that" and then do it!!! Don't let yourself say anything negative. Say, I want to, I get to, I choose to!!! These are words that matter! I've been there. I'm 41 now but when I was in my 20s I was scared, depressed, shut down, lost and of course horny! In fact that had been the default setting of my soul for my entire life. It's all I knew myself to be. So of course I found a guy that wanted to hit this and married him. We gave each other 15years of our lives total and now we are divorcing.....I dont wallow in regret but gratitude for that time I grew so much and I have my baby daughter. But I know now even more about how to be careful with my life. To not throw it away cuz I'm just so scared to live. So scared to be alone and face all the scary things like bills, school, money, cars....adulting!! Gah! It IS hard. But the hard can make us great!!! There's nothing like knowing myself to be a warrior! I wish that for everyone I meet and talk to. That they recognize that they are the hero of their own lives. And heros choose. They are smart. They value themselves first in order to give and love and help others!

Thanks on both counts

Get better soon! I think you got them all.

Thank you for the wonderful interweb hugs, they were received and so much needed. Yes I am going through a kind of a rough patch with this, but that's okay because I know I will be okay. And thank you for your kindness, its so wonderful to see more kind people on here! Thank you for being so kind to me

thank you for reminding me of this, I am very forgetful so I sometimes forget that I matter too your kind words were so appreciated thank you

I’m not allowed sweets anymore but I love yogurt now.😋Sometimes cut up fruit. Sliced apples in baggies remind me of kids meal and I like those too.

You didn't sound harsh at all. I seem to run late on this lately but this time I had a better excuse than life interrupted my plans lol I once heard someone say pain lets us know we are alive, I'm definitely alive 🤣. Took a pretty bad fall Saturday but had to be back at work Monday. Thanks to God and lots of over the counter pain meds I'm making it. If someone could check the voting post and make sure I didn't miss anyone I'd appreciate it. I'm at work and multi tasking and that doesn't always go as planned. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/63095-aprils-coloring-contest-voting-begins/

Forgiveness: Can an abuser be truly forgiven? That's a hard question, many will tell you no and some will say yes, both answers are not wrong. Forgiveness takes time, it is one of the hardest things to overcome in life. As children we are so vulnerable and so innocent, we lean on the people who are raising us to protect us, but sometimes they don't protect us but damage us. So many of us on here have been SA, abused, manipulated, hurt; we were raised in nothing but what nightmares are made of, we never knew what it meant to know love as a child. There are so many in therapy because of the trauma, because they want to be able to breathe again without living in terror all the time. How horrible is it that we have no idea what a normal child is? We watch Disney movies and listen to fairytales because we want to pretend just for one day that we lived that life, that we didn't live the horror's that we did. So do I think abusers should be forgiven? I honestly can't answer that, because I am have yet to fully forgive mine, so how can I tell you one thing when I am caught in the middle of fighting my battles? I would be lying, I never want to lie to anyone, is it possible? Yes, yes it is. DO I want to forgive my abusers, so badly so I can be free, to be able to walk out without flinching when someone walks up beside me, I would love to be able to sleep without every light in my house on. So yes, I would love to be free from my nightmares, and I know it takes time, healing takes time, we went through battles, we have scars, some have deeper scars then others. But that just shows how amazing we truly are, we survived and overcame a situation that didn't take us under, how amazing is that? So, to honestly answer your question is I don't know? At this moment in my life I don't know the answer to your question, all I know is that I am a survivor, we are all survivors. I am so proud of each and every one of us for moving forward and not allowing our abusers to have the satisfaction of keeping us from feeling the sun. Until we meet again remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved

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Damn, sorry to hear! Didn't mean to sound harsh, that's what not using emojis does 😅 I hope you're better and recovery is going well!!

I'm working on getting the voting post done now. I was down all weekend recovering from an accident.