Can i rant? Why.. Yes i can!

[Guest TheLittlestMouse]

I don't know where to start this post and i don't know where this will end. So.. hold tight! If you do not like what you read. I am sorry but i don't care! Read it and be on your way.

 

So there are 2 things i have noticed and it is not just on this site but other ddlg sites i am a part of as well.

 

For starters the.. "Fake daddies" I know i know... Not all of you here enjoy that term. So i will call them.. uneducated daddies!

 

Now.. the ones i am talking about are the ones that have no respect and they just want dirty things.. There are so many out there and more hoping on the train.. I can not tell you how many i have come across. Some are just so rude and nasty and just because they get a no right of the bat for things they want. I am sure a lot of you have come across this.

 

Yes they are people online and what they say should not hurt us but it does! When someone calls you rude names and says aweful things to you without getting to know you. It hurts and makes you want to just hide under a rock.

 

How do you deal with that? What do you do? Sadly nothing..

 

I have noticed it is more from the younger males mainly. Ones that probably just found out what this is.

 

To those who are learning and new who maybe reading this. I am pretty sure most littles who you are going to talk to do not want something sexual right off the bat. So my advice is talk..talk as much as you can! Ask them things about themselfs. Tell them about you and get to know them!

 

No need to rush into things and end up hurting you both..

 

I could talk about this all day and night if i could but i am just going to go to the 2nd topic

 

 

Which is

 

People judging others

All littles, mommies, daddies, whoever

 

We all are different! How we act, talk, posts we make, things we say.

 

The way we look.. WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT!

 

If you can not understand that.. why are you here?

 

Come on now... I mean you all can be nicer then this!

 

We all are adults here.. we all have different opinions. Just because of that though.. It does not mean you should say hurtful things.

 

If you see something you do not like.. why make a rude comment? What is that gonna do? Who is that going to help?

 

Why not say something helpful? That could be of use to someone.

 

Anyway... I think i am going to end this here.

 

Just think about how you would want to be treated!

 

We all were new to this site and to the lifestyle at one point.

 

Thanks for listening!

 

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend!

[Guest Daddys1Babycakes88]

[Guest TheLittlestMouse]

I LOVE this post! It is so true!! There are 2/3 people I’ve noticed that always have something to comment, and it’s usually always negative. And ‘Predator Daddies’ do suck! But we have to learn how to avoid them as well as trust all the other new Daddies who mean well Very well said tho, bravo on this post! *clap*clap*clap*

Thank you so much! (:

 

I just find it super hard to trust daddies do to all the not so nice ones out there.

 

Sad to say but a lot of them are ruining it for the good ones!

 

It really stinks!

[CaresAlot]

Thanks for taking the time to give some incite to what you see from your side.  I know and I'm embarrassed as a man that there are so many boys that have no couth.  Its not just here but lots of other places as well.  You girls should have no tolerance for crude and rude.  Men need to know that when you take that time to get to know a girl, you tap into a side of her more than kisses or groping will ever do.  Plus us guys need to find out if this is somebody I want to invest myself in before we get physical.  There is definitely no one size fits all in here.

There is nothing positive that comes out of hurting somebody verbal or physical.  When you do that, you don't just hurt them, but you give up a piece of yourself.  If somebody is trying to say things to hurt you, then you know that they are somebody you don't need in your life.  Take their power away to hurt you tell them "I'm sorry you feel that way."  Then say nothing more and walk away.  At that point you have not been unkind and they have no power over you.  Just like in martial arts, we learn to fight and more important not to get in a fight.  Find a mirror or find a friend and practice until you learn how to control the situation.  Never let anger control a situation.  

Edited February 11, 2018 by CaresAlot

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Thank you for posting this topic.  It is an important one.

 

Now.. the ones i am talking about are the ones that have no respect and they just want dirty things.. There are so many out there and more hoping on the train.. I can not tell you how many i have come across. Some are just so rude and nasty and just because they get a no right of the bat for things they want. I am sure a lot of you have come across this. 

Yes they are people online and what they say should not hurt us but it does! When someone calls you rude names and says aweful things to you without getting to know you. It hurts and makes you want to just hide under a rock.

 

I am not sure if the above incidents happen with people you met on this site or another.  If it was here, I would like to remind you and everyone reading this that we do not tolerate predatory, harassing, abusive, or disrespectful behavior on this site.  Screenshot whatever it was that made you uncomfortable and file a report.  Even if you think it isn't a big deal, there is a good chance it is happening to others.  Reports are anonymous and the staff will never disclose the identity of the member who filed the report.

[Mikaitaku]

I am surprised the mods let this stay, considering the last rant was removed.

 

Anyway you spoke well on the topic

[I_AM_THE_SENATE]

I am surprised the mods let this stay, considering the last rant was removed.

 

Anyway you spoke well on the topic

Indeed Mika,

 

that is surprising...