I need to get rid of my little space

[Daddybear72216]

I'm a daddy and I have a little... I sometimes have a little space that pops up and it hurts her because she feels worthless. I need it gone. How?

[BabyGirl32015]

Have you talked to your little about it? Because what it sounds like (correct me if Im wrong) that you are subconciously relating to her on her levle when she wants a daddy. Maybe you just want to feel what shes feeling? Theres nothing wrong about having both, I think you just need to comunicate with her and exspress your needs and feelings.

[lilsnoopy]

If being little is part of yourself then you shouldn't just, "get rid of it". I don't think repressing part of yourself is healthy for you or the relationship. 

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

Sometimes when I'm in little space it's like Daddy goes there too. I like it, he talks little like me and does silly funny things with me like playing peek a boo

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Why does she feel worthless because you have a little space?

 

For me... I don't have a little space. Being little for me is a part of who I am and I can't will myself to be any more or less little. I don't identify with a little age and I don't age regresss. I just have a very child-like personality, I have to fight this at work and it's hard, but the rest of the time I'm just me.

 

Sometimes I'm more playful than others and Daddy joins in. I love when he does this... I don't understand why it bothers her so I don't feel like I'm much help. You should never suppress part of yourself to please someone else, though.

[Little.Sophie]

I don't understand why she feels worthless when you go into little space either. Does she feel like she needs a Daddy and then you go into little space and she feels abandonded in a way? Maybe you could bring up the idea of her trying to be a switch for you from time to time and see if she's into that? Or maybe see if she'd be okay with you finding a mommy for when you go into little space? I definitely don't think it'd be healthy to try and get rid of your little space. It sounds like you need some extra nurturing there and if you try to supress that it could end up making you very irritable and bitter.

[Daddybear72216]

Have you talked to your little about it? Because what it sounds like (correct me if Im wrong) that you are subconciously relating to her on her levle when she wants a daddy. Maybe you just want to feel what shes feeling? Theres nothing wrong about having both, I think you just need to comunicate with her and exspress your needs and feelings.

I have and that's the issue. She is strictly a little and so she feels worthless when she can't care for me like I need..

[Daddybear72216]

Why does she feel worthless because you have a little space?

 

For me... I don't have a little space. Being little for me is a part of who I am and I can't will myself to be any more or less little. I don't identify with a little age and I don't age regresss. I just have a very child-like personality, I have to fight this at work and it's hard, but the rest of the time I'm just me.

 

Sometimes I'm more playful than others and Daddy joins in. I love when he does this... I don't understand why it bothers her so I don't feel like I'm much help. You should never suppress part of yourself to please someone else, though.

Its because she's a little and she can't do what I need her to do... she can't care for me or bring herself to pretend to dominate me in the way I desire occasionally. 

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Its because she's a little and she can't do what I need her to do... she can't care for me or bring herself to pretend to dominate me in the way I desire occasionally.

Okay so.... would she be okay with you having a caregiver of your own?

[Daddybear72216]

Okay so.... would she be okay with you having a caregiver of your own?

Thats one of the issues haha... it's hard to explain its like... I love her so much that I want to be dominated by her sometimes to show how much I love her... it's this need and its weird. 

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Thats one of the issues haha... it's hard to explain its like... I love her so much that I want to be dominated by her sometimes to show how much I love her... it's this need and its weird.

It's not weird.

I am fully submissive and a little. When Daddy and I got together initially he showed traits of both a Dominate and a submissive. He wanted Dominated sometimes... I tried so hard and frankly it brought me to tears trying. I felt worthless because I couldn't do what he wanted.

 

Now Daddy and I are and always have been completely monogomous. What it has come down to is sometimes Daddy Dominates by telling me to take charge. Although this still doesn't come super easy, it's doable for me. In day to day life he doesn't want me Dominating him as I am his submissive in all things. He does enjoy that in the bedroom sometimes though, and so I try.

 

This may be an option with your little. If she feels her Domination over you is more of a command rather than her taking over she may be more relaxed.

[Daddybear72216]

It's not weird.

I am fully submissive and a little. When Daddy and I got together initially he showed traits of both a Dominate and a submissive. He wanted Dominated sometimes... I tried so hard and frankly it brought me to tears trying. I felt worthless because I couldn't do what he wanted.

 

Now Daddy and I are and always have been completely monogomous. What it has come down to is sometimes Daddy Dominates by telling me to take charge. Although this still doesn't come super easy, it's doable for me. In day to day life he doesn't want me Dominating him as I am his submissive in all things. He does enjoy that in the bedroom sometimes though, and so I try.

 

This may be an option with your little. If she feels her Domination over you is more of a command rather than her taking over she may be more relaxed.

I like this advice. thank you and ill talk to her about it next time