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GUYSSSSS, i have great news !! My pacifier arrived in the mail !! Isn't she just adorbssssssss 🥹🥰 I just love the complimentary stickers AND candy the seller provided, and the pacifier is just as advertised. I used it last night to help me fall asleep, and boy did I sleep like a baby 😅 (p.s: many many thanks to MasterPhotog for helping me resize my picture so I can show y'all !!)

A little reminder about kink shaming. It’s 100% okay if a kink isn’t your cup of tea. We all have likes, dislikes, hard limits, and boundaries. That's normal, valid, and really healthy. What isn’t okay is assuming that just because you don’t like something, it must be wrong, gross, or unhealthy for others. We’re already a marginalised corner of BDSM; the last thing we need is to start turning on each other. Unless you ask, you don’t know how someone else experiences their dynamic. Judging based on assumptions or stereotypes doesn’t help anyone. The truth is: with communication and consent, a wide range of kinks and dynamics can be built safely and beautifully. You don’t have to like what someone else enjoys, but shaming them for it, is not it. As long as it’s between consenting adults and grounded in SSC play or RACK, it’s valid. Different ≠ Wrong. Let’s respect each other’s dynamics. something might not be your cup of tea, but it could be someone else’s whole home. 👏 If you've made it here, thank you for reading 📖 👏 💭 If you have kinks or dynamics that are often misunderstood, I'd love to hear what the reality looks like for you!

@Daddy Bear 77 @LissyLu @Prince @Ariguin @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Little Nyx @Beanie19 @kimmybunny @Aikko @Jazzylove22 @TeenyRena @Kyuu_chan_san @MyMy Hello all Pigtail book wurm extraordinaire here!!! (Lol yes I gave myself a fancy title 🤭) The time has come!! We are just waiting for one person to get the book so we are going to go ahead and get started. So chapters (we are going to do 3 each week for now) are assigned on Wednesdays and due the following Wednesday. Its a fairly even pace so everyone can keep up and have fun, if yall start falling behind please check in so I can adjust if needed. For each reading assignment, so each week, I will be puting out discussion questions (3-5 usually) that are written by myself with yall in mind. These are not at all required but they are fun. Just make sure and always spoil your answers. I have a post on spoiling let me know if you need me to tag you in it. Per usual please try not to read ahead as I will be arranging 2-3 discussions throughout the next few months so we can discuss our book. Any important posts I will tag all of you just like I did here so make sure to check those tags. So without further delay... go ahead and read through chapter 3!

@TeenyRena @Prince @Little Nyx @Aikko @LissyLu @littlegala @Jazzylove22 @Beanie19 @Kyuu_chan_san @SquirtleSquad @Ariguin @kimmybunny Alright! So this pole will stay open technically until Monday because it is essentially yalls ticket into the group read and we have one person left to vote. Buuuut ... we have a winner! Yearning For Her by Tiffany Roberts! Thank you all for voting in a timely manner and I am so excited to read with yall. Watch out for an announcment and I will also be making and explaining the topics for the whole thing so check it all out over the next few days so you are familiar with it all. I unpinned all the previous books topics so all the pinned ones will be up to date and important. Also yall can go ahead and get ahold of the book! If you guys could tell me how long you think it will take you to get it and update me when you do have it that would be amazing. This is gonna be amazing all!!! Pigtail

Here is my coloring.

I was sitting by the water the other day and reflecting on life. In November it will be 7 years since my Daddy entered my Wife's and my life. In those seven years He has collared me, moved in with, comforted me when my Dad passed, and so much more. The three of us have traveled together, been to His mom's wedding, had highs and lows. He's taken me to places in littlespace i never knew existed, we've tried all sorts of things from chore charts, rules, diapers and more. I still remember the first time my Wife walked in on us making love and shared about her day like it was a non-event. He and my Wife have been far more than Caregivers to a little, they've been and are my soulmates. I used to think i wanted a Caregiver but realized that would never have been enough. I wanted and needed someone or in this case two someones who understood me on a deeper level and thst I understood on that level. What we have built is something I never imagined I wanted or needed. It's a deep, unconditionally loving family that doesn't tolerate or accept each other's quirks, interests or kinks but rather embraces them fully. Here's to years more because my Wife, my Daddy and what we have makes life not just worth living, but a treasured journey where each and every year, month, week, day and step is special 💕💕💗💗💓💓💖💖

