How did you become a little/caregiver?

[Guest Sweetie_doll]

How did you find ddlg and what was the first thought that came into mind

[Daddys_pixie]

I had got chatting to a man I met on a dating app. He was honest and upfront straight away that he was a dominant. He told me to google DDLG (but said straight away he wasn't into age play) and then get back to him if I still was interested in meeting up. I've always been open minded so wasn't put off in the slightest. In fact I was completely fascinated and spent the next few days glued to the internet, immersing myself in all I could about it. Something about being a Little just instantly made so much sense to me. 

 

We met 2 days after we first started talking and instantly this amazing connection was there. He said he could tell straight away that I was a little. And he was right, I've completely fallen into this new relationship dynamic and nothing has ever felt more natural to me 

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

I found DD/LG by finding AB/DL which I found by finding AgePlay which I found by looking for adult sized baby/toddler clothes. My first thought was "Oh My God, How did I not know what this?!"

 

To answer "How did you become a Little" from your title, I was born this way. I never grew up, so I was born this way :3

[Soft Daddy]

I found cg/l community through a friend of mine who was into it. she would joke around with me about it but one day i got curious and started looking into it online. i realized that i really liked it more than i thought i would.
 

at first i thought i fit more into the little section cuz i liked cute things, but after some time of trying it, it just didnt feel right and i ended up distancing myself from it for a while until i met my little bun. shes very much a little and we ended up getting into the dynamic of me acting as her daddy very easily, it felt more natural for me to take care of her. so, i still like cute things but more if its on or for her.

[Lioxa]

I was always in to cutesy things and have always felt little, I just didn't know there was a name for it. My Daddy also didn't know about it but we were both interested in BDSM. We found that it didn't really fit us as he was too soft and didn't like to "punish" me and I'd act out because I needed more attention. One day we were just joking around and I was calling him Daddy but we both realised it didn't feel weird and we both enjoyed it. We then started reading up about it and knew it was the thing we had been looking for (: 

[Guest x77]

I had always set time aside to "just be a kid and forget everything" especially when I got home from school and or I was stressed out. I would go into my closet which I had decorated with quilts and Christmas lights and color or read, surrounded by my pillows and stuffed animals. I've never really had an authority figure in my life (parents didn't want to deal with me and they were pretty irresponsible themselves) I was out of control, didn't respect anyone - with every bf I had I'd push them around and tease them, get bored and break up with them after a few months. Then I met a guy who I tried to tease and bully while we were hanging out and he didn't have it, he grabbed me by the wrist and pulled me over his knee and spanked me for a straight minute, when he released me my face was so red I looked at him dumbfounded like "did you really just do that?" and he stood up, snapped his fingers and said "now, come." and I did. I followed him - for two years lol.

He took me everywhere and people thought I was his daughter, he'd jokingly say "call me Daddy" (or at least I thought he was joking) our dynamic worked better than anything I'd ever had, I respected him and looked up to him.

When we broke it off I felt absolutely lost. No structure or control. I wanted something like that again but I didn't even know what I was looking for. Then two of my close friends who knew about the age regression time I always set aside for myself told me about DDLG, I denied it, I always thought I was strictly a Pet. But then I met a real Daddy and I learned that being a Little and a Pet go pretty well together.

 

Tl;dr - I always have been a little. But finding out that it was actually a thing and I'm not alone was very liberating and I'm much happier now.

[glgkittykat99]

ok, so i found out a bit weird i think lol

well, for 1. i've always kind of been little but i come from i guess a very strict stereotypical asian family so wenever i felt little i guess i always did my best to repress it because it was "extremely morally wrong" etc. etc. and because i didn't know that there was anything like ddlg i was pretty sure i was alone in feeling like a little and other stuff related to it ( i come from a small town where i'm almost 100% sure there are no DD's or littles)

2. i was really really into k pop a good while back and i came across it while binge reading fanfics lol

but i looked into it and omg, did i love the idea of it but! i stayed away from it since i was underage although i did find myself looking at matchmaking stuff for underage littles and doms i nvr actually touched it or anything

but now i have the most lovely daddy and im so happy that i found out about it ^^

[Lil1]

My situation was similar to Daddys_pixie's. The only difference is my experience didn't end on as high of a note as it started.

 

I started doing my research on ddlg a little over a year ago. I was genuinely fascinated by it. I joined this forum because I got to a point where I had read as much as I could about DDlg and I was comfortable with the idea of interacting with people who were into the lifestyle. I never had any intention of meeting my dom on here but that sort of just happened. He messaged me saying he was a nurturing Daddy and that he and I were from the same area. He asked me pretty general questions and offered his definition of what a ddlg relationship was supposed to look like. We exchanged kik user names and continued our conversation. Our "relationship" lasted for a little over a month. It was an ldr so we didn't meet in person (thank God) but was did have conversations over the phone through text and on kik. I revealed way more of myself than I am proud enough to admit. By the end of it his tune had changed drastically and I saw his ugliest side solely because I had the audacity to question where we stood in our lovely "relationship". 

