MDLB/MDLG discussion/talk (no ddlb/Ddlg)

[Sexy_Mami]

I know how you feel man

[Sexy_Mami]

 

 

I'm an LB looking for a mommy. Wish there was more mommies in the community.

 

i wish i can help

 

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[Guest Babyprincess1505]

[MummyJade]

Hiya, im a Mummy, from uk 24 years old x

[michael pinello]

Ok I'm in the USA

[moondust mochi]

hi!

i absolutely don't want to be rude, or intrude on spaces that aren't for me,

but my Daddy is a woman; we just prefer Daddy over Mommy as a title. 

 

am i alright to chat here? 

 

[LoveChemistry]

[Chocodoll]

Hello everyone. I am a Mommy Domme, that is new to this. Always been curious, but decided that I should just jump on in.

I live in CA for now. I will be moving before the year is over to a city that has a NWSL team.

I am a lesbian.

Feel free to message me, or reply to this. Have a great rest of your day!

Hi! I’m also in Cali! I’m a female little looking for a mommy. Maybe we can chat a bit?

[Skeezix]

This is why I've been so reluctant to explore my lb side, I'm acutely aware that I'm unlikely to ever find an appropriate CG. Maybe someday, I'll just need to keep an open mind.

[Redneck-Kitty]

I made a FB group for Mommies/littles/middles cuz I feel like there is so much emphasis put on Daddy dynamics that Mommy dynamics are forgotten about, but MD/LG/lb is important too sp NO DADDIES ALLOWED on my group!! Feel free to check it out!! Be sure to answer the admittance questions!! 

 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/621365858369490/?ref=share

Edited November 6, 2022 by Redneck-Kitty

[Skeezix]

9 hours ago, Redneck-Kitty said:

I made a FB group for Mommies/littles/middles cuz I feel like there is so much emphasis put on Daddy dynamics that Mommy dynamics are forgotten about, but MD/LG/lb is important too sp NO DADDIES ALLOWED on my group!! Feel free to check it out!! Be sure to answer the admittance questions!! 

 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/621365858369490/?ref=share

Sounds awesome, but I stopped using facebook in 2007. I guess I could create an account, but I'm apprehensive about doing so. Is it a fairly active group?

[Redneck-Kitty]

4 hours ago, Skeezix said:

Sounds awesome, but I stopped using facebook in 2007. I guess I could create an account, but I'm apprehensive about doing so. Is it a fairly active group?

It's a very active group. Over 1,000 members

[Flame wolf]

I'm a bi Trans girl. My dream is to find a mommy since i lean heavily female, but without much luck I add daddies to my personals. It sucks

[MommyTara]

On 11/11/2022 at 5:00 AM, Flame wolf said:

I'm a bi Trans girl. My dream is to find a mommy since i lean heavily female, but without much luck I add daddies to my personals. It sucks

I'm sorry it's so hard for you. I really hope you find your mommy. 

[Redneck-Kitty]

It's so hard to find a mommy when you are disabled, chronically ill, and clingy AF. Mommies think your neediness to cute and endearing  at first, but it quickly becomes too much and you hear "I can't give you what you want/need" 

[Cranius]

Hallo meine Freunde (hello my friends),

Just a message of encouragement to all my MLDB/MDLG seeking friends out there— you’ll find what you’re looking for! It takes time.

It IS a rarer dynamic, but honestly? Connection trumps everything! If you connect with the right partner and they connect with you, you can make anything happen!

Dont give up!

Mit liebe und umarmungen (With love and hugs),

Joey

[Loveybunnygrl]

As a bi little I have found that there’s definitely a huge gap between ddlg and the other subsections and I was actually talking to a friend about this the other day, like I know there are mommies out there but I feel like the amount of ddlg on here kind of overpowers it ive found maybe 1/2 mommies in personals but about a million daddies

Edited Monday at 08:18 PM by Loveybunnygrl

[MissAnna]

I was a Mommy Dom for over 20years and I promise there are so many mommies on here they are just in hiding that's all 

[BabyPoppy]

I know there's Mommys here, but I agree it is much more difficult to find them and build connections.   I look for friends in general... it's easier on my little heart 💕 Plus I really don't know who I want for a Caregiver...a mommy or the other....

My best experience with a Caregiver was with a Mommy/switch. We connected so well and she had the right balance of support and discipline without being harsh that I needed. She took the time to listen to me and teach me about being little, my needs and how to advocate for myself. She taught me to see through the lies I believed about myself to who I am. She taught me how to accept myself as a little and how to be ok being little as part of my identity, not a role I play. 

I miss her, it only lasted few months, but it impacted me deeply. She was my friend, mentor, Mommy. It ended over 6 months ago, but the gift of knowing her will stay with me for a long time. 

[Little kaiya]

My Daddy and I find Mommies more likely to reach out to us since we're in an exclusive relationship  and neither of us are looking for a partner. A lot of the Mommies we talk with share how disheartening it is to be objectified and seen just as a role versus a person.

We've helped some connect with their current partners because both sides wanted to get to know each other as adults first, friends and then partners if there was enough in common.

Honestly, I'm not surprised more Mommies tend to fly under the radar as when they speak out so many people jump on their posts to try and fulfill a fantasy vs responding to talj with another adult that may have shared interests.