Choosing Little’s foods.

[KedoG]

I know this might stir up some controversy so off the bat I would like to say that what works for my little and I does my work for all. We do have a written out contract that has changed over the years and nothing is non consensual. We agree to these terms and communicate when something is not working or wants to be changed. Negotiate.

 

My question is are there any daddies or Little’s that like their diet controlled or to control diet of their partner.

 

My little likes me to choose her foods. She will tell me what she is wanting and if she is wanting to change her diet at all. Or if she is wanting a treat. I have her write down daily what she has ate. We meal prep for her work week and if we are away she sends me pictures and things of what she has ate.

 

We also like using treats as punishment reward. No sweets for a week (and she loves them) or I will surprise her with something I’ve either picked up or baked for her if she has been good.

 

I always have her health in mind and for her she has a hard time saying no to brownies and chocolates so this system works wonders for us.

[Guest aphroditelaughs]

Yep, this is something I like a lot. I have pretty poor self control when it comes to snacking. Plus it can be difficult to make proper choices because I work a lot and go to school, so vending machines are tempting. Having someone to hold yourself accountable for is great motivation.

[Guest Dulci]

Edited June 19, 2018 by Dulci

[KedoG]

That’s great ha. Maybe you should teach him how to eat properly then!

[KedoG]

This system is not based solely on low will power this is also a very lax form of power play. My little has slave tendencies and likes the power exchange. She is not really into total power exchange though so for us this is a nice way of incorporating this element and keeping us satisfied.

[Guest SUeB]

Lots of people in the wide umbrella "kink" community do that. But i know more about diet and nutrition than He does, so that would be a constant area of contention if we even attempted it. Health, fitness and nutrition is my passion and my profession.

One of His rules is for me to eat healthily and get regular exercise, but that's not because i need guidance on it. Far from it. He just likes to keep an eye on me as those things are important to both of us. Plus i like doing it. Even though i have good knowledge and experience in this field, i still like to be held accountable.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i think this concept -- meal/food control or lack there of -- is a lot more common in this lifestyle than you may think! 

 

i rarely make any food choices at all anymore unless i specifically ask. my Dominants make most of my choices for me -- my live-in caregiver packs my lunch every day before work & we have most dinners together. my ldr chooses my breakfasts for me every week, along with my outfits. i don't have slave tendencies, but this lack of having to make the choice over what i eat every day is very freeing! i can usually change this -- since everything should be negotiable at some point in time -- if i'd like to choose my own meal if i'm out with family or i'm home alone, but i also really like sending dinner options to one of my partners to choose for me off of the menu when i'm out too! i tend to ask permission for snacks and meals. 

 

the bottom line here is this that this something that was mutually agreed upon by both parties. if this is something you both want, then it's definitely something that could add some flavor to your dynamic! but make sure that you are willing to rework these rules, & change them if that's what the situation calls for. 

[KedoG]

I agree that it is pretty common. We both have a group of friends close to where we live that we swap ideas with and how we do things. However i posted this as maybe being controversial to cover my own ass so to speak. Did not want to offend anyone.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

My Daddy strictly controls what and when I eat; I prefer he controls most things so food seems like a natural addition to the list of things he already governs. I like the accountability as well. We use one of those Myfitnesspal/lose it type apps that track nutrients/calories to keep track. 

[Kresaera]

I was actually considering asking my Daddy to do this for me, as I'm trying to lose a few pounds and I'm terrible at saying no to yummy foods that are not good for me (i.e. eating way too much dressing on a salad, extra mayo on sandwiches, etc.) and since I know he would hold me accountable, I think it would help.

[krystalfox]

I’ve never tried this before but I think I would actually like it. I mean, that would probably help me because I have a hard time eating healthy. I’m a college student, can’t cook a thing to save my life so I’ve had chips and milk chocolate for dinner a few times and I’m used to have stuff like chocolate for lunch or breakfast, so yeah, not healthy at all. But mostly I just eat sandwiches or microwaveable stuff because it’s easier. Doesn’t help the fact that I’m a picky eater when it comes to vegetables.

 

I think that could work really well as long as it respected my food allergies and overall preferences.

[Guest Arc]

This is something I personally like. I get to uni early and I work in the lab until late, so some days it's far too easy for me to skip breakfast and not have dinner until right before I go to bed. And when I have major assignments due it's so tempting to get fast food or eat tonnes of study snacks. ><

 

I've never had rules about specific foods, but I had guidelines. Like I had to eat three proper meals a day, and no treats or snacking on unhealthy food without permission. I know how to eat right and I know I should, but sometimes when things are going on the temptation of taking the easy way out seems so good. So it's nice to have someone else watching to make sure that one cheat meal doesn't turn into an entire cheat week >.>