Hi Everyone! Umbreon here. Some of you know me or have seen me around. I’ve been on the forum for many years and have talked about some big topics on this dynamic and relationships in general. It’s been a while since I last created a topic and I have something new to write about. Maybe you’ve been told you are “Too” something. Too needy. Too clingy. Too possessive. Too much of something. Or maybe you told this to someone. I’ve seen it in breakups or between friends, etc. This often times leads to someone feeling down or believing they are horrible or something is wrong with them. Maybe this is you or you have felt like this or you currently feel this way. Let me tell you, and this is my personal perspective and opinion…. You are not “too” anything. There isn’t such a thing as being “too” anything. So let me delve into this for you and see if we can get a better understanding moving forward for you and for other people and how we interact. I’ll be covering both sides of this, so stick around. What we have here is a matter of perspective and level of need. Let me give you an example or two. You sit two people in a restaurant at the same table. One person has been having a great week and has ate every day at BBQs and at home and with home cooked meals. He sits down and checks his utensils, and his water and greets the person across from him. We then have the second person across. 30 mins ago, he was rescued from the desert after being lost for a week. He barely survived and lived off a few bugs he could find and possibly his own urine. He was quickly cleaned up and put in good clothes as well. He sees the bread basket and immediately grabs a slice and starts scarfing it down and downing that glass of water so eagerly. These two people both look decent but know nothing of each other’s week or life prior to this moment. The first person looks at the second and says “Sheesh, you’re too hungry!” Now pause here. There is no such thing as telling someone else they are “too hungry” or “too thirsty”. You can say the words but that is an inaccurate statement. Both these people are hungry and thirsty. The difference is the level of hunger and security and thirst that these two individuals have. One person has had a secure meal each and every day. So he feels safe and satisfied with everything around him. The second person has been starving and barely keeping it together. They are taking anything they can find to eat and drink cuz that is all that they have been craving the past few days. The bread could be hard, or spoiled, or taste horrible but they don’t care as it is the first meal they have had. They are also constantly think is this real. Will this all be taken away. They have no sense of security yet that their next meal will be granted or when. So you can see that T he level of need is so much higher and that dictates their behavior so much differently. Now the first person could have approached this differently. They could talk and ask the other person to better understand. “Hey there. I’m ____. Why are you so hungry? Is everything ok? Tough day? Would you like some of my water? I see you finished yours.” Then after hearing of the other person they can then try to rebuild the needs of that person. Building bonds. Reinforcing that they are saw and more meals are coming. And also finding out what they can do to help bring that person to a lower and more secure level of those needs. So taking that scenario, you can try to see what I’m saying. You can substitute hunger for clinginess, or neediness, or possessiveness, or talkative, eagerness, etc. etc. we need to do better in finding out the why behind it. Were they hurt or mistreated? Abandoned? Shamed? Is it driven by fear? If you can get that.. then you can see that that behavior is caused from a lack of receiving something that they needed for their survival. Acceptance, Vulnerability, Love, Safety, Connections, Relationships, or more that you had in abundance. Follow up with asking what can you do to help them feel that. Then build on it. Don’t just take what they need. Look at what you can also add to help slowly bring that level to become a constant. Now this can be done by anyone. You don’t have to be a Dom, or a little/middle, CG, partner, or friend. No matter what you are, you can find yourself on either side of the table. If you have ever been one to have been told you are too much of something, don’t blame yourself for looking or searching for what you have been missing. The person who said you were too much just didn’t know go to understand and help you. Find someone who accepts you and listens and then can show you how to get to a more secure state. You are amazing as you are. You just need some things more than others. So here is a glass of water and this topic to start and hopefully it helps you all. And if you find yourself thinking someone you know is “too” something. Think of what I’ve said and ask the proper questions. Or if it’s too much for you to handle. Be honest. Admit it’s not something you can do or provide or help with. They can’t help themselves and they are just searching for that they haven’t received. That covers this session of the Umbreon corner. Feel free to share your thoughts on this and two cents. I’m not a psychologist or anything. I’ve just learned a lot over my years whether it was as a friend, partner, Dom, Daddy, and much more. Be kind to each other and know you are special. If you haven’t read my other stuff, feel free to check it out.

