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    #141 Bonbon88

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    Posted 23 February 2019 - 11:31 AM

    My daddy and I have a pretty solid list of rules for myself that it’s taken about a month to hammer out. He’s so in tune with my needs and who I am as an individual that all of his rules are perfect for me. I’m in grad school and I’m also a special education teacher - so I’m pretty stressed usually haha, I also have a panic disorder soo my rules are perfect.

    1. No talking down about myself
    2. Sunday through Thursday I’m only allowed to have 1 beer. Friday’s I have a bottle of wine, and if I go out on weekends with friends I’m limited to 8 drinks.
    3. No hard liquor
    4. No smoking
    5. Take my anxiety meds every day by 9:30pm
    6. Homework must be finished by 9pm on sundays
    7. One sexy video a week sent to daddy (were long distance)

    #142 Sweetieheart

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    Posted 04 March 2019 - 06:31 PM

    Hello, this might be an odd question but I was wondering if any one else had experienced this.

    My little and I used to have a rewards tasks chart, but retired it a while ago. He told me yesterday after not wanting to talk about why for a long time that it was because, I seems "Too disappointed" when she missed a goal.

    Have other littles felt this from their mommies or daddies? What did you do to help tell them or stop them from being so frumpy?

    Other daddies or mommies, what do you do to stop your tittle feeling disappointed when they missed a goal?

    She has yet to tell me EXACTLY what I personally did. I would always hug her and tel her it was OK if a goal wasn't met. And give her hugs and praise when she did something, or even if she just tried really hard.

    There would be days I would miss asking her, about the chart at the times I was supposed to (when I get hom, just before bed), to toehr daddies/mummys, don't forget this! Reinforcement is important, even when life is stressful.

    I hope you all have duna and magical days. :)

    Suuuper late reply, but just in case anyone else is going through this, might as well. This actually just came up with me and my Daddy. I wanted to cancel the sticker chart all together cause it made me feel bad. Honestly, it might not even be that you actually appeared to be disappointed. My problem was I was so upset with myself that I kind of... started to see myself as bad? And it became a constant worry that my Daddy would, too. So we changed the chart from me getting a reward for being good for a whole week to me getting a marble for every ten stickers, consecutive or not. Then the marbles can be traded in for rewards. Cause I tend to get into trouble... kind of a lot? And it was rare for me to get all of the stickers in a week, so it felt like I was constantly being beaten down by an unattainable goal. 


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    #143 Sweetieheart

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    Posted 06 March 2019 - 07:41 PM

    I have a sticker chart with the categories "health, school, and daily tasks". For every ten days I get all of my stickers (they don't have to be consecutive), I get a " special sticker " (so it's shiny or bigger or something" and a little glass rock/marble thing. I can save up marbles to buy rewards. One marble can get me a new sticker sheet, three can get me a later bedtime for the whole weekend, and six can get me the option of choosing a restaurant for us to go eat at. There are twelve total possible rewards I can earn.
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    #144 florchusagi

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    Posted 16 March 2019 - 05:21 PM

    Wow, I didn't think of it but it's a really nice idea! As soon as I saw this topic, I told my boy about it and he liked the idea sooo I guess I'm going to do a rewards chat, we even thought the rewards and now that he is about to start his studies again, it will be really fun to give him little "rules" or tasks to follow. 


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    Posted 24 March 2019 - 02:17 AM

    I don’t really enjoy funishments. I prefer actual punishments, to help shape me into the person I want to become.

    I want to start a journal to write my daily tasks and maybe put stickers in. I’m too lazy of a person to put effort into frivolities though.


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    #146 ducky

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    Posted 05 June 2019 - 03:59 PM

    how did you make this?  :o

     

    I have a very detailed reward system for my girl!

     

    I draw her weekly behavior charts like this:

     

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    At the end of the week, I rally her points up, and give her a reward based on her performance!

     

    At the end of the year, I display all the chart information on an infographic and compare it to the year before!



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    Posted 08 July 2019 - 02:49 PM

    Loved reading this topic. My Daddy and I have a huge list of rules... But I don't remember them all. (Purposely forgot them I guess)

    1. Brush hair and teeth before going to bed.
    2. On weekdays I have to be in bed before 10.30 PM and put away my phone before 11 Pm. He'll check on me.
    3. When I watch tv on my own, I can only watch 1.5 hours by myself.
    4. I have to feed the cat.
    5. I very much dislike breakfast and lunch but Daddy finally understands he'll never change that but I have to eat fruit before 11 AM.
    6. I tend to wonder off a lot, I love walking but I always have to tell Daddy where I am.

    ^ some clean rules.

    When I follow the rules I may decide what we're doing for A FULL DAY. Which is awesome.
    Whennnn I don't follow the rules we have a wide variety of punishments. The bad part about it is that I can't choice which one I want... because Daddy's in charge??? ...




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