What should you put in your profile? [Shy]

[BunnyBear]

So I just made my account yesterday, and I didn't want to overcrowd it with too much text so I just named some of my interests.

 

Plus because I'm new to the community, I'm still rather shy about sharing aspects of my little side. It's feels too intimate .////.

 

But I've looked at others profile and they seem bold and show exactly who they are and what they're looking for.

 

I'm not sure how to get the essence of ME across. What kinda thing should I go over in it? I don't want to scare anyone off but I also don't want to waste anyone's time.

[Puppy]

My best advice is to put what you are comfortable with! Do not use others profiles as guidance. Some people put a lot of information and write huge essays, and some people keep it simple. Personally for me I just put a few sentences about things I like in and out of littlespace, then at the bottom I put my favorite music, video games, and TV shows/movies. 

 

Put whatever you feel is relevant and whatever you are okay with sharing! You do not have to put anything if it is too personal.

[Tinka]

when you first join, you are excited, you are the newbie, everything seems dreamy and full of hopes and cookies you jump around like a kid in a candystore. 

But there are people who are here long time, have tried the whole ddlg more than us, and have found out what they want and what they dont, and they dont want to lose their time in people who will eventually not like them.

A good friend of mine here has an essay profile, and even if i wouldnt personally do it, i understand that it saves him time to explain over and over to various Little ones who try to approach him, only to find out that something in him could be a potentially turn off, or a no-no. 

 

Do what you like, change it along the way, adjust it to the things you want and find out. Welcome

[Guest Daddy Eros]

my profile is bold because idk what i'm doing, just change it as time goes by

[LittleKitten13]

You don't have to put in anything you don't want to!  You don't even have to talk about your little self in it, if you don't want.  Just tell us who you are as a person.  Do you like Pokémon?  Put that there.  Do you write?  Share that with us!  Do you like to draw?  Go ahead and tell us all about your art.

[meows kohai]

Mine's a little clustered cause I just made a bunch of lists and put in some cute pixels. 

If you aren't comfortable with sharing too much, just put a few basic things on-- how you prefer to be addressed, maybe your age?, a few interests, and maybe a cute pixel or something? Some simple formatting (font size, color, little symbols, etc). 

[Puppy]

Honestly I went all out on mine and I don't expect others to do the same. I'm not only a perfectionist but I'm going to school for web design and development, which has always been a hobby of mine. Anytime I have to customize profiles anywhere that web dev side of me tries to come out and make it look really good and clean! 

 

EDIT: (I trailed off but knew I was going somewhere with this.) 

 

A simple profile with some simple customization is always nice imo. Use the colors you want, fonts you want, sizes you want, etc. I would say make it readable and accessible friendly, but I really have a thing for small font... so I wouldn't take that advice from me. 

Edited November 19, 2017 by Puppy

[BunnyBear]

Thanks everyone^^ this gave me some insight and did make me feel better

[Guest Alainnb]

I personally tried to make it not only centered on ddlg and bdsm

That's mostly because I think when you're searching for friends or a partner, you don't only need to click well in your ddlg aspects but you also need to match with your other parts of your personality ^-^ I Mean, he doesn't need to have the same hobbies but I feel like people approaching should get an overview of our complete self. What if you're the perfect little for a daddy but you don't match when you want to hang out as adults...? Ofc this only applies to people that do not want to do it as a 24/7 - lifestyle thing ^-^ As for kinks: I simply posted the results of the BDSM test as I found them describing it very well, tho it's up to you how you wanna deal with it

 

To sum it up, I think a good mixture of personal interests, little side things and kinks is a good way to know if you are compatible or not. If you're too shy to post about little things or kinks tho, just sticking to personal information is absolutely fine as well <33 After all, we are all different