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As a child I was sexually abused, so for me being sexual in little space makes me feel very unsafe and really really scared..

I think that's why I am so terrified of anything sexual when in little space.  Just a peck on the lips, and anything more is terrifying to me.

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I've never been sexual while in little space, I dunno i just don't feel dirty when I'm feeling little, like if things turn sexual I'll snap out of little space
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My big bro treats me great. We don't talk about sex stuff. I'm new to all this but I'm loving it so far. Looking for little friends. 27GayCt I'm 7 as a little.
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I am. But then I don't go in and out of little space either.
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I'm Typically not very sexual during little space unless it's towards the end of the night and we're settling down and/or my Daddy approaches me in a very certain way that I can't explain.
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When I'm little my daddy knows that I'm too small for big girl playtime
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For me and Daddy that would be a no. It is very simple for us as well. With one magic word from my daddies lips we can go from Little/Daddy to being Boyfriend and Girlfriend and he is in control of using this word not me. The word is switch. Once used we switch from whatever roles we are doing to the other roles and when he is ready to switch back he will just use the word again. It is very simple.

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For me and Daddy that would be a no. It is very simple for us as well. With one magic word from my daddies lips we can go from Little/Daddy to being Boyfriend and Girlfriend and he is in control of using this word not me. The word is switch. Once used we switch from whatever roles we are doing to the other roles and when he is ready to switch back he will just use the word again. It is very simple.

That's really neat.  I don't think that would work for me and my boyfriend, because I can't just stop being little if I want, but that is neat!

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That's really neat.  I don't think that would work for me and my boyfriend, because I can't just stop being little if I want, but that is neat!

Thank You, it is another was of Daddy/Boyfriend controlling me mostly as I am not allowed to use the magic word. When we started our agreement as Daddy and Little and our relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend one of my biggest things was no sexual play during Daddy/Little time. This just made it easy for him to still have his Dom ways over me and only have the sexual part in our adult relationship. It is easy for me to change because I do not want to play the role of a 2 year old child being sexual with her Daddy so it is easy for me to change whenever he wants and easy to change back to being Daddies Little when he again uses the magic word.

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i am a sub first and foremost, and for me, being little is just another way for me to be submissive, so yeah, i am.

I'm exactly the same as you. It took me several years to understand it but now I accept this side of me and I enjoy being in my little space with my daddy. It's been difficult, though. 

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To be honest, I'm pretty inexperienced when it comes to relationships, dating, sexual stuff, and DDlg in general, and I've never had a Daddy, so maybe my answer will change when I do, but I'm not sexual in my little space. It's uncommon for me to get turned on when I'm little, and if I do, I don't feel any need or want to take care of it until I'm "big" again. My little time is more about self love/care and letting go of stress, and I guess it's sort of like a mental reboot. I express my emotions more freely and any big or deep thoughts kind of "float" by, if that makes sense. So anything sexual almost feels intrusive(?). Again, I've never had a Daddy and maybe that would change how I feel/think about little space.

*I didn't have any childhood trauma, and I can't imagine what that would be like. I'm really sorry you had to go through that 😢*

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I am a sexual liddle, but I enjoy non sexual things as liddle too. I had a therapist tell me my liddle fantasies had to do with taking control of my own childhood sexual trauma. I’m not sure of all that, but it’s nice to hear I’m not entirely alone in playing big girl games with a/the daddy.

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The simple answer for my Daddy and I is we are both very sexual beings as it is part of how we show and experience intimacy. When I'm little I'm still an adult capable of making adults decisions. Being sexually connected for us is VERY important and whether I'm in littlespace or not it's still something that is important to is both.

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For whatever reason, getting to explore a new side of myself gets me going. I think I just feel so excited that my body gets caught up in it too. Currently I'm very sexual when I'm a little but there's always a chance that will settle down and I won't be anymore 🤷

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