Baby girl & mr bear Posted June 5, 2017 Report Posted June 5, 2017 I'm new here, I am a little, I do have both a mummy and a daddy but I always have to switch to being big and I don't like it, I get real jealous of actual babies ( no offense to us) is this normal? Also I have bpd and this seems to be a common coping mechanism does anyone else have bpd? Xxx
LilPetPet Posted June 5, 2017 Report Posted June 5, 2017 I don't have bpd, but I have pmdd and it acts similarly. I find little space helps me be happy and comforts me when my hormones are making me out of my mind. I sometimes get jealous of my little kids. But I don't feed that feeling. Jesus wants His people to serve everyone in love and be selfless. So when I feel selfish and don't want to be big, i remember that it is a sacrifice of love I do for my family and for my God. And I am happy again.
MeepMoop Posted June 5, 2017 Report Posted June 5, 2017 My daddy has a son and I find myself getting jealous of the attention. Makes me feel selfish so I stop myself from acting on that. I have severe abandonment anxiety and I think that's where a lot of my more undesirable behavior stems from.... I don't have bpd but I offer hugs
chubbylilwolfcub Posted June 6, 2017 Report Posted June 6, 2017 I get a little jealous when Daddy loves on his cat or our daughter. I think it can be a pretty normal reaction for a lot of littles. As long as you don't act on the feelings it should be fine (for example, I don't tantrum when Daddy loves on our baby, I just join the lovins. If hes loving on his cat I will go play with my dog. Etc)
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