Voting is now open for the August coloring contest. I am so glad I don't have to pick a winner cus y'all are making it tough. Good luck to all of you. Polling will close on Tuesday September 2nd SweetLittleDreamer SquirtleSquad MissAnna Middlespace Brat littlegala LittleAmbi BabyPoppy Aikko

@Daddy Bear 77 @LissyLu @Ariguin @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Beanie19 @kimmybunny @Aikko @Jazzylove22 @TeenyRena @MyMy Hello fellow book wurms, Pigtail here! I wanna thank all of you first for participating. We have been on fire this time! That being said I know yall are chomping at the bit to read more so please feel free to now read chapters 4-6!!! I think this pace is working well but please feel free to give feedback. I just want everyone to be able to have fun and not feel pressured. On top of that yall seem to be enjoying the questions (which are 100% optional) and have had some great responses. So be on the lookout in the next 24 hpurs or so for this week's set. Also dont forget abput our also optional weekly meetings on Wednesday and sprints on Sunday! And be sure to check out the fun Playlist we are making as an activity found here: Happy reading yall and I cant wait to hear what you think of the bext chunk!!! P S. Also @Prince @Kyuu_chan_san I have removed yall from the ping list because I havnt heard anything from you in a while. It is a fairly active group so I understand if its too much. If you want added back feel free to talk to me. Thus group requires at least a couple check ins a week