 

This was my into to a DDlg relationship. It was also my first "relationship". I made serious mistakes throughout. First and foremost I trusted this person way too quickly. He really didn't do very much to earn it. Looking back, it's actually pretty embarrassing.

 

Sorry that my story isn't very upbeat

[Frog]

I don't remember when I first heard about DDlg. When I did, I had all the wrong ideas about what it is. Then I read something a few littles said, so I figured what the heck. I read more and realized I was more daddy-ish than I thought.

 

I've always had that daddy/caregiver mindset. I've been the big brother, uncle, and mentor many times.

[Princesspoopybutt]

I kinda started following little accounts but i just thought they were cute and didn't figure out what they were till daddy asked me about them

[Simon.dd4lg]

I had a number of girls on chat sites wanting to call me daddy, tbh I found it kind of weird at first. Then someone told me what it was actually about and that it was called ddlg. Not being one to judge, I did some research into the lifestyle and found that it wasn't what I had initially thought.

 

I found this place and was made to feel very welcome from the start and felt at home. I felt like a daddy because I love taking care of someone. So that's how I found myself.

 

I been here over a year now and I haven't found my little but I'm in no rush. I have made lots of amazing friends and that's fine for now

[Guest thepoet]

I met a girl on a dating app. She told me she was into DD/lg and I had never heard about it. My natural nurturing instinct led me to research her interests in the hope of being able to care better for her and her desires. The more I researched, the more I felt familiar to the dynamic. This girl used me romantically and then bailed, but the seed had already been planted. The more I looked into it, the more I seemed to recognize myself. Then I discovered this community and began to realise that this represents who I feel I am inside. And I've been trying my best to become the best Daddy I can be ever since.

[Guest Wolfsbabylove]

Daddy and I both come from bad homes and the day we met ( at 9 and 13 years old) there was an argument within the adults around us. I cannot stand arguing and loud noises due to childhood trauma. So we hid in an abandoned bedroom of the house and he held and protected me (as much as a 13 year old boy could from adults) all night and I fell asleep in his arms. He said that's the moment he realized he had to protect me. He always has protected me from the outside world and myself. We have always been into BDSM and soon realized we could express that without judgement to each other. One day he started calling me pet names and treating me as you would a child. (tying my shoes,cutting up my food,ect.) He brought up the DD/lg life style but struggled with asking me how I felt about it, so I bluntly asked him if he wanted me to called him Daddy. We've been progressing and developing our dynamic since then.

[babybatwitchcat]

I actually got myself into pet-play first and then after a month or so I found DDLG,

so I was hopelessly in love with this boy who watched anime and I was stalking his Instagram one day and found this picture of his with hashtags that brought me to loads of pictures of anime girls cutely dressed with cat ears and a tail, I thought that was so me because I have an obsession with cats and a year before I literally thought I was catwoman. So I kept scrolling and scrolling until I realized this was a lifestyle and I just had to join and be someones kitten. Then a month later I was also on Instagram and looking at this pet-play account and saw some of the people she was following and saw DDLG and my first thought was "Oh goodness! This is even better!!!" So long story short I now have a nice mix of the two

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

Daddy and I both come from bad homes and the day we met ( at 9 and 13 years old) there was an argument within the adults around us. I cannot stand arguing and loud noises due to childhood trauma. So we hid in an abandoned bedroom of the house and he held and protected me (as much as a 13 year old boy could from adults) all night and I fell asleep in his arms. He said that's the moment he realized he had to protect me. He always has protected me from the outside world and myself. We have always been into BDSM and soon realized we could express that without judgement to each other. One day he started calling me pet names and treating me as you would a child. (tying my shoes,cutting up my food,ect.) He brought up the DD/lg life style but struggled with asking me how I felt about it, so I bluntly asked him if he wanted me to called him Daddy. We've been progressing and developing our dynamic since then.

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! This is about the cutest damn thing I've ever heard <3

[princess gremlin]

Three years ago I was pretty active on Twitter as a fangirl for a few different bands, and back then it became common for girls to call the guys in bands "daddy". At first it made me feel uneasy, but then I also kind thought I'd *want* to be the kind of girl who called her boyfriend daddy. So I started getting into it and quickly started reading about ddlg and being a little. I researched on tumblr and made a blog where I kind of "tried out" being little - reblogging pictures of dino chicken nuggets, bath toys, Disney world, etc. And I realized I'd been into little things for awhile, like going to Toys R Us for fun, playing on playgrounds, loving kids movies, chocolate milk, using sippy cups "for fun".... (specifically, those things were still fun for me between the ages of 14 and 17)

 

Finding out that I was a little was actually so relieving because I'd always been into things from my childhood, loved looking back on my childhood, and even now I'm going to college for early childhood development. I'm just kind of young at heart! I have an appreciation for childhood in general. So really it was relieving to realize I didn't have to completely leave my childhood in the past as I grow up! I can just do the things that make me happy, regardless of my age or expectations.

