How hard is it to find my first Little?

[LR_360]

Hi, so I'm a relatively young daddy/switch at 21. I don't really have much experience with Littles and was wondering how long it usually takes for a young Big like myself to find a Little to play with?

 

Thanks

[Guest MommyBella]

I was thinking the same thing since I'm a new mommy.

[splendabae]

i dont think you can really put a time frame on that, since everyone is different and there are a lot factors that go into play. i can only offer suggestions; get involved in the community, talk to people and get to know them. do more research, there are some really good resources on the forums. once you feel it's appropriate, create a personal ad in the personals section. i'm 22 myself, you're still pretty young and new in the scene, take time to get to know yourself and dont worry too much about finding a partner. that should come more naturally.

[Guest]

Well it well depends. You have to get to know someone. People who jump into relationships only after a few hours /days of talking more likely than not are doomed to fail.

 

It would also be wise to get to know alot about ddlg before trying to even get a little. It's not fair for a little to have to be taken care of by someone who knows nothing about the life style (and littles should learn about the life style too).

 

So check out the resources area, tons of helpful info there. Once you feel more comfortable in your knowledge of ddlg, then start thinking about what kinds of things you want out of a ddlg relationship. THEN you can start getting to know people till you meant the person who clicks with you.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

Guys, check out the instant gratification thread.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12827-instant-gratification/page-1

[Panserbjorn]

I also wouldn't expect your first little to be the one. There's a big learning curve and a lot of commitment which can be more than you realise. I met my first quite by accident but regular dating sites often give hints. Don't bring it up unless they do or be very subtle and respectful. Also check out the classifieds!

 

Good luck and all the best

[Princess-P]

Being young won't really be a factor.

 

If your just looking for someone to play with it will probably happen pretty quick. There are a lot of people here and on other kink sites who view this dynamic as a role play kink. So lots of entertainment to be had. If that's what your looking for just be honest and it won't tale long at all. There is nothing wrong with this.

 

However if your looking for something more serious that could take a while. Months, years... However long it needs to. CG/l as a lifestyle is no different then a regular vanilla relationship. Just because you identify as rolls which are generally attracted to each other (Daddy/little for example) doesn't mean that you are compatible.