When to be Baby Girl

[daddysbabyharley]

So my Daddy and I had a huge argument this morning about being "little".  Although he said he doesn't mind it and he understands that sometimes little space helps with my anxiety and all that he doesn't want me to be little all the time. He misses the D/s part of our relationship. I understand that because I do too at times. But my big problem is that I have embraced being little so much that I have trouble coming out of little space and into sub space. It seems like it's either little space or adult space and that's it. So when and how can I move to sub space to make my man happy?

 

I figured the best way to do this is to use two different names depending on what is wanted. For example when I want to be baby girl I call him Daddy but when I want to be sub I call him Sir. And when he wants to DDlg he calls me baby girl of course. But now I'm looking for a name for him to call me when he is Sir

Edited January 14, 2018 by daddysbabyharley

[Daddylovesme]

I have two suggestions here. The first, which I COMPLETELY get being not an option for you as a couple or just one of you, is finding a way to combine the two. D/s isn't always sexual , and for my partner and I it often times isn't so we combine the two often. 

 

The second, is to maybe try to DRASTICALLY different names. For example, when Daddy calls me little one, baby girl, baby, etc, I tend to stay in my little space as well. But when we are more in a D/s dynamic so to speak, I am usually called pet, just by my name, or sometimes just referred to as nothing (not in the sense of being a thing, but more in the sense that there is no name neccessary). However, Master and I have a darker sided dynamic so this may not be an option for you. I think the best thing to do would be to expirement with different things. 

 

For Daddy and I it is often his tone that leads. I fall easily into tone of voice changes, and can flow from one side of me to another controlled simply by the way He acts and speaks with me.