What do I dooooo?

[BabyDollx18]

I met a man on kik who seemed very nice(and still does) I'm a new little and so I was very eager to find a daddy but I'm not sure he's the one I want, I know it takes time to understand each other but he's given me rules but doesn't enforce them, he breaks rule number one which is always say good morning and goodnight. Andddd he's always happy when I tell him about projects I made or other things but only realllyyyy seems focused when I'm sending him the occasional photo or sexy stufffs. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but we haven't met or video chatted before and I dunno I guess what I'm trying to get at is are these possible signs of a fake caregiver?

[Guest sunnybaby]

my first "daddy" did the same this. I never once saw his face beside his profile picture and would do all those same stuff. I ended things with him because i was too sketchy for me. if you aren't 1000000000% happy with him, I'd keep looking. goodluck! 

[Mikaitaku]

yes, those would point to someone who is not really interested in being a CG

[Guest infinitely empty]

idk him or anymore than youve said but my first opinion is he seems more concerned with what he gets out of the relationship not what you need and want and again in my opinion a real daddy always puts his little first making sure shes safe and happy should be top priority not sexy time or sexy stuff these are just my opinions and in no way reflect what others may think or feel

[BabyDollx18]

Recently he doesn't talk to me much either, and I understand he's busy with his work but he never tells me when he's leaving so I'll be waiting for a reply and he's not even there. Also he keeps saying how he's going to buy me diapers cause it's a major turn on for him (and I've gotten curious about wearing them) butttt he seems very very pushy about it. But then he'll say not to change and that we can go slow and all that stuff so it just makes me very confused.

[Guest SUeB]

You've been talking on kik and he loves you? Erm no. One of the biggest red flags. I love you, show me your boobs!! Ridiculous.

Get rid. He's an online player.

[Guest]

In my opinion there are some red flags. Especially because you seem to feel sort of uncomfortable and unsure about what’s going on.

 

My advice would be to find out what he wants out of it and if it matches your expectations. Talk to him as an adult and ask about his intentions.

[LilWittle]

BayDollx18, I also met my current Daddy online and he wasn't my Daddy at that time we were just friends as I was in a "vanilla" relationship at the time. But those are some big "Red Flags for sure that he is just trying to play kinky online with you and has no intentions to meting you face to face either in person or online. When I met my current Daddy online we stayed friends for a little while before it even went to anything. He immediately initiated face to face time for us to have together online. This later led to meeting in person and then eventually leading into something romantically and to what we have today and I now live with him. But my advice to you is when you meet someone online(anyone). Take it very slow and just be friends for awhile and talk casually before you get into the other stuff. This will weed out the ones that aren't serious. Good Luck.

[Untwisted]

... he's given me rules but doesn't enforce them, he breaks rule number one...

 

 

Also he keeps saying how he's going to buy me diapers cause it's a major turn on for him ... he seems very very pushy about it. But then he'll say not to change and that we can go slow and all that stuff....

 

Sounds like he's after what he wants and just telling you what you want to hear without actually doing it.  It's not about being fake, he might be perfect for somebody else, it's about compatibility.  I'm sure in some ways he's very nice but if deep down he's not right for you and you're uncomfortable, you don't need to settle for that.

[baby jenna]

i would keep looking, its happened with me to before.

[Big Bear737]

Don't be in too much of a rush for a daddy, I know it's hard being patient when you've worked out what u want. I think some guys/girls believe they can give you what you need without truly committing or understanding the lifestyle.