 

Plus, I had been into bdsm for a few years already, so ddlg is really the best of both worlds for me!

Edited April 10, 2017 by babygirl

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

So for me all of this awesomeness started February 3rd. My girlfriend at time said "hey you're open minded right?". My reply was "Depends on what it is sweetheart". She said "I'm into ddlg and I think you would make a damn near perfect daddy". At first I was appalled of the idea of someone calling me Daddy but I told her "Baby girl I love and trust you so explain it to me and we will talk about it". She explained it a bit then said "well not much will change you already check on me when I'm out with friends, won't let me curse, and clear your throat when I do something you disapprove of". I couldn't argue so I told her "we can try it for a month if I don't like it we stop fair?". Well I fell in love with it XD

[HisuianLilligant]

I'm just naturally that way, I've always regressed without having a term for it before I discovered the community

[lilangelbby]

i was kinda skepticle about it at first a few years ago until i started talking to a guy who is into ddlg (in 2015) and then i looked into it more and educated myself more about it and being a little and the whole ddlg type relationship.

 

ive always had a v little personality and have always gotten excited abt cute things like stuffies and like certain colors and whatnot

 

I kinda ignored the whole ddlg and little stuff for a couple of years until now because ive been talking to/dating this guy (my daddy) and a couple months ago he found my little space/nsfw twitter (by nsfw i mean porn not pics of me) on my phone and then told me he knew about it so we talked about it more and him becoming my daddy kinda just happened naturally bc hes very protective over me and likes taking care of me and he makes me feel so little (hes a lot taller than me) so it kinda juat works for us haha

 

At first it was mostly a kink/sexual thing for him like me calling him daddy but more n more he started refering to himself as daddy in a non sexual manner like when he can tell that im in little space. So hes kinda more open to it now but yeah it kinda just naturally happened for us

Edited June 15, 2017 by lilangelbby

[Zenmackie]

I've been writing and posting mostly Dominance/submission stories on Literotica.com* and other sites for several years, and I sometimes would hear from submissives who wanted me to be their online Dom.  One or two of them wanted to call me 'Daddy', which was fine, but eventually I started a relationship with someone who was just beginning to explore her Little side more deeply.  Neither one of us knew what we were doing but we both enjoyed it a great deal.  

 

The caregiver aspect of being a Dominant has always been important to me but I've discovered that I enjoy it much more as a Daddy - easily as much as I enjoy the erotic part of the relationship.  Helping someone to accept herself, to feel safe, comfortable and fulfilled as a Little, is incredibly rewarding.

 

 

 

(*If anyone is interested in reading/listening to my stories you can find them here:  https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=533505&page=submissions)

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

I was dating a guy who said it was a huge turn on for him when a woman calls him Daddy.  So I started doing that, not really thinking of it as anything more than a nickname.  One day he asked me what it meant to me when I call him that.  I had no idea, so I googled it.  And then I read some posts on Tumblr, some of which gave me the FEELZ, and I thought, "Thank god I'm not the only one."

[BluehBear]

I've always been really clingy and needy. In high school I was the baby of the group even though I was the oldest. I've always loved things like colouring and watching cartoons, cuddling stuffies and taking naps. I Often got called a brat or a baby when I broke down or started doing those things, didn't realise I was actually regressing but then I was on tumblr and saw a whole heap of posts about littles and their daddies. So I looked into it and finally realised what was happening. So now here I am

[Dada's princess]

I'm brand spankin new to all of this aspect of things. I am and have been submissive for a loooong time but I met a friend in the D/s aspect and it sort of just happened. He was extremely easy to talk to and in the midst of things aftercare became the focus as opposed to the playing and the more we talked the more he made it very clear that he was fiercely protective of me and began casually using certain nicknames and finally in the middle of a late night text conversation I finally admitted somethings that I typically keep hidden from people and at that point it was official. He was my Daddy and I was his princess. It's funny at this point because I feel like I'm more relaxed in everything I do. Quite interesting.

[Guest ParanoidAsylum]

I guess I've always been this way in some regards, but the time I really got into it was when I was with my first mommy, who nudged me the bit I needed to actually try for real.

[*Firefly*]

Daddy and I both come from bad homes and the day we met ( at 9 and 13 years old) there was an argument within the adults around us. I cannot stand arguing and loud noises due to childhood trauma. So we hid in an abandoned bedroom of the house and he held and protected me (as much as a 13 year old boy could from adults) all night and I fell asleep in his arms. He said that's the moment he realized he had to protect me. He always has protected me from the outside world and myself. We have always been into BDSM and soon realized we could express that without judgement to each other. One day he started calling me pet names and treating me as you would a child. (tying my shoes,cutting up my food,ect.) He brought up the DD/lg life style but struggled with asking me how I felt about it, so I bluntly asked him if he wanted me to called him Daddy. We've been progressing and developing our dynamic since then.

 

honestly yall are OTP wow <3