Daddy dont like it :(

[Nekogal]

So im in relationship.

I behave like little a lot of time and he take care of me...but... He dont want to call him Daddy. He dont know about DDlg and that this is want I need...I want him to be my Daddy!

Have you ever been in relationship which werent DDlg and feel sad about it?

[NikkiCatalano]

I used to be in a relationship with this one guy, and not that he was against DD/LG, but he didn't really understand it, so he wouldn't want me to call him Daddy, or even act like a little. I ended up breaking up with him because of it. This is my lifestyle, and I won't be changing it for someone. I was sad, but honestly it's better to be you! I'm not saying you should break up with him, but maybe you should talk to him about him, and tell him exactly how you feel  

 

-Nikki

Edited November 15, 2017 by NikkiCatalano

[cuppycakes]

Some people think that calling a partner daddy is weird, but that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t consider being your caregiver. You should talk to him about it, you never know how he’ll react until you say something. Maybe he will like the idea!

 

(Also, there are a lot of Little’s that don’t call their CG “daddy”. They have other names for them.)

[Guest SUeB]

So if you want the relationship to continue, you need to accept one very small thing, and call him by his name. If that's the only issue then you need to let it go. It's a word. A title. Doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things if he does all the other stuff that makes you happy.

[Puppy]

If he doesn't know about DDlg, why don't you introduce him to it? You cannot call somebody Daddy and expect them to get it right away.

If after being introduced to it if he still doesn't like the idea you cannot force it on him or try to persuade him otherwise. If the dynamic is that important to you, then maybe at that point it would be wise to leave the relationship.

 

People can be into DDlg and being a caregiver without wanting to be called Daddy or any other special name at all. The name isn't what makes the dynamic special.

[Nekogal]

Im afraid to tell him about it. I dont know how to introduce him well...he laughted at me when I said Im into bdsm... Its not more important than our love...but I feel numb and I dont feel any satisfaction from girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. Im also confused when he calls me his woman. I dont wanna be woman Im girl!

[Guest SUeB]

Girl/woman what's the difference? You are a woman, even if you would rather be called a girl. You're finding fault with a man that seems to be treating you rather well. But if you aren't happy, that's your answer. You are who you are, but to counter that, he is also who he is. If you are with someone that you want to change, you are with the wrong person.

[HampshireBloke]

I think you have to find a way to talk to him. It sounds like you want him to treat you in a specific way but won't actually tell him what you want.

No matter how much he loves you, he can't read your mind. At least give him a fair shot at satisfying you by telling him what you need in the relationship.

Edited November 15, 2017 by HampshireBloke

[Puppy]

Im afraid to tell him about it. I dont know how to introduce him well...he laughted at me when I said Im into bdsm... Its not more important than our love...but I feel numb and I dont feel any satisfaction from girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. Im also confused when he calls me his woman. I dont wanna be woman Im girl!

Him calling you his woman doesn't seem like a bad thing, really. That doesn't make you any less of a "girl." If he truly isn't into BDSM, you can't make him be into it. Nobody here can give you anymore advice other than be open and honest with him, and respect how he feels. 

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

So im in relationship.

I behave like little a lot of time and he take care of me...but... He dont want to call him Daddy. He dont know about DDlg and that this is want I need...I want him to be my Daddy!

Have you ever been in relationship which werent DDlg and feel sad about it?

If you behave like a little and he takes care of you when you do but he just doesn't like to be called Daddy. I mean, does it matter what you call him or what you label your relationship? There's a million and one cute things you can call him instead. A relationship is about what works for the both of you. He doesn't like you calling him Daddy, he told you. You don't like being called his "woman"  tell him you'd rather him call you his girl. You can't make anyone like anything, you can't make anyone do anything, but you can work together to make a good relationship that's prefect for both of you. It doesn't matter what you label your relationship, it matters if your loved, if your in love and both are working for a good life with each other that you both enjoy. Being in love is easy. Being in a relationship is hard work and a two way street. You need to talk and work together for it to work and last.

[lavenderxdoll]

There is a chance he just doesn't like the term 'Daddy', a lot of people feel weird about even if they don't mind the caregiver role, which is fine. There is no way to know unless you talk about it, like others have said. On the chance he does like it you might just have to agree on a different title

 

With the laughing at you, some people laugh if they feel awkward, nervous, or surprised. Did you explain further after he laughed? Or ask why he laughed?

 

You can't really decide what to do until you explain everything and see if he dislikes it or not.