🌸 ʟᴏᴀᴅɪɴɢ… 🌸✨ ... .......... TW: Attack of the self love affirmations! P.S. Some of the affirmations are specific cos ahem....they were for me T-T ❀Take what you need❀ ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵ 🌸 I am safe and protected right now 🌸 ︵‿︵‿୨♡୧‿︵‿︵ 🌸I deserve to feel cozy and calm right now.🌸 🌸I am allowed to ask for help when I need it.🌸 🌸I am precious just the way I am.🌸 🎀🌷 I am lovable when I’m little, and lovable when I’m big 🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am always enough.🌷🎀 🎀🌷It is okay to be me.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to be whatever I want to be.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to sound however I want to sound.🌷🎀 🎀🌷I am safe to talk however I want to talk.🌷🎀 🎀🌷It is safe for me to be cute.🌷🎀 It is safe for me to be little. I am loved. It is safe for me to be loved. I feel loved. I love myself. I am easy to love. It is safe for me to ask for things. It is safe for me to ask for help. It is okay for me to need help. 🌟I am loved even when I want things🌟 🌟I am loved even when I ask for things🌟 🌟It is okay for me to be cherished🌟 🌟It is safe for me to be cherished🌟 🌟I believe in myself🌟 🌟I believe I can get everything I want🌟 🌟I believe I can be whatever I want to be🌟 🌟I believe that I am magical🌟 🌟I believe that I am adorable🌟 🌟I believe that I am safe🌟 🌷I believe that I am good🌷 🌷I believe that I am loved🌷 🌷I believe that I am safe now🌷 🌷I am safe now🌷 🌷I am loved now🌷 🌷I believe that I am a good person🌷 🌷I believe that I am a kind person🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be sweet and lovable🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be good🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be silly🌷 🌷It is safe for me to be myself🌷 🌷It is safe for me to make mistakes🌷 I am loved even when I am silly. • I am loved even when I make mistakes. • I am loved because I am me. • I trust and believe in myself. • I love myself even when I am silly. • I love myself even when I make mistakes. • I love drinking water. • I love drinking milk. (unless I am lactose intolerant...) • I love drinking juice. • I love being hydrated. • I love to hydrate my body. • I love being healthy. • It is safe for me to hydrate my body. • It is safe for me to p. • It is safe for me to p a lot. • It is safe for me to take my time. • It is safe for me to be slow. • It is safe for me to be happy. • It is safe for me to relax. • It is safe for me to be energetic. • It is safe for me to be sleepy. ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am precious just the way I am ｡✧:˚:･｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many good thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many happy thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am thinking so many positive thoughts right now! ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am lovely. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I know I am lovely. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel so relaxed and refreshed reading this. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel relaxed and refreshed now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I feel so refreshed now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ I am at peace now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡･:˚:✧｡ My life is so peaceful now. ｡･:˚:✧｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to feel comfy and happy.✦｡ ｡✦ I always have good things happen for me, because I am a good person.✦｡ ｡✦ I am a lucky star.✦｡ ｡✦ I love to wish on stars.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to wish on stars.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to be a kid. ✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to have hopes and dreams.✦｡ ｡✦ It is safe for me to be positive. ✦｡ ｡✦ I am always grateful. ✦｡ ｡✦ I am super grateful and happy now.✦｡ ｡✦ I am super easy to love.✦｡ ₊˚⊹♡ I always have the best luck. ₊˚⊹♡ I always meet the best people. ₊˚⊹♡ I always bring out the best in others. ₊˚⊹♡ I always use the bathroom when I need to. ₊˚⊹♡ I always remember to use the bathroom when I need to. ₊˚⊹♡ I always have positive thoughts about my appearance. ₊˚⊹♡ I always have positive thoughts about my body. ₊˚⊹♡ I love my body. ₊˚⊹♡ I love my appearance. ₊˚⊹♡ I love how I look in the mirror. ₊˚⊹♡ I love how I look on camera. ₊˚⊹♡ I feel happy every day. ₊˚⊹♡ I feel super happy and calm right now. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am a happy marshmallow! ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am super smart and intelligent. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am super creative. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to be smart. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to be curious. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I am always curious and learning things. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ It is safe for me to watch the kids channels on T.V. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I love having positive thoughts. ♡⊹˚₊ ₊˚⊹♡ I love being healthy. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I just drank a super strong health potion. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I just drank a potent happiness potion. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel super healthy and happy. ♡⊹˚₊ I feel like I took all the best multivitamins in the world. ♡⊹˚₊ I love listening to positive songs. ♡⊹˚₊ I always have new and amazing ideas. ♡⊹˚₊ I have the best handwriting. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is so cute and neat. ♡⊹˚₊ I write cutely even when I am rushing. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is adorable even when I write fast. ♡⊹˚₊ My handwriting is adorable even when I write quickly. ♡⊹˚₊ I am proud of myself now. ♡⊹˚₊ • I always look up to myself. • I always speak highly of myself. • I always talk positively about myself. • I love being kind to myself • I love to trust myself • ᴛʜᴀɴᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ꜰᴏʀ ʀᴇᴀᴅɪɴɢ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴀʏ! ɪ ᴡᴀs ᴡʀɪᴛɪɴɢ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀꜰꜰɪʀᴍᴀᴛɪᴏɴs ꜰᴏʀ ᴍʏsᴇʟꜰ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴇᴄɪᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ sʜᴀʀᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ (ᴛʜᴀᴛ’s ᴡʜʏ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴀʀᴇ sᴏ sᴘᴇᴄɪꜰɪᴄ). ɪ ʜᴏᴘᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ʟɪᴋᴇᴅ ᴛʜᴇᴍ! ꜰᴇᴇʟ ꜰʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴡʀɪᴛᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴏꜰ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴏᴡɴ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ʀᴇᴘʟɪᴇꜱ ᴀɴᴅ ᴄᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜɪꜱ ᴘᴏꜱᴛ ᴡʜᴇɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ʏᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ🌸✨ ꜱᴇɴᴅɪɴɢ ʏᴏᴜ ʟᴏᴀᴅꜱ ᴏꜰ ʟᴏᴠᴇ, ʜᴜɢs ᴀɴᴅ ʟᴀᴅʏʙᴜɢs!

