Nonsexual little

[Kbyo1997]

I'm just wondering if everyone who is nonsexual has the same problem as me when it comes to trying to find friends or even a daddy...

[DeathMetalPrincess]

I can't say that I'm not a sexual person, because I am. Maybe not as much as some other people, but I definitely have my own ideals and fantasies. Regardless, if you're going into DDlg, I've found that we really aren't very sexual anyway. Even though DDlg is technically a subset of BDSM, we often don't categorize ourselves as being part of the latter group firsthand. What I mean is a lot of us in the community are caregivers first, and dominants second. Likewise, the littles are littles first and submissives second. The two categories are not exactly separate from one another, but I've come to understand that littles are often not inherently sexual, even if daddies or mommies are. I really wouldn't worry about it too much. Just be yourself and express yourself however you feel is best. The community is very accepting and understanding, and this site is a great and welcoming place. This is a pretty positive and safe environment and we're all supportive of each other here. I hope it does get easier to make friends here, but I know how hard it can be. I was a bit nervous about it all myself. You'll be ok, though. Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to.

[daddyflag]

I'm just wondering if everyone who is nonsexual has the same problem as me when it comes to trying to find friends or even a daddy...

Well, for me being a daddy could be sexual or non sexual, it depends on what the little wants.

[Guest SUeB]

To be fair, most people are looking for a sexual component in any intimate relationship. Not all, but most.

[cuddle_bunny]

I definitely find that because I'm nonsexual, daddies don't necessarily want me as their little.  I had one daddy say that there won't be anything in it for him if I'm not sexual

[Kbyo1997]

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

I definitely find that because I'm nonsexual, daddies don't necessarily want me as their little.  I had one daddy say that there won't be anything in it for him if I'm not sexual

WHAT??? I don't think "Daddy" means what he thinks it means.

 

I was going to say it depends on the problems you're having, but I'm going to go out on a limb and say yeah, I've had problems finding a non sexual Daddy as well (Thank you '50 Shades of Gray.')