jondavids Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 I was on SA. There's a few littles in my area on there. Most talked about having a daddy and play time and the monthly allowance. Once the allowance stops, baby moves on. Just wondered what people think. I mean, you cannot get that close to your daddy if you're expecting an allowance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Déphysios Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 This is not a DDLG relationship. We are in a process of disguised prostitution, nothing more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jondavids Posted March 18, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 Thanks. When I read the way people talk on here and there, there just seemed phrases for show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BabyPeach Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 Sadly, being a "sugar baby" has become an option for young women these days. It has nothing to do with DDlg. Maybe some littles are given an allowance. I'm not. Heyyyyyyyyy, where's my allowance??? Hehe, I'm kidding. These aren't relationships, they're a financial agreement. Both people realize that they aren't in a relationship and that there should be no feelings involved. I don't consider being a "sugar baby" to be good for women, but that's just my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SUeB Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 (edited) That's not a relationship, that's prostitution As an adult, this girl earns her own "allowance" and would have it no other way. she is with Daddy/Master for His love, not His money. Yuk. The very thought. Prostitution is anyone's choice of course. The "yuk" is for those that try pretend to be something other than that, and still feel they are in any way entitled to demand money . (Master has instructed His girl to use 3rd person when referring to herself when appropriate, in case anyone is confused) Edited March 18, 2018 by SUeB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BabyPeach Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 That's not a relationship, that's prostitution As an adult, this girl earns her own "allowance" and would have it no other way. she is with Daddy/Master for His love, not His money. Yuk. The very thought. Prostitution is anyone's choice of course. The "yuk" is for those that try pretend to be something other than that, and still feel they are in any way entitled to demand money . (Master has instructed His girl to use 3rd person when referring to herself when appropriate, in case anyone is confused) You get an allowance? Hmmmmm. Maybe I'm supposed to be getting an allowance. *pouts* I didn't know that's how it's supposed to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaliGuurl Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 If you know anything about that site, you would know that most of the girls on there are not real. They have documentry about the guy who created it and he talks about how he had to fill the sites with bots because the ratio of men to woman were completely off. As someone who use to be a sugar baby, I can tell you that you're just misinterpreting what they're saying. If you're on SA looking for a ddlg relationship than that's what you're going to run into. It's a sugar site. Just because they use the term Daddy doesn't mean they're referring to a Daddy Dom or caregiver. They're clearly not. Just like SueB said, I too recieve an allowance from my Daddy. If you want a little that wants a relationship where an allowance is a factor, than you can find that without being on a site where people are specifically looking for a sugar daddy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Scatteredemotions Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 These aren't relationships, they're a financial agreement. I think this really hits the nail on the head. How could someone truly love you or feel that they're in a relationship with you if they begin to rely and depend on the allowance that their sugar daddy gives them. They can't. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neko Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 You get an allowance? Hmmmmm. Maybe I'm supposed to be getting an allowance. *pouts* I didn't know that's how it's supposed to be. She meant she has her own job which means its her own allowance. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BabyPeach Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 She meant she has her own job which means its her own allowance. Um, my own money would not be considered an allowance. I wouldn't allow anyone to tell me how to spend my own money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neko Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 Um, my own money would not be considered an allowance. I wouldn't allow anyone to tell me how to spend my own money. ...how dense can you be? I never said anywhere that anybody was telling her how to spend her money lmao 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Arc Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 This may be a silly question but what's SA? I've never heard of that before. I actually feel really uncomfortable when my Daddy gives me money. I was going to a movie once with friends and he gave me money for snacks as a reward for doing really well on my final exams, and I really struggled with it. We had to talk through it so I could realise it's okay when he wants to give it because I wasn't expecting or asking for it. It still didn't feel right to me. I'm big enough to be independent on those kinds of things. I'd feel insecure if my relationship with anyone was based on getting money. Either one of you could move on so easily, and that would make me uncomfortable. I like being stable. My Daddy and I are together because we love each other - not because of what he can give me. >< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDaddyest Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 What's SA? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest littleloveslars Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 I get an allowance but it has nothing to do with sex. It has to do with chores, and jobs I do at home, because I am a stay at home mom, with no income. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neko Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 SA = seeking arrangement. A site to rind sugar daddies/babies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDaddyest Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 ah. That's why i've never heard of it. I'm totally uninterested in sugar babies. that's putting it nicely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SUeB Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 You get an allowance? Hmmmmm. Maybe I'm supposed to be getting an allowance. *pouts* I didn't know that's how it's supposed to be.No, that's why it was in speech marks. This girl earns her own money. That's what that comment meant. A bit of sarcasm. And that's the beauty of us all having our own opinion. That we are free to express them. There is no "how things are supposed to be" for anyone other than the person expressing that opinion. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDaddyest Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 No, that's why it was in speech marks. This girl earns her own money. That's what that comment meant. A bit of sarcasm. And that's the beauty of us all having our own opinion. That we are free to express them. There is no "how things are supposed to be" for anyone other than the person expressing that opinion. Yay for opinions! Relevant to more than just this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TC95 Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 SA is a site set up to facilitate these financial arrangements, as BabyPeach so excellently put it. I have a friend that uses it as a way to make some additional money. Both sides of the party know they are not in a relationship. One person is buying the attention of the other. In my personal opinion, I don't have an issue with someone setting an allowance as part of the terms of his/her SA profile. One person is buying the attention of another and if that comes in the form of a monthly allowance then why not? My friend is paid by the date. The worst part about this, for me, is the bastardisation of DDlg terminology. As members of the community we know this is not how a DDlg relationship works, but the people on SA are not looking for a relationship. This is just how the conduct their business. Seeking Arrangements is not a dating site and should not be used as such. It is a way of connecting people with money with people looking to sell their time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThePoet Posted March 18, 2018 Report Share Posted March 18, 2018 Yay for opinions! Relevant to more than just this thread. Blocked! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Arc Posted March 19, 2018 Report Share Posted March 19, 2018 If that site is used to facilitate financial arrangements... then what else do you expect? If they're just there for money and whoever they're with stops giving money then I think it's probably normal for them to move on if it's just for money and not a dating site??? Anyway if that's what that site is for, and that's not what you want... logic says try another site that is for dating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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