Hi, everyone! I have BIIG news. . I BOUGHT MY FIRST EVER PACI (with my big girl money hehe) I’ve been wanting a pacifier for ages now but a lot of factors limited me from pursuing that. I browsed through various websites that sold adult pacifiers, only to discover that said websites were scams Which sucksss because the pacifiers I saw looked super cute Anyways, I discovered many Littles opted to purchase from Etsy or Ebay, and much to my delight, I came across reputable accounts with positive reviews. I purchased my paci from PreciousPacisShop on Etsy (i got mine in the color “glittery lavender) and I’m so excited for its arrival ! I got it for $14, but the total was around $45 due to shipping fees 😬 Other than thattt, the account does discreet shipping which I am super thankful for because my roomies do not need to know my business LOL Will update when it arrives, soo stay tuned ! Bye lovelies :)

Alright, here is! I humbly sumbit my entry for the month. Anubis! (Fun fact, Anubis has long been a love of mine, so I was excited to do this one!)

Just wanted to share the cutest game I found on Steam: Spirit City Lofi Sessions. It's a cozy, gamified productivity tool, with avatar creation, room decor, and collecting adorable spirit pets. The productivity tools include a Pomodoro timer, to-do list, journal, and habit tracker. You earn credits for completing tasks, which you can use to upgrade your outfits and room decor. Might be a useful way for Littles to get rewards, and it's just really sweet.

Everyones is so cute.

This is @SweetLittleDreamer entry for the coloring contest

I forgot I did these this week!!!

Don't "grow up" It's a trap!! Gonna stay little forever and ever!!!

I made this this week with Play-Doh and craft stocks and dinosaur counters! It's a dinosaur pen! I thought I would share!

Often bdsm can being up feelings of past trauma and/or resentment. I would be hesitant to grab one sentence of someone’s post, completely ignore the rest of it and then say they’ve been groomed. That doesn’t sit well with me given the rest of her post. It sounds like she had to get comfortable with her little side, which can be incredibly difficult the first time you realize it. We don’t know the details of her dynamic when they were exploring her little side and for all we know it could have been a yellow, I’m open to the idea but a bit nervous or uncomfortable. But given that she is still actively pursuing and exploring her little side in a safe way here on the forum lends credence to the fact she is just trying to see what age ranges she has and find like minded folks to discuss with. And as for “you may not be little at all”, there are switches out there. That maybe she’s not a little all the time or a baby needing diapers, but enjoys the more mature childlike things or even a middle. And in the other times when not feeling smol, maybe she’s a mommy, mommy dom or maybe like some of us she just feels grown up when she’s not little. Either way, she’s in the right place to explore. The group is highly monitored by our incredible admin team and any behavior or people they find concerning are dealt with swiftly. Exploring your bdsm kinks and even age regression can sometimes unlock a vault filled with hard feelings and hurt. It’s okay and natural to feel awkward at first with your little side. It can also often be a coping tool for those (like myself) who didn’t get a true childhood. Who at heart never moved past a certain age mentally because life just started kicking them in the nuts. It can be cathartic, painful and peaceful simultaneously. Happy explorations to you both! We are happy to have you with us. 🫶

Wait, we're allowed to submit original doodles???!!? ~~~ Congrats you guys! Your pages are super cute! @SquirtleSquad @littlegala And good job to everybody else that entered!

I GOT THE NEW LABUBU RELEASE !!!! AHHHHHH !!!!!! These sets are alphabetical themed - I got some letters I don’t care about that I’ll trade or sell but you GUUUUYYYYSSSS !!!!!! I GOT THE K THAT I WANTED !!!! K FOR THE FIRST LETTER OF MY FIRST NAME !!!!!

