I sorta want my ex daddy back?

[Guest PinkAesthetic]

hey, I really don't know what to do at this point cause my ex daddy or ex bf or whatever texted me recently after not talking since our breakup 4 or 5 months ago and when we talked it's like we didn't even go through that rough patch in the end, cause towards the end we didn't talk that much and all we said was hi how are you and stuff. And I think I still love him and even want him back.

 

You might be thinking great then just ask him if you guys can get back together but it's not that simple. Cause while he still loves me and wants to get back together too, he's sketchy and I'm paranoid af and there are multiple more reasons why we just can't get back together but I'd rather not tell you more about them. So I can't get back together with him but I think I still love him and I've tried telling him that I don't wanna get back together with him and stuff but when I'm about to do it I just can't bring myself to actually say it.

 

The worst part is that I know this other guy who's really nice and basically any girls dream and after my breakup my friends were trying to set me up with him cause I liked him (he doesn't seem to be into ddlg but it's not that big of a deal to me). He started showing interest in me a few days before my ex texted me and then my ex texted me and I realised that I still love him so I'm just really confused..

 

 

Anyone got any advice on what I should do?

Edited January 18, 2017 by PinkAesthetic

[Guest]

Forget your ex.(move on) Don't date till you are over your ex. Not fair to start a new relationship when you still got feelings for your old one.

[Guest whatever]

As someone who tends to have issues letting exes go, lemme give you this advice:

 

DO NOT GO THERE! 

 

Ahem, sorry for that but I find bluntness usually helps in situations like this.

There is a reason you broke up. You could get back together, give it another shot and things could be great for a while But how long will it be before you both start thinking about what happened the first time? You said he's sketchy and you are paranoid, so it sounds like there isn't a whole lot of trust there which is usually a bad sign.  You may love him now, but you can get over people. 

To be honest, I don't think it would be a great idea if you got back with him. Saying that however, I can't stop you if you do get back with him. I also don't think you should get with the other guy. To be frank, what I think you need is to be single for a while. And learn where you stand with yourself first before you even consider a relationship. But again, I cannot stop you there either. 

 

Long story short; Don't recycle men. Just don't. You're not saving the planet by doing it. It just gets messy and hurts people more usually. 

[Guest PinkAesthetic]

thanks for the responses and yeah I'm gonna breakup with him, I think it's for the best and yeah maybe I need to stay single for a while but it's been 4 or 5 months as I said so I just felt like that was a long time and like I was ready but maybe I'm not so I'm gonna wait a while before I jump into anything