What do I do?

[Princesscatbug]

Okay, so my ex and I were together for 2 years. During our relationship we decided to try out ddlgand loved it. We broke up back in October and we're still friends but there are times where we miss each other. I don't know if I'll ever be comfortable being in another ddlg relationship or how to even go about asking someone that isn't on here..

[mintypowder]

Honey, I get you are having trouble trying to get used to the break up but it has been such a little time since two of you broke up. You say that you two do miss each other, I think it is better for both of you to have a conversation about that. I also get your break up reason/reasons may be private so I won't make any more interpretation about this. My point is, give yourself time. Time heals literally everything and you will understand that though he is not near you, you can be comfortable about your relation desires. My man didn't know about ddlg when he found out that I enjoyed it and still, after having been explained to, he enjoys it as well. You can be comfortable being in another ddlg relationship for sure, once you forget about your ex. This leads to the same result as another, have a conversation with him about that or else, you are strong enough to heal yourself. Hope this helps you even a little. ♥

[PrincessClara]

Yeah you just have to give yourself time. If you are very young (and you really look it in your pic) then you will learn you can move on and you will still be a little even without him. I am still friends with a couple of my exes from way back when (like....15  years ago now) so if you want to remain friends know it is possible but will take time apart to stop hurting first. You'll find someone one day that you click with and falling into a ddlg relationship will come naturally because that is who you are inside. Anyone who doesn't accept you for you isn't the right one