Littlespace and Bigspace Fursona references!!! I have a lot more art in my Fursona Art album on my profile that I'll update every once in a while! Album TY 4 viewing ❤

Here’s my entry 🙂

I don’t have to much experience in the DDlg space, there are people on here with much more experience, knowledge & far better advice then I could ever give. But I can speak to what I have learnt & how I see things. note, I will be using CG as a collective term for Daddy’s, Mummy’s and Caregivers. For me, littlespace isn’t a space I feel like anyone should be being dropped into without prior consent, this could be something like at the start of a dynamic both consenting parties agree that the little can be dropped into it at any time by their CG or any time that is appropriate. Or it could be something the little decides daily or even each instance that the CG would like to try and drop them. If a conversation around dropping her into little space had yet to be had then I think you did the right thing in not dropping her. & of course a little dropping into it naturally when interacting with a CG is different. Little space is different for every little, some drop into every now and then, others will drop into it more often and some littles spend more time then not in their little space. For some littles there maybe other factors as well, do they feel it’s safe to go into it where they are, is the person safe or are the people in their immediate vicinity safe, do they have the time. It’s important to know any potential blocks or factors that may stop them from entering it just as it is triggers. Every little will also have different things that draw them into little space, certain pet names, phrases, speech styles (baby talking, using a small vocabulary eg potty, nite nite etc.) some littles maybe more tactile, needing things like cuddles or bubble baths or pats in the head.. or butt (whatever floats their boats). Did this little talk to you about their triggers tell you what her triggers were? You mentioned you thought she was new, it maybe that she doesn’t realise that simply being a CG doesn’t mean you can turn CG mode on & drop any little into it. It takes time to learn triggers & more time after sometimes for those triggers to start working when it’s a CG trying to draw you into little space. I also feel that she possible just used the wrong word for a term she is potentially still learning, of course not knowing her I can’t say that for sure, but honestly when I started learning “pushed” was the way I spoke about it to, because I knew no different. Most Littles will have a non sexual side to their little, of course I say most here because there are probably mostly or all sexual, just as there are little who are mostly or all non sexual. Again all littles are different, just like all CGs & dynamics. I strongly recommend looking through the forum, chatting to those with more experience knowledge & the far better advice then I have, read posts, ask questions and all in all be a sponge & just absorb everything that resonates with you. Be safe, be sane & when talking with little ask all the important questions before delving into any sort of dynamicy stuff to make sure you’re on the same page before that’s all added. It’s not a race to a dynamic. It’s a journey so enjoy it. ok I’m going to stop typing now..

I did another one... I needed some littlespace time today!

I’m not that good at writing, but here we go Question 1: Question 2: Question 3: Question 4:

Here is my submission for the month!!! Everyone else did such a good job!! 💗

Hey guys Pigtail again! Here is where we do our general chat on the group or the book Yearning For Her! New assignments come out Wednesday each week. So please make sure to keep thoughts and posts on the chapters already assigned. That way no one accidentally sees something 14 chapters ahead (thus the reason no reading ahead lol). We still need to spoiler things (see the Quotes post or ask me if you need help spoiling) puting the page the spoiler is from before the hidden spoiler. You are also welcome to just chat with eachother here in general, we have alot of new folks and a big group so get to know one another. Other than that just be kind and have fun!

Another contest comes to a close and a new one begins. Thank you to all who took part in the contest and the voting. It would seem that the works were so good even y'all couldn't decide on a clear winner. This month we have a tie and our winners are........ Congratulations ! This month's contest will end on September 27th I will be starting a poll on or around the 28th and letting y'all pick the winner. I am feeling Fall-ish so be prepared for a lot of Fall type pages. * You can also look in my gallery at my coloring pages album where you will find all the coloring pages I've posted for contests. https://www.ddlgforum.com/gallery/album/5986-coloring-pages/ If you do not see anything you want to color feel free to find your own pic elsewhere and color it. Or draw and color your own. Guidelines 1. Must be your own handiwork. *You can add designs to blank sections and spruce it up if you feel inspired to 2. Must be submitted by the deadline. 3. Only 1 entry per member. You may color and upload all the pictures but let us know which is your entry. 4. Post your art on this thread or if you have trouble with that message a member of staff and we will be happy to assist you. Save the image(s) below. You can print it out to color it or use an app. Using a layer capable program/app Import (paste) the coloring page image. Set it as the top layer. Add a few layers under it. Set top layer (coloring page) to "Multiply" You should be able to color/erase easier, without affecting the lines. Free Apps: Sketches, Prismajoy and Sketchbook. Another app recommended by a member is ibis Paint X. PC: Gimp (that’s basically all I’ve used), MS Paint, Photoshop etc. Krita has also been recommended by a member. Recolor is an app suggested by one of our members who was kind enough to supply this link. https://www.recolor.com/ If you have suggestions for apps to use please comment them and I will try to remember to add them to the list. Good luck and happy coloring.

