TheMadHatter Posted June 23, 2016 Report Share Posted June 23, 2016 Recently after discussing "finding a daddy" issues with several littles it occured to me why cant a daddy be a "Foster" Daddy until they find their forever Daddy. A daddy that would still comfort and care for as well as guide and council them while they continue their search. Granted issues might arrise as they always do, its unavoidable i think, but i am very curious if it can be done?? What are your thoughts??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MontBlanc Posted June 23, 2016 Report Share Posted June 23, 2016 I would find that demeaning. I'd rather just be a title less friend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LavanderRabbit Posted June 24, 2016 Report Share Posted June 24, 2016 So, I think what you're doing is sweet, but others have already ruined it for you. I've been approached by creeps, fully aware that I have a caregiver and no interest, asking if they could be a "Foster Daddy"/ "Uncle"/ "step daddy", etc. So maybe just do so without the title or refer as a counselor so it's not taken in the wrong context (think summer camp). It's common for horndogs that think DDlg is incest to use those kinds of titles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest QueenJellybean Posted June 24, 2016 Report Share Posted June 24, 2016 As has been mentioned above, tread very carefully here. I personally have heard/seen this done before, but never effectively. I understand the sentiment behind your actions, but it's very easy for a Little to get attached to their Caregiver. I think the only way this would work effectively is if the Littles were fully aware, consenting, and understood their roles in your life before entering into an arrangement with you, including how it will all end. As with anything, open and honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMadHatter Posted June 24, 2016 Author Report Share Posted June 24, 2016 Very interesting points, glad i asked. Thank you all for the insights. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gregisthedaddy Posted June 24, 2016 Report Share Posted June 24, 2016 It sounds like a dumb idea. It will not benefit either party. Emotional fall out, feelings of betrayal, confusion, being used etc will occur. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh's little girl Posted June 26, 2016 Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 As a little, I couldn't see this working because after putting yourself out there eventually there is going to be feelings.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ember Moons Posted June 26, 2016 Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 I have seen this kinda done before only some call them sitters or uncles. This can be done but in most cases I have seen the little gets to attached. The ones that seem to work are poly relationships where they actually are in a relationship with both the sitter/uncle/anuntie and Thierry Daddy. I'm not saying it can't be done but I agree that being a little attachment becomes a major issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyDddoll Posted June 26, 2016 Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 Is this what a MENTOR would be in other BDSM communities? Someone to offer guidance and help along the way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BabyDddoll Posted June 26, 2016 Report Share Posted June 26, 2016 Is this what a MENTOR would be in other BDSM communities? Someone to offer guidance and help along the way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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