Feeling insecure

[Guest xrocketpup]

HI guys

 

I am feeling super insecure about my choice in lifestyle. It's like a hard pill to swallow.  Idk, I just feel so isolated and alone where I am at. I have no one to play with, and my insecurities are bringing me down.

 

I LOVE my experience so far into my interest in diaper wearing, but the titles and putting myself in a box "thing" is really bringing me down.

 

I am struggling doing this thing by myself. Maybe because its so new, and I am not yet secure in my own comfortablity for it.  I can "Rock it" as Rocket, my pup persona, but I have been working on that side for years, with and without people in it. I also had my old dungeon to visit, to have acceptance and to get what I needed.

I guess I am realizing that I am not getting what I need out of this, at least to some degree. I LOVE wearing but the social aspect is totally lacking and its really bringing me down.

 

Sorry for the sad post. I just really need some friends right now. and you guys understand me, and "get" it.

 

 

*wags and kisses*

 

Rocket

[Guest PrincessSparkles35]

*hugs* i know i went through a time where it was hard accepting my little side and felt i was doing something wrong. I still get insecure sometimes but its getting better. I know one of the hardest things to do is accepting ourselves.

 

I think your a really nice perdon and great friend. Try not to stress on what others think cause i bet they have lots of stuff they feel nervous about too.

[SmolAetherr]

i have to admit, i don't get it, i dont share the view that labels are a bad thing, they exist to communicate and summarise people, its like finding a book in a library its just easier when you can name a genre or taste and have people direct you to where you want to go

 

but labels are there to serve people, if you feel like you dont fit well so what?

 

humans like to find patterns and organise our lives its one of the reasons we are at the top of the food chain

but human are also alot more complex than a few labels so dont let them be all you are, they were never ment to be the sum of a person, just an expediant way of understanding who you are and finding people who think/feel/want the same things

Edited January 6, 2020 by Aetherr