Here's a couple more pictures I did.

A cute Dragon!!!

More scarecrows!

So much fun!!! I love scarecrows!

@shadowrider there are sooooo many cute pictures!!! I mean, Hello Kitty, Winnie the Pooh, gnomes, hedgehogs, scarecrows, and pumpkins everywhere!! You even threw in some cute dragons, bunnies, AND a mushroom house!!!! WOW! You are awesome! Thank you Shadow! I really think everyone should join the coloring contest this month! It would be wonderful!

personally I think you're never too old to dress up! I'm 48 and I still do it every year! If you wanna go trick-or-treating go trick-or-treating! Who cares what anyone thinks, do what makes you happy! Or if there are any little fall festivals in your area lots of adults go to those and dress up. If you like seeing the costumes and you live somewhere where you can pass out candy dress up to do that. I don't currently live somewhere where I get trick-or-treaters, but when I was at my dad's house I dressed up to give out candy. I love interacting with all the kids and telling them how much I love their costumes! I used to throw a Halloween party every year. We did apple bobbing, rock painting, pumpkin painting, face painting. at one time I had a lot of friends with smaller kids so I set up games all over my yard, and set up a little Photo Booths. I actually had kids of all ages from my neighborhood pop in. even the adult adults were bobbing for apples! (no alcohol was even required ! haha) lol I still do the Photo Booths for the girls that I work with for holidays! I buy funny eyeglasses and props that I get on Amazon and everybody loves it! We take all kinds of pictures and just have fun with it! If you need a fun twist on watching movies I have a projector and a big blowup screen that I set up in my backyard to do scary movies! I light up the fire pit, then we chill and relax! They've been years when I've gotten together with my girlfriends for pumpkin carving, and toasting seeds. (there may have been some wine involved lol) If you need need fun activities for your little side, find Halloween coloring and activity books! You can find all kinds of great crafts on Amazon! The possibilities are endless! Be you and have fun!! 🥰

I am greatful for my Daddy. I am greatful for my job, my new house, the health of me and my kids, my dogs. I am greatful of being able to do the things I love.

@Daddy Bear 77 @LissyLu @Ariguin @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Beanie19 @kimmybunny @Aikko @Jazzylove22 @TeenyRena @MyMy Hello friends Pigtail here! Thanks for being patient it has been a WEEK! But as promised here are the questions from chapters 4-6! Please post in the area linked below and remember your spoilers! Questions:

LOL - sorry, probably the silliest thing ever that I found a group to join because of a French fry recipe 🍟🤣🍟. Thanks for the laugh tonight! I'm going to check out the ChatGPT too - it's the second time I've heard it today so clearly the universe is trying to tell me something!

Having these kinds of talks are truly no fun, it can be scary to start over again. I understand the feeling of starting over it was overwhelming and I felt as if I had been thrown to the wolves. As for him still living you that's your decision. When my ex husband and I divorced we decided he should still live at the house for our daughter. I won't lie worst mistake I ever made, he became verbally and physically abusive. Please make sure you keep you and your children safe, you don't have to take his behavior because you two break up. Set boundaries if you two do decide to break up and he wants to still live with you. Advocate for yourself and your children, take care and best wishes.

Ok ok ok here it is, be cool wackadoo-dle. 🍟 Crispy Oven French Fries Servings: 3–4 Time: 40–50 minutes --- Ingredients: 3 large russet potatoes (Yukon gold also works, but russets get crispier) 2–3 tbsp olive oil or vegetable oil 1–1½ tsp salt (plus more to taste) 1/2 tsp black pepper 1/2 tsp garlic powder (optional) 1/2 tsp smoked paprika or paprika (optional) --- Instructions: 1. Prep the potatoes: Wash and peel (optional) the potatoes. Cut into even sticks about 1/4–1/2 inch thick for consistent cooking. 2. Soak for crispiness: Place cut potatoes in a large bowl of cold water for 30 minutes (or up to overnight in the fridge). This removes excess starch and helps them crisp in the oven. 3. Dry completely: Drain and pat potatoes very dry with a towel. Moisture = soggy fries. 4. Season: Toss potatoes with oil, salt, pepper, and optional seasonings until evenly coated. 5. Bake: Preheat oven to 425°F (220°C). Spread fries in a single layer on a parchment-lined baking sheet. Don’t crowd them. Bake 20 minutes, flip, then bake another 15–20 minutes until golden and crisp. 6. Serve: Taste and sprinkle with a bit more salt if needed. Serve immediately. --- 💡 Extra crispy trick: Preheat your baking sheet in the oven before adding the fries — the sizzle when they hit the pan helps crisp them. Oh yeah that would be neat or at least a place to pin the best advice or tips from it. One thing I've done that helps a lot is I keep a chat for each topic like if there's something about the recipes that goes into one thing and I only ask questions about the recipes in that one thing. It tends to get less confused that way and also just easier to find the information when you need to find it. I needed help recently writing a goodbye letter to my ex when I mail her all her stuff back today and I put that into the series of questions chat that I had been using to ask questions about her largely from the start that I had renamed after her.

Question 1: Question 2: Question 3: Question 4:

Boundaries: Know them. Set them. Keep them. Know your worth, you're worth it.

Alright guys here is where we will post quotes we like from the book!!! We are going to follow a specific format so no one sees any spoilers they dont want to. Posts will have page number first, then you will use the spoiler button (I am attaching a screenshot to show that) and insert the quote and your thoughts inside. Example: Yearning for Her chapter 5 page 72

Protein shakes can be a bit much on the stomach even when you're body isn't being stressed by chemicals. Walking or just being outside in fresh air is always a good idea, especially when going through something like this. We are happy you found your way home. And I think most of us that are being truly honest have felt like misfits at some point. Some of us can definitely relate more to the toys on the island of misfits than the reindeer and elves that seemed to have it all together.

One cannot claim dom/daddy status. One has to earn dom/daddy status. Clearly you were talking to a beta manchild. It's best to block him, count your blessings that you didn't get involved further or irl, and move on. It's not always easy, but don't allow others to gaslight you into nothingness. And maybe let @shadowrider be made aware of the situation. Keep in mind that this isn't a dating site. It's a kink forum that allows irl hookups. But unfortunately, there are a large portion of people who use our personal ads forum that have no intention or interest in forming any real connections. Use with caution.

If someone is just going to blow up on you and then belittle you, then the issue is with that person and not you. I've said this before to people who have had similar experiences, and it's the absolute truth...... You dodged a bullet with someone like that. Don't let someone get to you like that. If they really cared about you and were serious, they would be more understanding and give you opportunity to show it was a misunderstanding. When looking for someone in personals, maybe you need to be more choosy so you don't come across the bad eggs. Have a look at their profile, do they actively take part in the community? Their "reputation" shows how much they are involved in the community. Their feed shows the discussions they take part in (or not). Chances are if their profile is blank then they have little to offer the community and by default, little to offer you. Also, take a look at the Safety First and Flag Detection section so you learn to recognise the traits of those you should keep away from. Looking for someone that suits you can take time. You shouldn't be rushing to find someone.

So I tend to have a very small little age and one of my FAVORITE things to do when little is glue paper. Sounds silly but like really young collage where I cut or rip paper and sit quietly with Daddy and just glue them down however I want. You can add whatever spin you want with stickers or gems or washi tape but since I feel very young I just glue them down. Hope thia wasnt a silly suggestion lol and good luck.

Here's my entry for this month!

This is a for fun picture I colored the other day! I looooooooovvvveee Strawberry Shortcake!!! 🍓 ❤️🥰